July 2016
   
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Leading Change -Steps 7&8
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Friends and Colleagues,

 

I write this in the wake of the shooting and violence of the last two weeks.  If we who are white haven't been aware of our white privilege and the helpless feelings of African-Americans, we must face our sin.  If you are looking for some good books, read The New Jim Crow

 (reviewed here) and Between the World and Me (reviewed here). 

We are in an election year having to choose between Donald Trump one the one hand and Hillary Clinton on the other.  I think Trump is a reckless bigot who, appealing to the basest fears and hatreds, wants to blow everything up to get the change he wants.  On the other hand is Hillary Clinton who, though she has many good accomplishments, is seen as untrustworthy by a majority of Americans.  


 

Whether we are dealing with racism at home or international violence or poverty anywhere, people are anxious.  I think people are looking for leaders who can lead change with integrity and courage.  And faith.


 

I am confident that you are a leader seeking to make a difference in your community.


 

My lead article completes insights from John Kotter's research and writing on how to lead change.  

 

This month's resource features a most insightful book about bringing a church back from almost certain death.

 

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Here's to clarity about how God is leading us!  

Peace,      
Bob  


Leading Change - Steps 7 & 8
 
Perhaps I'm getting crotchety but I get increasingly impatient with pastors and other church leaders who whine that they just can't get people in their churches to change anything and so their churches seem to be declining.  I think that attitude is a cop-out or laziness or a sign of deep spiritual commitment - or all three.
 
This is why I've focused all of my 2016 newsletters on leading change.  I realize that you, who read this newsletter, are likely leading change in your congregations already.  Please know that I'm cheering you on.  I share my insights to help you be even more effective.
 
In case you forgot, here's a recap of what I've written in the three newsletters that preceded this one.  I have been using ideas adapted from John Kotter's steps for leading change. 
 
Here are the steps I've covered so far - along with brief examples:
 
1.  Increase urgency - you and leaders are clear that something must change.  The church treasurer or someone from the outside has made it clear that if present trends continue, you'll be out of business in five years.  You have vividly demonstrated this unpleasant reality to the congregation using pictures, charts, talks by key leaders, etc.
 
2.  Build the guiding team - Key leaders, both on and off the governing board, understand that things must change.  They are willing to spend the time necessary to set a new direction.  Individually, they commit to grow spiritually.
 
3.  Get the vision right - based on biblical and theological foundation stones, demographic studies, conversations with people in the community, and study about what makes for vital congregations,  you get a clear sense of God's yearning for your congregation in your community at this time.  You paint a vivid picture of what you think God envisions for you, being as specific as possible.  You set measurable, realizable goals, and devise a plan or plans.  You set priorities.
 
4.  Communicate for buy-in - through sermons, other presentations in worship, increased study in your board, and congregational forums, you build a sense of ownership involving at least 80% of the church.  People are able to describe God's call in a few clear sentences, and identify priorities.
 
5.  Empower action - you form task forces, small groups, and hire new staff as necessary to implement your plans.  For example, if you have decided that increasing attendance is a top priority, you may work with congregational greeters and others to be more hospitable.  You may remodel the pre-school.  You may use less churchy jargon in your Sunday bulletin (and may not even call it a bulletin, rather a program). 
 
6.  Create short-term wins - you find low hanging fruit, i.e. easy accomplishments.  If you haven't been paying attention to newcomers and they never return, you will find that spending some time really welcoming them pays huge dividends.  If you've avoided preaching about enthusiastic giving to do the work of the Lord and you start doing so, you may be very surprised at increased generosity (especially if some of those who tithe tell about what giving for the Lord's work means to them). 
 
Suddenly things are happening.  Attendance increases.  There's a new sense of the Holy Spirit moving in your congregation.  You and other leaders have more energy.  You aren't just playing at church.  You're being the Church of Christ, embodying a bit of Christ in your community!  Spiritually hungry people are drawn to you!
 
Now, as things are happening, it's time for the next steps:
7.  Don't let up
8.  Make change stick
 
I think of a vital program sized church which is bustling with excitement.  Members are enthusiastically involved in hands-on mission.  Sermons are relevant and insightful.  Church members in vital positions in government or the private sector are led to think theologically about their faith and work.  30 or 40 children come forward for the children's time on most Sundays.  Worship offers both fine classical church music and also a variety of newer forms of music, especially in the Taize and folk tradition.  It is both biblically based and progressively oriented, welcoming all, "wherever they are on their spiritual journey."
 
Arguably, it's a church where pastors and board could rest on their laurels.  They've accomplished a lot.  It would be easy to let up and be a comfortable suburban church.
 
But they didn't take a siesta.  They initiated a partnership with a Palestinian church in Jerusalem.  They set in motion a year-long series of "Sacred Conversations" about race and why "Black Lives Matter."  They have begun some joint worship services with an African-American Baptist Church.  On Memorial Day weekend, they celebrated and had conversations with military veterans and former Peace Corps volunteers.
 
They make the changes stick by celebrating what they have done, who God has led them to be, and emphasizing what more might be done.
 
You have probably read about the typical life cycle of a congregation.  See Rendle and Mann's Holy Conversations for more detail or read a summary in my book (page 127).  They note that congregations have somewhat predictable life cycles, beginning with spiritual enthusiasm and growth and finally dying of rigidity and institutional boredom.  If your church has made it through step 6, then it can become too easy to take a rest. 
 
Paradoxically, this time of triumph is also a time of temptation and danger.  Think of the gospel's account of Jesus' s temptations.  Satan didn't tempt him in his weakness but precisely in his power!  An all too familiar weakness of political and religious leaders is to believe the great things their supporters say about them and get careless or think they are above rules that apply to ordinary mortals.
 
So, if you are doing well - maybe even great - take note.  Don't let up.  Make the changes you have made stick.  Be aware of the new challenges and opportunities that the Lord is offering you!  Make sure that the new norms of deepened spirituality, hospitality, and commitment become part of the congregation's fabric.
 
Recall that in his book The Heart of Change, John Kotter stresses that "The single most important message in this book is very simple.  People change what they do less because they are given analysis than because they are shown a truth that influences their feelings."  He and co-author Dan Cohen tell stories of how leaders have helped people see the need for a change, grab their feelings, and that this impels them to act.  Real change doesn't come from gathering a book or Bible study group to intellectualize about how things might change.  Change that lasts involves people seeing and feeling.
 
For more information about John Kotter's study, see his website: http://www.kotterinternational.com/the-8-step-process-for-leading-change/
 
Regardless of what change needs to happen, take heart.  You can make a difference.  Draw from Kotter's insights.  Let the Spirit energize you to lead your congregation into lasting change.
 
If you would like some coaching about how you might increase the urgency and lead change, please get in touch with me.
 
If you would like some help to grow as a leader, I encourage you to consider coaching, either one on one or in a group.  Most of my coaching is done by phone in order to minimize commuting but I make exceptions.  Further, phone coaching makes it possible for me to have clients who live many miles away. 

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Resources - books and other resources that have been helpful 

Real Good Church: How Our Church Came Back from the Dead, and Yours Can, Too -  by Molly Phinney Baskette

"If people choose to go to church in this day and age, it's not for lack of other social options. If all they want is friends and activities, Meetup can deliver that more specifically and efficiently than any church. Which is not to say that friendship/ fellowship is not a tremendously important part of the way we engage whenever we come together as church! But it's not the first or most important part. The first and most important part is spiritual formation. Spiritual formation is about our relationship with God, about learning what it might mean to be a follower of Jesus, about learning to deal with anxiety and worry/ vocational questions/ money/ sex/ relationships/ parenting/ etc. in a holy way. It is giving people the right shoes and gear to take their spiritual journey to a new level." (from Chapter 2)
 
This is an inspirational book for any who are struggling to lead a church with an aging membership in a changing neighborhood, coupled with an old building.  Baskette describes how, when she came to First Congregational Church in Somerville, MA, worship averaged about 35 in an old building.  When she wrote the book about a decade later, worship averaged around 130 with 350 on high holy days! 
 
I described some of her approach in my May Newsletter.  If you haven't read it, do so!
 
The paragraph with which I lead this review captures such a key notion: people have so many opportunities for community.  It's not "fellowship" people need.   A couple of years ago I felt like throwing up when I saw a church's publicity banner saying "Come Fellowship with Us!"
 
If all people want is a lively time, they can go to a bar.  But those seeking something deeper need a real good authentic church to explore and grow in their faith!
 
Using a delightful writing style, she describes many specific steps she and leaders took to turn this hospice case around.  Baskette demonstrates that hard work, creativity, and, above all, a renewed dedication to following Jesus will turn a church around. 
 
I commend this book to you and other leaders in your congregation.



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What books or resources have you found
 helpful?  I'd be glad (with available space) to share your reviews and/or suggestions.  
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