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Hey everyone! I want to keep you updated on the growth I have been making since I entered into the field of Life Coaching.

The effectivness of my new theory Personal Philosophy has been growing. More success is being realized by client that embrace its and "just do it". 

Recently, I went back to school again. I have completed the course work on becoming a Certified Holistic Addiction Recovery Coach and I am now in the practicum stage. I have been seeing a lot of my clients addicted to negative and harmful thought patterns. I wanted to gain more skill and knowledge to better help my clients. I continue to grow and better my coaching skills and life as I expect from my clients.

 

Sincerely, 
 
 Dr. Bill

How to Unblock Addictive Thought Patterns

"Stop worrying about what might be... Stop attempting to fix that which is over; instead live by creating your life

in the moment."

A thought addiction is a habitual pattern of mental focus to one thought or set of thoughts that consumes one's life. It is the returning to a thought that does not serve the individual and has damaging results that depletes every system of the body.

Do you find yourself feeling stuck? In order to move forward and attain what you want out of life you first have to recognize that which is blocking your progress. Many people are not aware that the one thing that is stopping them from personal, relational or career success is their own thinking pattern. We are a product of our own thoughts. Thoughts shape our life and determine our mindset toward our self and others. Thoughts patterns have a powerful influence on feelings and behavior as well. There are those who are in denial that they have developed an addiction to a particular thought pattern. Some are scared to see that which is holding them back are their own thoughts and if they became aware of the addiction then they would be responsible to change.

I have found that habitual thought patterns keep people stuck (generally fixated on the past or future), and to avoid the present.  A habitual pattern blocks a person from reaching their maximum potential. There are three thematic thoughts patterns I would like to briefly address.

Theme #1 thought pattern is the Fixer. A Fixer is one who is always thinking about what has happened in the past. Many Fixers spend the majority of waking time constantly thinking about and going over past experiences that went wrong, failed at or could not stop. Involvement in this thought pattern is an attempt or need to fix or change what happened.

The second habitual theme is the Worrier. A Worrier is an individual who is afraid about what is going to happen in the future. They project or predict what is going to happen tomorrow, next week or next year. This habitual thinking causes the individual to be overly fearful and anxious about anything in their future. 

Theme #3 is the Daydreamer thought pattern. A Daydreamer is those who are unhappy with their life that they spend majority of their time mentally escaping through excessive daydreaming. This type of thinking causes the individual to disconnect from self and others in their daily lives.

 

To read the tips on Unblocking Addictive Thought Patterns go to Dr. Bill's HUB Pages.

 I would like to thank Jaz for sharing with all of you her story that was featured in last months newsletter as it has been unfolding. I have received so much good feedback because of her bravery and her hard work in coaching. She is a fantastic writer and is so eloquent in describing her feelings. If you missed her submission in last months newsletter I have included a link to the archived newsletter.

Life Coaching - My Brief But Yet Unfolding Story Archive

 

I have since encouraged her to start a blog and I would like to share her blog link with you.  Free Life After D.I.D.

 

 

 

Blogging can be a wonderful way of journaling and helping others as they go on your journey along with you. As you move through your journey writing is a powerful tool that makes what you write become a reality to help you see your path. Blogging is a way to express yourself. To get your own blog started click here .

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 Many of you have been asking about my grandson Gavin well here he is at 8 months old supporiting Life Coaching.

 The iBody Worked for Me!

"I feel a clarity and my energy flows freely in my mind, body and spirit. I actually almost feel younger due to removing huge amounts of "baggage" and a re-energizing of life, freedom, and vitality deep in my core. My life is certainly being re-authored!
THANK YOU from the very depths of mind, body and spirit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" ~

 

 

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