Many of us looking after an elder have heard the nagging whisper of guilt, like a pesky monkey parked on the shoulders who just won't quit poking us: Feeling guilty when you lose your patience, feeling guilty for complaining about lack of sleep or lack of money, feeling guilty about not having enough time for the person or for the rest of your family.

 

There's even happiness guilt-when caregivers feel bad about feeling good.

 

It's a strange paradox that having positive feelings should be yet another source of self-flagellation, but there you have it.  Click here to read the complete article.