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Genesis 18:19



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Newsletter #370
End-of-School-Year Activities.  These end-of-school-year activities will provide a good finish to this year and preparation for the next. Includes:
1. Record Your Accomplishments
2. Evaluate Your School Year/Checklist
3. Celebrate and Share

Newsletter #369
Family Day Trips.  Day trips can do much to build family relationships and memories – plus provide enriching educational opportunities. Includes Creation Science Resources for your summer trips and Travel Freebies & Info.

Newsletter #368
Nurturing Our Children.  Includes: Cherishing our children; Showing we care through closeness; Bringing up our children for the Lord.

Newsletter #363
10 Ways To Get the Most from Homeschool Events. Includes links to 2013 State Conventions

Newsletter #362
Character Development includes Freebies.




Encouragement for Fathers

A Father's Role

Read transcripts or listen to these 2-minute radio broadcasts online.

Michael Farris, father of 10 homeschooled children and chairman of the Home School Legal Defense Association, shares practical strategies for fathers.

• Spiritual Leadership
• Protection
• Teaching and Housework
• Older Children
• Marriage and Citizenship

Father's Role
in Homeschooling Is Crucial

by Michael Farris.  Read this short online article offering ways a father can by involved in his family's homeschooling.

"A homeschooling mom has two major areas of responsibility: caring for a home and teaching academics to her children.  Her husband can pick tasks from either area and make his wife equally happy!"




Father's Day Activities
for Children

Here are a few ideas for your children to show their appreciation for Dad!

 •  Father's Day Fun is a free 23-page e-book with ideas for gifts, cards, and activities.

 •  Find notebooking pages in this 22-page free e-book.

 •  See Martha Stewart's website for Father's Day Gifts and Cards that you can make, as well as Father's Day Crafts for Kids with Clip Art and Templates.

 •  Send a Free e-card.

 •  Interview Dad and listen to stories from his childhood.  See A Family History Questionnaire.

 •  See our Pinterest Father's Day Page for more ideas.




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 In This Issue 

11 Ways To Make Every Day
Father's Day

by Cindy Short, The Teaching Home co-editor



 Sidebar 

   •  Encouragement for Fathers
   •  Father's Day Activities for Children

 Recommended Resources 

   •  Easy Grammar Systems: with Daily Grams
   •  Birch Court Books: Resources for Dad
   •  FergNus Services: Homeschooler's Journal

Greetings,

As a mother and wife, there is much you can (and should) do to contribute to the success, fulfillment, and happiness of your husband every day.

The 41 suggestions listed in this issue are practical ways to honor the Lord and your husband.


     The wise woman builds her house.
          Proverbs 14:1

May the Lord richly bless your family for His glory.


Cordially,
The Pat Welch Family, Publishers
Pat, Sue, Heather, Holly, and Brian

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How To Make Every Day
Father's Day



1.  Dedicate your own life to God.

     For the love of Christ controls us . . .
     That they who live,
          should no longer live for themselves,
     but for Him who died and rose again
          on their behalf.
               2 Corinthians 5:14, 15

 •  Willingly give up to Him all your desires, hopes, dreams, and expectations.

 •  Thankfully accept from Him your biblical roles and family relationships as well as any limitations and all circumstances of your life.

 •  Trust and obey the Lord in all things.



2.  Give yourself fully to your husband.

     The heart of her husband trusts in her, . . .
     She does him good
          and not evil all the days of her life.
               Proverbs 31:11, 12

 •  Love him unselfishly and unconditionally.

 •  Listen to him attentively when he speaks, dropping what you are doing if possible, and establishing eye contact.  Try to understand his unspoken desires and check your understanding with gentle questions.

 •  Do your best to carry out his wishes faithfully in every area.

 •  Meet his needs for food, clothing, intimacy, companionship, and spiritual fellowship without waiting to be asked.

 •  Speak the truth in love.  Express your true thoughts and feelings as well as personal or family needs with humility and kindness, rather than suppressing them in bitterness.



3.  Train your children to honor their father.

     And let the wife see to it
          that she respect her husband.
               Ephesians 5:33


     Honor your father and mother.
               Ephesians 6:2

 •  Speak of him respectfully and lovingly and require your children to do so as well.

 •  Represent him and his decisions in the best light.

 •  Teach your children that God leads the whole family through Father, so they can accept his direction, rules, and discipline as from the Lord.


Resource

Doorposts offers For This Is Right and Honor Your Father and Mother (for younger children).  Both books contain an evaluation of Scripture and practical applications of the Fifth Commandment, "Honor thy father and thy mother; that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee" (Exodus 20:12).  See free "Checklist for Sons and Daughters" and guidelines for parents.



4.  Maintain order in your home.

     She looks well to the ways of her household.
               Proverbs 31:27

 •  Organize and arrange the house, furnishings, schedule, meals, and chores so that your home life is convenient and comfortable for Dad when he is there.

 •  Supervise and discipline the children so that peace and quiet are the norm.



Encourage Dad & Provide Him Resources
To Use in Teaching and Training His Children

She Calls Me Daddy. Seven things every father needs to know about raising daughters to become the women God wants them to be.

Father Hunger: Why God Calls Men to Love and Lead Their Families. Encourages men to be the father God called them to be.

King Me: What Every Son Wants and Needs from His Father. Uses kings of the Old Testament to study fathering to prepare sons to become godly men.

Family Man Family Leader: Biblical Fatherhood as the Key to a Thriving Family. Easy-to-understand Biblical foundation necessary for men to turn their hearts to home and change the world.

The Squire & the Scroll. Adventure story for Dad to read to his kids teaches about temptation and how to guard their hearts from impurity. Plus devotional companion: Life Lessons from The Squire & the Scroll.


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5.  Help your husband and children stay close.

     And he will restore the hearts of the fathers
          to their children,
     and the hearts of the children to their fathers.
               Malachi 4:6

 •  Keep Dad informed of your children's progress in all areas, as well as any needs you observe.

 •  Encourage your children to go to Dad for comfort and to share with him their joys.

 •  Teach your children how to make a respectful appeal to their father when they want or need material things, privileges, or changes to rules or decisions.



6.  Support your husband's spiritual life
     and leadership.


     Encourage one another day after day.
               Hebrews 3:13

 •  Preserve the times that are most convenient for him to lead daily Bible reading or family devotions, and prayer alone with you.  Make sure you and your children are ready and present on time every day, whether or not he is.

 •  Prepare for church (baths, clothes, meals, etc.) the day before and get everyone to bed and up again early so that peace instead of clamor characterizes your Sundays.

 •  Be ready and willing to offer hospitality to like minded Christians for spiritual fellowship and mutual encouragement.

 •  If your husband does not choose to participate in these things, be careful not to push or offend him, but continue them faithfully with his permission and make him feel welcome to join you and/or take leadership whenever he chooses.



7.  Pray for your husband.

     With all prayer and petition pray at all times.
               Ephesians 6:18

 •  Pray for him alone, with your children, and when the whole family is together.

 •  Ask that God bless him, lead him, strengthen him, and comfort him.  (Do not use your prayer as a chance to preach at him about what he should do.)



8.  Apologize for your sins and shortcomings.

     Do not let the sun go down on your anger.
               Ephesians 4:26

 •  Be quick to repent and confess when you have sinned against your husband (e.g., anger, disrespect, negligence).

 •  Express sorrow and humility even if your fault seems relatively small.

 •  Ask him to forgive you and to tell you if he sees you going in that direction again.

 •  Freely admit you could be wrong when he disagrees with you or remembers things differently.



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9.  Have a forgiving spirit when your husband
  is not at his best.


     A gentle answer turns away wrath.
          Proverbs 15:1

 •  Be understanding of his stress and frustration; try to alleviate these if you can.

 •  Give your hurt feelings to God; reject the temptation to be bitter.

 •  Answer softly and slowly; respond with genuine kindness to his anger.

 •  Take his concerns seriously and act on them.



10.  Fill your husband's life with pleasant surprises.

     It is more blessed to give than to receive.
               Acts 20:35

 •  Write out loving and appreciative notes or encouraging (not rebuking) Scriptures and place them in lunches, on his mirror or pillow, in his pocket or wallet.

 •  Make his favorite meals or desserts often.

 •  Give him a foot or back massage when he is tired or achy.

 •  Offer to do small errands for him, in or out of the home.

 •  Watch for and buy small gifts he would appreciate throughout the year, not just for his birthday or Father's Day.

 •  Read and pass on to him articles or books in his areas of interest.

 •  Encourage your children to write thank you notes, draw pictures, and make gifts for Daddy.

 •  Make Dad's homecomings welcoming.  Smile!



11.  Express appreciation for your husband.

     So then let us pursue . . .
          the building up of one another.
               Romans 14:19

 •  Say thank you often for big things like working to support the family and for little things like taking out the garbage.

 •  Tell him what you like about him; find the positive aspects of all his characteristics.

 •  Thank God for him and praise him to your children and others.