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Sharing the Journey

A Year of Growth and Change

 

Issue 10: February 27, 2015
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Greetings!  

Thank you for joining me and a small community of buddies on this adventure. We will explore key principles of personal growth, combined with guided reflection and journal writing to make changes that lead toward healthier, happier lives. 

Go well!  
Pam 

Nuts and Bolts

After nearly six years of writing weekly emails, I have noticed two broad types of subject matter that emerge when I am inspired to share.  The first I characterize as "perspective," or seeing things differently.  I have found that a fresh look from a different angle can often help us work our way through troubling circumstances.  The second category addresses "purposeful change," or doing things differently.  While perspective may help us accept and respond to circumstances with wisdom and peace of mind, it does not necessarily help us to change those habits that hold us back or cause us pain. 

 

Over time, Reflections essays have drifted toward topics on perspective.  With this new series, I want to shift some focus back to behavior.  I was curious to see how topics for the two series would play out from week to week.  Two months into the process, I find that Reflections arise naturally from Sharing the Journey as we move back and forth between insight and planning, action and review.  Most of you already subscribe to Sunday Reflections.  I have taken the liberty of adding the rest of you to that mailing list as well.  I believe you will find that the two reinforce and add value to one another. (You can unsubscribe to either mailing at any time.)   

The Spirit and Science of Change

As I work with people who are passionate about improving health and wellness, I find that the same two-track road leads most reliably to every destination.

 

On the one track, we have spirit:  the deepest values that drive us to become our best selves.  Spirit is powerful, and it is elusive.  It can be described, but not defined.  Its fruits can be observed, but the creator of those fruits is invisible to the naked eye.  A journey on the spirit track is inspired by faith.

 

On the other track, we have science:  humanity's current theory about how things work.  Science observes.  It is skeptical of anything inaccessible to the senses.  Science tests hypotheses and discards those that do not hold up when challenged by facts.  Science is pragmatic:  if a theory doesn't work, it doesn't survive.  A journey on the science track is grounded in evidence.

 

Personal growth calls for change.  We want some aspect of ourselves and our lives to be better a year from now.  The spirit path points us in the direction of change and fires us with a passion for action.  Science shows us in practical terms how to get there.

 

The science of behavioral change has various academic homes:  organizational development, social services, health care.  A common theme across disciplines is the desire for alignment.  An organization wants employee effort to align with its mission.  Doctors want patients to align their habits with the requirements of health and longevity.  Social workers want the skills of their clients to align with the demands of productive and independent lives.

 

A successful personal journey aligns our actions and habits with the well-being we intend.  Spirit infuses our intention with direction and power; science helps take us there.  Some approaches to behavioral change are more effective than others. In Sharing the Journey, I look forward to discussing those scientific findings that I find most helpful to a traveler on the road to greater health and happiness.

 

The past two decades or so have seen an explosion in our understanding of the human brain.  In recent years, brain-research findings have been increasingly framed in practical terms and made available to lay readers. Much of the science I will be sharing falls into this new genre of writing.  See "From the Bookshelf" for some of my favorites.

Writing to Grow

What works for you?  Think of a personal challenge you turned around by changing your patterns of thinking and acting.

 

Did you adjust to loss through death, divorce, or unemployment?

Did you improve your health with eating and exercise?

Did you accept a promotion, change careers, or retire?

Did you make a decisive commitment around substance abuse?

What else?

 

How would you describe the spirit that motivated and guided you?  How did an understanding of psychology and other behavioral sciences shape your actions?


More writing:  Attached here you will find two downloadable (PDF) outlines: Personal Growth Plan  and Weekly Review. Feel free to pick and choose the pieces of these outlines that you find most helpful. They are tools, not rules.  

From the Bookshelf

Hanson, Dr. Rick.  Buddha's Brain, Just OneThing, and Hardwiring Happiness.

 

In these books, Dr. Hanson does a masterful job of describing the human brain, its evolution, and the implications for our thought patterns, emotions, and actions.

 

In addition to his books, neuropsychologist Hanson offers a free weekly Just OneThing email and periodic Wise Brain Bulletin.  Live and online classes are also available.  See Hanson's website for details.

Going Deeper: Reflections on Challenge and Change

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Pam Gardiner
Wellbuddies Coaching
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