ALOU2A Life of Unlearning
A journey to find the  truth

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Greetings!

It's been a busy time (hence no newsletter for a while). Much has been happening.

 

It seems like there has been a shift and change is accelerating.

 

The recent scandal and outing of NSW politician, David Campbell, was one of the worst pieces of gutter journalism we have seen in recent times. Shame on the journalist for thinking David Campbell's sexuality was newsworthy and shame on Channel 7 for airing the trashy story. It served no purpose in the public interest. As the story unfolded, it seems the only motivation was a vindictive, malicious agenda of payback.

 

Here is the interesting thing though. It backfired and nearly 80% of Australian's said the story should never have been aired and that David Campbell's sexuality had nothing to do with his performance as a politician.  This reflects just how far we have come in this country in understanding sexuality and an increasing level of acceptance. There was a time when the majority of Australians would have been appalled that the man was a homosexual. Whilst the closeted life of a man in a heterosexual marriage is a tragic situation for all concerned, it is a phenomena created by a less informed society of ignorance about sexual orientation; a left over from the previous century. In some cultures, geographic areas and religious circles there is still an enormous pressure to conform, appear 'normal' and get married. But as a whole, we have moved on. It took me most of my life to sort out the conflict between my faith and sexuality but we now have young people (Telling Our Stories) resolving the issue of their sexuality and coming out in their mid to late teens. They won't be getting married to try and fix their 'problem' or feel the need to have a wife and children to be accepted by society.

 

We work towards the day when all people will be able to live authentically, , no matter what their sexual orientation or gender identity, without the judgement and condemnation of others.. Bring it on I say!!!!!!!


Anthony Venn-Brown
An Ambassador for the LGBT community (amongst other things)

In This Issue
Adventist Forum
AVB to speak at Tabor College
Melbourne Seminar
New Website
YouTube Video Resources
Social Networking
Specific Coaching for Gay and Lesbian Clients and those Questioning their Sexual Identity
Quick Links
Website
GLB? Coaching
Blog
Three Free Chapters
Ex-gay Oz & NZ
The Great Heresy
Creating Change
Freedom 2 b[e] Forum
Summary

1. Seventh Day Adventist Forum on Homosexuality July 10

I've just received an invitation to speak at this forum. Read more below.

 

2. Tabor College Melbourne July 14

Tabor is one of the leading Pentecostal/Charismatic/Evangelical Bible colleges in Australia. I have been invited to join the team of lecturers for a week intensive on Spirituality and Sexuality. This is the first time an openly gay man has been allowed to speak within this context. Read more below.

 

3. Melbourne Seminar 17July - Homosexuality, Christianity and the Church - resolving the conflicts'

Hosted by East Doncaster Baptist Church. Early Bird Special closes soon. Read more below.

 

4. New website

I have created a new website that has all the services I provide as an ambassador for the LGBT community....all in one place. This includes seminars, training, church consultancy, coaching, speaking and lecturing. Check it out. Let me know what you think. Feedback welcome. More information below.

 

Walking Between Worlds - working effectively with LGBT people from faith backgrounds

ACON, in Sydney will be hosting this training seminar later in August. The half day training is highly relevant to LGBT community workers, social workers, mental health professionals, school counsellors, chaplains and LGBT liaison officers. Training details here. Please click on this link info@anthonyvennbrown.com to be notified of details of date and venue.

 

Sydney Seminar - Homosexuality, Christianity and the Church - resolving the conflicts'

Date and venue to be advised. To register your interest please click on this link info@anthonyvennbrown.com

 

St James Anglicans

St James Anglican Church in the city has been a welcoming and affirming church for many years now. I will be meeting with the young adults on Sunday afternoon for a

discussion on the crisis of faith and dark night of the soul......then taking them on a tour of Hillsong in the evening for the Hillsong Experience.

 

Ghana

Have you read my article on Ghana Oooops.....we meant you to cure them .....not kill them

SDA1. Homosexuality: Seeking an adequate Seventh Day Adventist response
Introduction
It is now over 10 years since Sydney Adventist Forum last focussed on the plight of the LGBT community within our Church, with a memorable address by Dr Dorothy McCrae McMahon.  Over this period there has been no audible Australian Adventist discussion on this topic at all except Nathan Brown's editorial and David Potter's review of Christianity and Homosexuality: Some Seventh-day Adventist Perspectives in theRecord of Oct 4, 2008.  Meanwhile, homosexuals, particularly young people, continue to struggle within Adventism, with many leaving.  In addition, many non-homosexuals are experiencing a growing disappointment over their Church's

Speakers: Ms Penny DavisDr Arthur PatrickDr Graham Stacey, Dr Lynden Rogers, Ms Sharyn CameronMr Anthony Venn-BrownDr Wendell Rosevear

All-day Seminar     9:45 am - 4:15 pm

Sabbath July 10, 2010,

Venue: Pennant Hills Bowling Club, 52 Yarrara Rd, Pennant Hills

tabor2. Tabor Bible College, Melbourne 'Spirituality & Sexuality' July 14

There is a growing climate of questioning in many Pentecostal and Evangelical circles in Australia. The first question people are asking is 'has the churches attitude towards the LGBT community been Christlike' and the second is 'Do we need to look again at our beliefs about homosexuality'.

 

This questioning journey is reflected in situations like the 100 Revs (a 100 ministers who signed an apology to the LGBT community and marched twice in the Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras parade) where five Pentecostal ministers signed the apology. Ps Rob Buckingham, of Bayside Church in Melbourne preached a message in his church last year 'Real Christianity is Accepting' saying the LGBT people were welcome in his Church. To have a Pentecostal minister not only preach a message like this but receive a standing ovation from his congregation would have to be a global first.  I have a strong sense that Australia is going to lead global change in some of these areas.

 

In Melbourne there are at least a dozen Baptist churches which have become affirming.

 

Anthony Venn-Brown SexualityWhilst some feel threatened when traditional beliefs are questioned or challenged others feel that to question is not doubting  but being open to the possibility of greater understanding. Tabor College Victoria is looking at the spectrum of sexuality with a week's intensive Spirituality and Sexuality

Speakers include: Dr. Cheryl Catford, Dr Allan Meyer, Ms Cath McKinney, Anthony Venn-

Brown, Rowan Lewis, Dr Art Wouters , Dr Tom Edwards and Dr John Capper.

 

I will be lecturing on the topic

An alternative approach to sexual orientation, gender diversity and Christian faith


We applaud those who are willing to exist in the space of questioning because it is there that we make discoveries, learn and grow. It is not without cost though. As I said recently in an email to a minister who was personally attacked because they dared to share their beliefs.

 

Thanks so much for standing with us. It means a lot.

 

I'm sorry to hear that you been attacked for stating what you currently believe and for your actions.

 

When we look at the life of Jesus in the gospels we see a man who was also attacked. He was the great rule breaker and was constantly attacked by the conservatives and religious leaders of the day for mixing with wrong people and going to the wrong places. Does that sound familiar?

 

Jesus saw human beings not labels. His life and parables constantly remind us who are neighbours and how we can practically live out the command 'Love your neighbour as you love yourself'.

 

Phariseeism is alive and well in the church of the 21st century and some continue to judge, condemn and separate themselves from people. I still find it surprising that Christians who claim to be people of the Word can't see the similarities happening today.

 

I'm not sure this will be of enormous comfort but worth mentioning anyway.

 

When anyone from the Christian church actually stands on the side of the LGBT community they experience hostility, vilification, judgment and personal attack. By standing with us though you get to experience something that is an everyday experience for many gay and lesbian people. 85% of gay men and lesbians experienced harassment or violence during their lifetime, with one in four gay men and lesbians being physically attacked.  Not for anything they have done but simply for being who they are. In the eyes of the attacker they are abnormal outsiders who do not deserve to be treated like everyone else, that is, with dignity and respect. This is not a special right the LGBT community are asking for, it is a basic human right. Thank you for being like Jesus and being willing to show unconditional love.

 

And once we have a new consciousness or understanding we are empowered. It's impossible to retreat to a place of ignorance. Too much is at stake. TRUTH. And it was Jesus who said you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.

hccrtc3. Melbourne Seminar 17 July (Early Bird Special Closes Soon)

Homosexuality, Christianity and the ChurchHomosexuality, Christianity and the Church - resolving the conflicts' is a seminar that helps people find answers to one of the most controversial issues the church has faced in recent times. Not too long ago the concept of being a gay and Christian was impossible to comprehend; the term 'gay Christian' an oxymoron. In 1968, one man dared to believe that his sexual orientation didn't mean he was automatically destined for hell and that God loved him unconditionally. Since that time the number of voices has increased to many 10,000's along with a growing number of LGBT Pentecostal, Charismatic and Evangelical churches. Every year the number of mainstream churches and denominations welcoming LGBT people increases. Once non-existent, the gay Christian movement is now strong, growing and vibrant.

 

'Homosexuality, Christianity and the Church - resolving the conflicts' provides relevant information, insights and clarity. The seminar assists individuals and churches to be more informed about faith/sexuality issues by looking at underlying cultural influences, real and perceived barriers and practical models for change. Each topic is covered in one hour in a respectful environment with an opportunity for questions.

 

This seminar is relevant for:

1. LGBT people from Christian backgrounds

2. Heterosexual friends and family

3. Churches who want to be more informed and create a space of acceptance for LGBT people

4. Church leadership teams who want a safe space to explore LGBT issues

 

PROGRAM:

  • Homosexuality and the Church - Why we got it SO wrong.Ten reasons why Christ-loving Christians have been in error about sexual orientation. The enemy has been ignorance.
  • Specific issues faced by LGBT people from faith backgrounds and how to resolve them. LGBT people from faith backgrounds experience the usual issues of resolution, coming out, finding their place in the community and learning what it means to be gay or lesbian in a straight world. However they often experience these things with greater intensity and have additional issues to deal with.
  • Sodom, Leviticus, Romans 1 and I Corinthians 6:9. What are they really saying? Often referred to as the 'clobber passages', there are only six passages in the Bible that refer to same-sex activity and assumed to speak about a homosexual orientation. Looking at these few verses in the light of the historical and cultural contexts and the original languages, we get a very different picture.
  • The times they are a changin' There is a new climate of questioning in many Pentecostal and Evangelical circles. Creating a Space for Change is a model that is facilitating this process.
  • Question time
EARLY BIRD SPECIAL CLOSES SOON
Discounts for couples, previous attendees and concessions.

More details and registration click here
website4. New Website: LGBT Training, Consultin, Coaching
Anthony Venn-Brown

Have a look at my new website. Let me know what you think. Feedback welcome.

It has details of:
  • Walking Between Worlds - working effectively with LGBT people from faith backgrounds. This half day training is suitable for LGBT community workers, social workers, mental health professionals, school counsellors, chaplains and LGBT liaison officers.
  • Homosexuality, Christianity and the Church - resolving the conflicts. This one day seminar is suitable for Churches and LGBT people from Christian backgrounds.
  • Church consultancy. Pastoral teams, leadership teams, whole church training, denominational
  • Conferences
  • Lectures
  • Small group work
  • One on one coaching available for LGBT people and those questioning their sexual identity
  • Custom designed programs
Videos and Resources on YouTube

Total channel here.

  1. ALOU Launch 2004 Rebekah & Hannah Part 1 See my wonderful daughters make over 300 people laugh and cry in the space of a couple of minutesALOU Launch 2004 Anthony Venn Brown Part 2 Obviously I was speaking prophetically in 2004 its now happened over and over again.

  2. Anthony Venn-Brown on 7's Sunrise - Everyday Peopleis probably one of the best interviews I've done. Channel 7 liked it so much they played again on the Morning Show.

  3.  Anthony Venn-Brown Comes Out on Shine. Dean Carey, Director of Actors Centre Australia, interviews gay ambassador Anthony Venn-Brown on Shine along with singer David Campbell. Meet my lovely daughters

  4. Gay Ambassador Anthony Venn-Brown interviewed on Queer TV . Anthony Venn-Brown talks about his journey, being a gay ambassador, his 50th birthday, the new edition of his autobiography, a conversation with the Hon. Michael Kirby and meeting with the Assemblies of God.

  5. Honey I'm gay!  Sydney Morning Heralds Sexpert, Brooke Hemphill, interviews Coach & Author Anthony Venn-Brown. "It's better to live one day on the planet being true to yourself than an entire lifetime which is a lie." "When we choose to live authentically, we chip away at others prisons' of pretend." "I'd rather be rejected for who I am, than accepted for who I'm not."

  6. Being Gay in a Heterosexual Marriage - Channel 7 Sunrise . Coach and Author Anthony Venn-Brown speaks on Australia's national breakfast show, Channel 7's Sunrise about being gay but in a heterosexual marriage. For many of us, being gay, lesbian or bisexual in a heterosexual marriage was not a choice of intentional deception. Our marriages were the result of the pressure to conform. Some of us grew up in a society where homosexuality was considered a perversion or psychologic.al illness. When we married, we did so believing it was the right thing to do and expecting it would change what we perceived was faulty within us. Was the current knowledge on sexual orientation available to us then, our choices would have been different.

  7.  Dad's Coming Out 60 Minutes Pt 1 . What do you do if you are gay but in heterosexual marriage? What about the wife and kids? Is it worthwhile coming out? Who gets hurt? How to move on? What about the parents when their child comes out?

  8.  Dad's Coming Out - 60 Minutes Pt 2

  9. Coming soon ABC's  'Hungry Beast'

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