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Sharing the Journey

A Year of Growth and Change

 

Issue 40: October 4, 2015
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Reflections and Sharing the Journey

 

Greetings!  

Thank you for joining me and a small community of buddies on this adventure. We will explore key principles of personal growth, combined with guided reflection and journal writing to make changes that lead toward healthier, happier lives. 

Go well!  
                          Pam 
Greetings...
We have now been sharing this journey for nine months.  Given my initial commitment to leading the journey for a year, we have three months to go.  I want to use that time to review the principles and practices I have found helpful-for myself and my coaching clients-in making lasting changes that foster health and happiness.  I expect this time of review to feel redundant.  I trust that certain personal growth patterns have become familiar as we visited them again and again. This final cycle of repetition is intended to reinforce and cement lessons already learned.  I hope they become habits that you personalize and maintain over the long term.
End in View
I refer here not to "the end" in the sense that something stops, but "the end" in the sense of a destination or ideal.  Who do you want to be today, tomorrow, and throughout the lifetime with which you are gifted?

What is your ideal of physical well-being?  What health and fitness factors are most important to you? How do you want to relate with food and drink?  What cycles of physical activity, rest, and recovery sustain your physical energy without over- or under-doing it? Who are your wellness partners and what roles do they play? 

Take a look at the emotional realm.  How do you want to relate to those others in your life who mean the most? What inner and outer resources help you maintain personal commitments through bumpy times?  How do you want to blend and balance solitude with social connections from day to day?

What are your goals for mental creativity and clear perspective?  How do you want to foster a life-long approach to learning new skills, gaining new insights, and exploring new ideas?

Finally, what makes your life worthwhile?  What fuels your soul to wake up every day with a sense of purpose and intent?  What does spirituality mean for you?

The answers to these and similar questions collectively represent your personal vision of health and happiness. If you developed a personal vision statement back in January or February, pull it out now and look it over.  If not, start fresh now.
 
Back then, I suggested that you frame the vision in terms of a year in the future.  Today, I encourage you to step back and take a different view by developing a "timeless" vision.  "Who I want to be" is not about the future, so much as it is about the quality of any given present moment. 

While the habits we develop tend to lead us toward or away from ideals over time, the deeper focus of vision is always on the now.  And now.  And now.  It is recognizing the power of each thought we entertain, choice we make, action we take as it arises, then gives way to the next.
Writing to Grow
Use the ideas expressed in the essay above to frame your timeless vision.  Who do you want to be today, tomorrow, next year, at the moment of your final breath?
Going Deeper

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Pam Gardiner
Wellbuddies Coaching
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