Changing how you say "I love you" � it really works

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Kim DeMotte's Monthly thoughts on the value of Clarity, Trust, and the Human Interaction

Volume 4 Issue 12 December, 2011

High Definition Trust, Understanding and Camaraderie
Reduce Struggle � Dissipate Conflict � Improve Relationships � Relieve Stress

In This Issue

Surviving the Season

Who Loves ya, Baby?

Archives

"When someone is impatient and says, "I haven't got all day," I always wonder, How can that be? How can you not have all day?"

~George Carlin

Greetings!

Anticipation

Moment of Clarity, December, 2011 - Anticipation

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Surviving the Season

In this season where we all try to get along, we all try to love each other, we all try to tolerate our visiting relatives, I offer this survival technique: Work On Wondering, or WOW. (Read more)....

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Who Loves ya, Baby?

In the chick flick Eat, Pray, Love, Julia Roberts' character (a confused middle-aged woman looking for something that I never quite figured out) tells Javier Bardem's character, "I don't have to love you to prove I love myself." At this point in the movie, most reviewers poked a finger down their throats and gagged, but I found a usable message that we can all use to improve the relationships with the people we love. (Read more).....

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How does Rally co-driving prepare you for improving performance in teams and executives?

I am a Rally Co-driver in several series in the Western Hemisphere. You can read about my racing history at my rally website. When I am competing, it is my job to corral all the best performances from myself, the driver, the mechanics and any other members of the crew supporting us for the weekend. As you can imagine, as in any racing, egos are strong, tensions are high, and the atmosphere is ripe for interpersonal conflict.

I have a track record of co-driving for racers of any caliber (National Champions to first event novices) and delivering results that exceed their expectations.

For the rest of my living, I coach executives in leadership and team dynamics; teams in developing higher levels of trust, understanding and camaraderie; and individuals in making changes supportive of getting what they want in life. In this arena too, I have a reputation for delivering results that exceed their expectations.

HDClarity is an e-zine for those wanting to develop more of that trust, understanding and camaraderie in their work environment, and their life in general. A smoother running team is a more profitable team. It get things done faster, for less cost.

If you'd like to share some of these insights for developing High Definition Clarity in your daily and business life, please forward this email.

"There is a clear and present danger.....when you are neither clear nor present."

Saving civilization (or your team) one conversation at a time.