I've had many clients through the years say they wish they had remodeled their homes sooner. Some built additions after the children were grown and gone, and wish the children had been able to enjoy the new space. Others renovated just before putting their house on the market, and regret not being able to enjoy the improvements themselves. In most cases, it was fear of the remodeling process that kept them from starting earlier.

Does the thought of remodeling your home cause you to break out in a cold sweat and your eye to start twitching? If so, you may be one of the millions of American homeowners who suffer from Remodelophobia-fear of remodeling! It's nothing to be embarrassed about-it shows up in the best of families. There is hope, however. With courage, persistence, and professional help, you can soon be on your way to remodeling your home with confidence.

First, realize that fear is natural and healthy. It can keep you out of trouble. The problem with fear is that it may keep you from doing things you really need to do. Do you remember when you were learning to ride a bicycle? In my case, I don't know which was worse-the fear of getting hurt or the fear of looking foolish in front of my friends. But, because learning to ride was so important to me, it forced me to work through the fear, and keep trying until I could ride. Was it worth it? Absolutely.

Since remodeling is a complicated process, it is normal to be wary. It is common for people to worry about being "ripped off", making bad decisions, spending too much, or being disappointed with the results.

1. Start by making a list of your fears. You may find that your list is relatively short and manageable.
2. Fear is usually based in lack of understanding-fear of the unknown.
3. Knowledge is power. Educate yourself about the process, and look for a mentor-a friend or acquaintance who has had experience (good or bad) to help advise you on what to expect, and what to watch out for.
4. There is a great deal of useful information available online about home remodeling. Remodeling Magazine has a website called Remodeling Online where  you can find the Cost vs. Value report unter Facts & Figures.  The National Association of the Remodeling Industry's NARI site and National Association of Home Builders NAHB site have articles of advice on how to find a contractor, what remodeling projects cost, and advice on how to get started.

Click here to read the rest of this blog with tips to managing your remodeling fears by Larry Parrish, CR, CGR, CAPS, GACP. As always, we appreciate you posting your comments.  Also refer to:  How to Hire a Remodeling Contractor posted May 19, 2010