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Sharing the Journey

A Year of Growth and Change

 

Issue 14: March 27, 2015
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Greetings!  

Thank you for joining me and a small community of buddies on this adventure. We will explore key principles of personal growth, combined with guided reflection and journal writing to make changes that lead toward healthier, happier lives. 

Go well!  
Pam 

Greetings...

This is our fourth and final week of featuring the topic of healthy eating.  Again this week I am sharing from a series of past Reflections that draw key themes from a book I have found helpful. I will also repeat the format from last week, displaying one essay in the body of this email with a link to the longer document for those who are want to dig deeper.

Without Thinking

Part 1: Hanging on to Love Handles


 
Mom called them love handles.  Others refer to midriff bulge, beer belly, or muffin tops.  By whatever name, they are extra pounds around the midsection, and they stay around.  I have them. You might have them.  It's time for them to go!

 

Not only does the waistband bind and the "skinny" shirt bulge, but belly fat is also the most harmful kind.  According to Mayo Clinic, "Excess belly fat increases your risk of cardiovascular disease, diabetes and certain types of cancers."  Love handles indeed!  Mom was a master of the euphemism.


 

In searching for inspiration, I recently re-read a book I first found helpful several years ago: Mindless Eating by Brian Wansink.  I found it intriguing the first time; this time, I am making an extra effort to apply the principles Wansink has learned from reviewing the research on American eating patterns. 


 
According to one key principle, our stomachs are poor at judging when we have had enough to eat.  We rely more on signals from the brain. 


 
For example, we tend to stop eating only when the food is gone. If the bowl, box, or mug is empty we might consider ourselves full (until the food is passed again). 


 
We also tend to wait for others to finish eating before declaring a halt to our own.  On social occasions, the duration of a meal is determined by the slowest eaters.  Those who eat quickly keep eating until everyone is done; they do not register or respond to the physical sensation of "full." 


 
In a third example, our perception is conditioned by how much we have chewed our food and how often we have swallowed.  Calorie-dense liquids are especially sneaky because they go down so easily.

 

Understanding the role of cues can help us develop strategies for eating less.  I use small bowls and cups so that food is gone sooner than with larger vessels.  I also limit social eating, choosing to meet a friend for coffee instead of lunch. 

Finally, I fit crunchy foods into my daily fare because I find them satisfying to chew, regardless of calorie content.  Hard rye crackers and fat-free popcorn work well.

 

What are the effective cues that trigger you to stop eating? What strategies help you say "enough" before it is "far too much?"


 
To read the entire article, click here.  

Writing to Grow

This week, let's follow the standard review outline with an emphasis on healthy eating. 

 

I will begin by listing five pleasant memories from the past week.  Doing so will take me into the creative, optimistic zone of the brain.

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I celebrate the following types of victories around eating and drinking: 

1.    Tracking intake (if so, how)
2.    Choosing healthier options (for example)
3.    Controlling portions (what techniques work for me?)
4.    Choosing supportive environments (e.g. restaurant with "light" options)
5.    Engaging supportive companions (who respects/supports my efforts?)
6.    Finding non-food responses to emotional needs
7.    Experimenting with other helpful practices (describe)

I had the following insights about what helps me make healthy food choices.

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I want to apply those insights with the following 2-3 new goals for the coming week.

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I will ask one or two trusted partners to support my goals this week.  I will tell them exactly what I would find most helpful (what do I want from them?) 

From the Bookshelf

This week's material is drawn from Brian Wansink's book, Mindless Eating.  

In addition to the book, which is widely available, visit the Mindless Eating website for a fun 5-minute video and a variety of free resources.  Dr. Wansink is the director of the Cornell University Food and Brand lab at Cornell University. I strongly recommend reading the entire book for many additional insights and suggestions.

Going Deeper

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Pam Gardiner
Wellbuddies Coaching
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