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Sharing the Journey
A Year of Growth and Change
Issue 30: July 17, 2015
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Past issues (updated monthly): Archive of
Reflections and Sharing the Journey
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Greetings!
Thank you for joining me and a small community of buddies on this adventure. We will explore key principles of personal growth, combined with guided reflection and journal writing to make changes that lead toward healthier, happier lives.
Go well!
Pam
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Greetings...
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Six years ago, I began writing Reflections every week. Intimidated by the prospect, I never thought I would keep it up for so long. Last winter, I added Sharing the Journey and wondered how it would work to double my weekly commitment to writing for others. It has worked remarkably well.
Still, sometimes challenges accumulate, as they have recently. Between the challenge of typing with a broken wrist and preparing for my most intense volunteer commitment of the year (Missoula Marathon week), I confess that this will be a week to "journey light."
I recently announced that our next topic is "happiness." Of course, since making that decision, I have seen the subject everywhere I look. Maybe I am not original, but perhaps I am attuned. The topic is on our collective minds. It is in the air. This week I want to offer a sampler of insights on happiness from varied sources, whetting our appetites to develop our own.
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| Happy Talk |
For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be. Abraham Lincoln
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. Mahatma Gandhi
Happiness is a warm puppy. Charles M. Schulz
They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for. Tom Bodett
Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city. George Burns
Sanity and happiness are an impossible combination.Mark Twain
The way to hardwire happiness into the brain...is to take in the good, being present to life's tiny, joyful moments. Rick Hanson
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want yourself to be happy, practice compassion. Dalai Lama
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Writing to Grow
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I am a big fan of journaling. You know that, as I have urged you to share the journey by writing responses to many questions and prompts posted here. However, one of you (thanks, Karla) recently suggested that we use art as well as writing to generate insights and document progress. In doing so, she yanked me out of the comfort zone. I don't do art!
A few weeks later, my son (thanks, Jonathan) introduced a personal-growth app that makes creative use of our ubiquitous camera phones. Then we made collages in our Weight Watchers' meeting. Message accepted, received, and now shared.
If you want a fun and different way to stimulate and record personal growth, follow this link to a cool new app. You-app introduces itself as "the world's most positive community." It proposes daily micro-actions for a happier and healthier you. Each day, you get a post on your smartphone that invites you to schedule one tiny step toward a personal goal. A fun twist is the challenge of documenting your action in a single snapshot. The online community can cheer if you wish (based on your privacy settings). Daily actions range from eating and exercise to stress management, changing perceptions, and beauty breaks. It is fun and forgiving (urging you to skip assignments when they become a burden). I LOVE IT! Maybe you will too.
 Unlike apps, collages have been around for a long time. A pile of magazines, some poster board, scissors, paste, and Voila! Art! In our Weight Watchers' meeting, the topic was motivation. We were challenged to keep the reasons for our weight management goals in view at all times by making (and displaying) collages. My only competent hand was in a cast, and I came very close to skipping the exercise altogether. Then I flipped through a magazine. Voila! There it was! No cutting or pasting needed, a single prefabricated page said it all: "Happy, Healthy, Helping." I want to eat well, manage stress, and live an active life for those three reasons. Making a collage brings back the simple tools of childhood: scissors and paste. My artsy friend Karla loves collages, and so do I. Maybe you do too. Develop your own visual mosaic of happiness on life's personal journey.
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From the Bookshelf
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Hammerness, Paul, MD and Moore, Margaret. OrganizeYour Mind, Organize Your Life
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Going Deeper
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Check out my book on Wellbuddies website. Signed copies only $10, delivered in or around Missoula, MT. Add $4 for media-rate mailing (PayPal available) Also available in paperback or Kindle formats on Amazon.com |
Pam Gardiner
Wellbuddies Coaching
wellbuddies@gmail.com
406-274-0188
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