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Sharing the Journey

A Year of Growth and Change

 

Issue 31: July 24, 2015
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Greetings!  

Thank you for joining me and a small community of buddies on this adventure. We will explore key principles of personal growth, combined with guided reflection and journal writing to make changes that lead toward healthier, happier lives. 

Go well!  
                          Pam 

Greetings...

It was fun last week to Google "happiness quotes" and to select a handful of diverse responses from the thousands that popped up.  I then added a few from favorite authors to add missing components that I consider important.  For the next few weeks, I want to explore the topic of happiness and look forward to generating some dialogue with those of you who are sharing this journey. 

The Happy Brain

The past 20 years have generated an explosion of insight into the human brain.  Advanced imaging tools have enabled us to "see" not only the structure of tissues inside our skulls, but to watch this remarkable organ in action.  As a result, we have an opportunity not only to understand the patterns of thought and emotion we experience but also to influence those patterns by choices we make.  We can now learn how to intentionally and effectively change the brain itself to respond more happily to events in our lives.

 

I am a longstanding fan of Dr. Rick Hanson, a neuroscientist who emphasizes the practical application of research findings to our everyday lives.  In Buddha's Brain, Hanson provides an evolutionary overview that shows how different zones within the human brain interpret and strive for happiness in different ways.

 

The most primitive part of the brain is found at the base of the skull, just above the spine.  This "brainstem" is designed primarily to identify and avoid threats, giving rise to the fight-or-flight response.  It sees a long, sinuous shape on the forest floor and jumps aside instantly rather than asking, "snake or stick?"  The primitive brain pursues safety, the most elemental component of happiness.

 

A second neurological zone, described as the midbrain or subcortex, developed as vertebrates increased in complexity.  While the brainstem continues to protect us from harm, the advanced brain expands its motivation to seek rewards. Actively foraging for food and migrating in response to habitat change are examples of reward-seeking behavior.  The pursuit of comfort and satisfaction expands the definition of happiness to encompass more than the absence of threat or pain.

 

Complexity of structure and function increased even more with the addition of cortical brain tissue.  The cortex enables communication, empathy, and other skills needed to establish complex social systems.  It includes the drive to connect and form deep, lasting bonds with others of our species.  It defines happiness in terms of love. 

 

Last but far from least, the prefrontal cortex (found only in humans) adds an element of reflective self-awareness, logical decision making, and intuitive creativity to the mix.  It seeks happiness in pursuit of meaning, purpose, and personal growth.

 

In simplistic terms, reptiles want to be safe.  Mammals seek safety and satisfaction.  Primates are motivated by safety, satisfaction, and connection with others.  Humans are happiest with a combination of factors that cover the basics but that also transcend individual needs and contribute to the greater good.

 

A few years ago, I wrote four Reflections essays that built on themes from Buddha's Brain.  If you want to dig a little deeper into the neurobiology of happiness, click here.

Writing to Grow

Do you see happiness as a result of circumstances, a conscious choice, or a combination of the two? 

 

Consider a recent experience in which you were faced a significant situational challenge.  How did you move beyond feelings of helplessness and victimization? What helped you maintain or re-gain happiness under those circumstances?

 

Can you tell whether, in a given situation, your brain is driven to avoid threats, seek rewards, make connections, or fulfill a higher purpose?  How does this awareness help you navigate difficult times?

 

What is your "first draft" personal definition of happiness?

From the Bookshelf

We will be drawing from the following resources in coming weeks.  The subject of happiness has been addressed from a wide range of perspectives, from neurobiology to psychology to spirituality.  We will touch on a sample of each.

 

Hanson, Rick.  Buddha's Brain, Hardwiring Happiness 

 

Seligman, Martin. Authentic Happiness, Learned Optimism 

 

Dalai Lama XIV with Howard Cutler, MD. The Art of Happiness

Going Deeper

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Pam Gardiner
Wellbuddies Coaching
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