1. There is no one perfect diet.
What works for me may not work for you. It is important to find out what your body needs to get into balance. If you want to lose weight and heard that going raw is the best thing to do but have difficulty digesting raw veggies (it gives you gas, bloating, you don't enjoy it, etc.), going raw probably isn't where you should start. Focus instead on digestive enhancing foods like raw sauerkraut and healing your gut, look at the bigger picture of what's going on with your health, and I'll bet that the weight will start to naturally fall off, too. Then you will not only feel better, but be more motivated to continue making changes to your healthy eating plan and lifestyle.
We often have these ideas of what is "good" or "bad" to eat. Like I said raw foods is not for everyone, I can't eat that way. At the same time neither is being vegan or eating like a cave man. Not everyone needs to be gluten free either but with the problems in our digestive system and the way they grow the wheat it may be a good place to start.
You want to eat the optimal diet that's right for your unique body, at this particular point in your life.
2. It's an ongoing process of trial and error.
If you've been trying different ways of eating and still feel like you haven't got it figured out you are not alone. It is a process of trial and error to find out what your body needs at any given time.
Even with doctor visits, lab tests, nutrition software, food journals, willpower - it still takes trial and error, and that process is always going to be ongoing. If you find you have some food sensitivities it is not enough to remove those foods, you also want to bring in some healing elements to correct the problem. Removing certain foods is a great place to being begin to relieve some digestive and hormonal problems but you may need more.
Shameless plug :) ---> This is where it's helpful to work with a coach, someone who can help you to pinpoint where you may have deficiencies, what you can do to heal, and then how to make it all fit into the context of your busy lifestyle with a concrete, customized, step by step action plan.
3. Stop Beating Yourself Up
Instead of beating yourself up about not losing weight or succumbing to your cravings, ask yourself, "How can I make this process more enjoyable? What am I really craving right now?"
Most cravings are not only emotional but have a physical element involved. It is not your fault. Be gentle to yourself. Listen to yourself, ask for guidance.
4. Set Up Your Kitchen for Healthy Eating
Health begins in the kitchen. In fact what is in your refrigerator and pantry has a direct link to your overall well-being.
When you have a well-stocked pantry making food for yourself is like water flowing down stream, it is easy. Whether you are following a recipe or just making something up, having lots of healthy ingredients at your disposal makes it easy to feed yourself with healthy food. You will at the very least be able to make a green smoothie or instant miso soup.
Here is a video of what is in my pantry and refrigerator.
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My Pantry and Refrigerator |
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