Newsletter for Writers - October 2013
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Early Registration Advised
Spaces Are Limited
Announcing 2014 dates
for weekend retreats
at Montreat Conference Center
Visit the Calendar of Eventsto view upcoming dates.More information and registration details coming soon. Alumni Retreat! Fearless Writing on the Blue Ridge Retreat for WomenOct. 27--Nov. 3, 2013Lake Logan Conference CenterCanton, NC
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From the Book
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We must learn to write for ourselves first with commitment to our own expression.
Only through our willingness to explore the lessons of our experience are our words able to touch anyone deeply, no matter what we write.
Life demands that we truly experience our inner lives in order to value them.
Writing demands that we value our inner lives before releasing them to the outer world through our writing.
Attending to these two demands--of life and of writing--requires nurturing our relationships with ourselves.
Peggy Tabor Millin's Women, Writing, and Soul-Making: Creativity and the Sacred Feminine
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Peggy's Monthly Reminder
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Practice Makes Possible Practice. Practice. Practice. Process before product.Writing requires silence, solitude, space, and the courage and awareness to search our shadow side.Write from the belly, not the brain; write from the heart, not the head.The body with its intuition and our willingness to listen to what the body says are our greatest assets as writers.Writing and publishing are not the same thing. If we write, we are writers. If we publish what we write, we are published writers. A published writer is not a better writer. A published writer is simply a writer who is published.-Peggy Tabor Millinexcerpts from Women, Writing, and Soul-Making
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Asheville Fall Color Report Read about Fall 2013 activities in and around Asheville and find the best spots for enjoying the fall colors.
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Upcoming Events
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For the latest updates and events, visit Peggy's Calendar of Events.
Dates for 2014 retreats updated regularly.
Stay tuned for registration information and updates.
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Wordly Wise from Peggy Tabor Millin |
Becoming Visible
To be human is to become visible
while carrying what is hidden as a gift to others.
David Whyte
What to Remember on Waking
This line of poetry stops me in my tracks every time I read it. It awakens a deep yearning to know while reminding me that any truth I uncover is only true if freely shared.
As writers we must be visible. This realization is what scares us. After all, we have spent years erecting images, beliefs, and constructs to live by and more years defending and guarding these same images, beliefs, and constructs so we won't be seen for the charlatans and failures we fear we are. To write means we cannot hide because we always write ourselves, whether we write humor or sermons, chick lit or dissertations.
To be visible means to be vulnerable. Vulnerability usually makes us squirm with discomfort. But, as the Zen teacher Cheri Huber says, "Nobody ever died of uncomfortable."
 If we accept that writers must risk being visible, what is it that Whyte says we carry hidden? I think he means our essential truth, which some call Self or Soul. Inside the wadded ball of familial and cultural patterns that is tied with knots of fear is an inexpressible knowing, an unlimited YES! to life. We don't need to acquire it because it's already there waiting to be recognized.
Group writing is one way to bring forth our truth. By writing in a safe group, we can risk being vulnerable and, like the lotus flowers on the pond in spring, the synergy begins. We open petal-by-petal, all hues and shapes, sinking long roots into the darkness of the Mother, while we float effortlessly, faces toward the sun.
The truth we have learned to hide holds the gift we have to give to others-our souls, the best part of ourselves, the magic only each of us can offer, the gift that is unique to me, to you, to her, to him. Why hold back? Why, indeed?
Keep writing!
Peggy
This is a reprint of a column previously published in this newsletter. The time felt right to share it again.
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Books to Explore - What Peggy is Reading | | Poetry Anthologies for Your Shelf
Poetry provides food for your soul and prompts for your writing. These four anthologies introduce you to poets, well known and little known.
The three edited by Garrison Keillor and published by Penguin Books are collections of poems read on The Writer's Almanac radio show (heard on NPR stations). You can receive a poem a day from Keillor by signing up here.
Good Poems (2002)
Good Poems for Hard Times (2005)
Good Poems: American Places (2012)
This fourth anthology, Cries of the Spirit (2000), edited by Marilyn Sewell and published by Beacon Press, is a favorite of mine, compiling as it does women's poetry from Hildegard of Bingen to Nikki Giovanni.
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News You Need to Know | |
American Poetry Review's Honickman First Book Prize is now accepting entries. A prize of $3,000 and publication by American Poetry Review is given annually for a first poetry book. The winning book is distributed by Copper Canyon Press through Consortium. Stephen Dunn will judge. Submit a manuscript of at least 48 pages with a $25 entry fee by October 31. Send an SASE, call, or visit the website for complete guidelines.
American Poetry Review, Honickman First Book Prize, University of the Arts, 320 South Broad Street, Hamilton #313, Philadelphia, PA 19102. (215) 717-6800. Elizabeth Scanlon, Editor.
Glimmer Train Press is accepting submissions stories about families. A prize of $1,500 and publication in Glimmer Train Stories is given twice yearly for a short story about families of all configurations. Submit a story of 1,500 to 12,000 words with a $15 entry fee during the month of October. Visit Glimmer Train's website for complete guidelines. Glimmer Train Press, P.O. Box 80430, Portland, OR 97280. (503) 221-0836. Susan Burmeister-Brown and Linda Swanson-Davies, Coeditors.
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NC News for Writers
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The North Carolina Writer's Network 2013 Fall Conference will be held in Wrightsville Beach November 15--17, 2013. Registration opened in early September and the conference will feature readings, keynotes, and tracks in several genres. Visit www.ncwriters.org for more information. Malaprop's Bookstore is hosting a reading to celebrate Writers at Home host Tommy Hays' new book, What I Came to Tell You on October 20th at 3pm. Tommy Hays is the author of three novels for adults, including The Pleasure Was Mine. He is Executive Director of the Great Smokies Writing Program and a lecturer in the Master of Liberal Arts Program at the University of North Carolina at Asheville. Visit www.malaprops.com for more information.
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ClarityWorks Participant Spotlight: Lori Roddey
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I always felt like I was just a little behind. In elementary school they'd divide the class up into different groups according to our intelligence and I was placed in the remedial group. By being "labeled" as remedial early on, it instantly stunted my growth and made me feel less than, inferior, and not as smart as the others.
This label made me feel like I had to catch up. Catching up to the others who were smarter already because they were in the "gifted" group. Just that word--gifted--made catching up more potent.
Looking back, this label stuck to me like a name tag on a lapel. I carried it around with me my entire life. I guess that's why I subconsciously tried to surround myself with smart friends so I could absorb their knowledge. In a way, I thought it could build me up and make me feel smarter just by having their friendships. The funny thing is...my friends never knew that I never felt "smart enough" to be around them. As these friends went off to their Ivy League colleges and I went off to beauty school the irony wasn't lost on the obvious...that I'd never catch up now. I'd always be catching up to their intellectual knowledge because they'd have papers to write, exams to pass, and degrees to show how smart they were. I would just have a flimsy cosmetology license that I'd never even use because even in haircutting I never felt good enough!
It's amazing how hard we could be on ourselves while at the same time others were wishing they had what you had and were always comparing their lives to mine. At that very same moment I would be comparing my accomplishments to theirs.
Why can't we just stop, reflect, and realize?
Well, I finally did just that. I realized that I had caught up and actually surpassed. I realized that I didn't need to play catch-up with anyone. I realized that being this far along on my journey, I now have another opportunity to reinvent myself. This time without the pressures of having to make money, or to prove myself to others, or to myself! This time with all my life's experience and my spiritual lessons coupled with courage, fearlessness, and growth, I can create in me what's been covered up for so many years with this nonsensical game of playing catch-up.
At this new pivotal juncture in my life, I could finally remove that old label and connect with the true me. The one that always knew deep down inside, beneath any insecurities, that I am very special, that I am extremely smart, that I am extremely courageous for going against the grain. For not falling into the "you should live life this way" and for having the inner fearlessness to think differently from all the others. To live the life that I chose to create instead. A life that has brought me some ups and downs, but more often upliftment, accomplishments, and a lot of joy!
Not only am I now going to continue to play by my own rules, once again I'm going to be the one who others will try to "catch up" to, the one who's intelligent because she did what she wanted to do -- versus what was expected of her!
Maybe that label did make me different after all... but not in the way I had expected -- just better!
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Lori, her husband, and kitty spend their summer and fall months enjoying the beauty of the mountains while spending the rest of the year down south. Recent hiring help in running her online wig business (a fifteen year success) gave her the opportunity to attend Peggy's Zen writers' retreat. After just two days, she felt transformed and renewed: a whole new world opened for her. Since then she's been writing to the daily prompts and attended her second retreat held at Montreat. Writing to the prompts has become like a cleansing of her soul. She felt an instant connection and will continue to grow on her journey with each story she creates! |
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ClarityWorks Participant Blogs & Retreat Anthologies
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Follow these links to visit the blogs and websites of a few members of our ClarityWorks community. Enjoy!
Cheryl Dietrich
www.cheryldietrich.net
Ginger Graziano
www.gingergraziano.com/blog
Karen Lauritzen
www.nothingvanishes.com
Martha McMullen www.marthamcmullen.com Follow this link to read anthologies of retreat participants on the ClarityWorks' website. |
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And the Kudos Go To...
| | ...Karen Lauritzen will be holding a book signing and reading at Malaprop's Bookstore in Asheville on Sunday, November 10th at 3pm. She will be discussing the process used to develop the story of her memoir Nothing Vanishes: Memoir of a Life Transformed.
Lauritzen writes short stories, poetry and essays. Her work has been published in The Chrysalis Reader, WNC- Woman Magazine, Kaleidoscope Magazine: Exploring the Experience of Disability Through the Fine Arts and Women's Spaces, Women's Places, an anthology of women writers. One of the stories from Nothing Vanishes, "Seat 7F", won an honorary mention in the 2010 Carpe Articulum Literary Awards.Learn more about Karen and her writing at www.nothingvanishes.com.
Karen lives in Transylvania County, North Carolina, and has attended ClarityWorks classes and retreats since 2003.
...Ginger Graziano whose sculpture "Lotus" was exhibited in a juried art show titled GingerGraziano "Pandora's Box" by Cone10Studios and will be on display from May 30--July 31 in Charleston, South Carolina.
Ginger's poem "Shed" has been accepted for publication in the July issue of The Conium Review, a journal from Portland, Oregon. Her memoir excerpt "Exact Change Speeds Trips" has been accepted for publication in the journal Embodied Effigies, a publication from Ball University in Indiana. Ginger has attended Clarityworks classes and retreats and lives in Asheville, NC.
...Sharyn Ellison, whose essay "Bad Hair Day. Is it Really? Or is it Just Me?" was published in the October edition of Hippocampus Magazine, an online journal for creative nonfiction. You can read her essay at www.hippocampusmagazine.com.
Sharyn lives in Savannah, Georgia and has participated in ClarityWorks retreats.
...Robin Gaiser, whose short story "Doorways" is a finalist in the Grateful Steps Short Story Contest. This is the second time Robin has been included in the finalists by Grateful Steps. An e-book and hard copy anthology will be published with the winners stories. "Doorways" is an excerpt from Robin's upcoming book Doorways: Walking Into the Unknown.
Robin lives in Asheville, North Carolina and has attended the retreat at Lake Logan.
ClarityWorks enjoys celebrating the accomplishments of writers who have attended our classes, retreats and workshops. We want to share your writing success with our ClarityWorks' community! Send Peggy a "kudos" note at pmillin@clarityworksonline.com.
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