November 2013
 

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Happy Thanksgiving! 

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This month we've gathered some of our latest posts, new additions to our resource lists (including our popular "Low Cost, No Cost Resources") and also brought back a few of our all-time favorites to help you during this holiday season.

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Siblings

 

I was blind to how
my actions were affecting
my brother and two sisters.

~Joe Herzanek

  
Siblings: The Forgotten Ones
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For some families, holidays are just another excuse to get together to eat good food and to have a good time. They're not looking for articles like this one because they've somehow figured out the formula for successful family togetherness with minimum stress. If you have a challenging family, it's only human to be a bit jealous to see other folks living out the holiday fantasy when you're just trying to live through it.

This article "10 tops for Surviving Holidays with the Dysfunctional Family" is full of great info. READ MORE

 

 

 
 

 

OPTIMISTIC . . . even if only for a few moments.

I've watched Nikki from afar. She has overcome a life-destroying meth addiction, established a new "fairy tale" life in the mountains of Colorado; was on top of the world as she celebrated her first Christmas in decades with her two grown sons. Then suddenly without warning, her world was shattered.  
~Judy Herzanek

 

 

 
 
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Many thanks to our friend Sandy Swenson for sharing her blog post with us.
"If the addict is pleased with your help, you're probably enabling. If the addict is pissed as hell, you're probably helping the person you love."
Most enablers are well-intentioned. We act out of kindness, not realizing we've been lured to the tip of the skewer by the addict.
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*Disclaimer: The information provided in this email is for educational purposes only. The views expressed herein are those of the author only. Knowing that each person's situation is different it is very important that you meet with/consult a professional in this field before acting on any perceived advice given.

Chaplain Joe Herzanek, (Certified Addiction Professional, CAC ll)
President: Changing Lives Foundation
Providing families in crisis with over 30 years of real-life, hands-on experience and success.

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