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Greetings!

 

This issue marks this newsletter's 10-week anniversary. I am THRILLED with the early great reception of Personality Matters for my beloved Four Windows, folks. In honor of all of you, I've created archives so you can dig up some pretty helpful stuff. In the column to the left, just click on Newsletter Archives.

Gold is the Color of the Week

Ten Ways to Earn the Respect of a Gold Person

 

At least half the people in the world have a temperament called Gold - Responsible Gold. Yes, they are the majority among the four core temperaments of human kind.

 

In business - in fact, in most kinds of organizations - they are most of your supervisors, managers, even chief executives.

 

Clearly you can see that winning their respect counts a lot toward getting what you (a non-Gold) want from them, so here are ten ways to earn that respect.

 

1.    Be responsible, dependable, and consistent. The odds are that your own, personal Orange, Green, or Blue standard of responsibility, dependability, and consistency may not even begin to measure up to the Gold Standard. But note that this first tip is indeed the most important.

2.    Have a reputation for integrity - for making the "right decisions" most of the time. Batting 300 is a high score only in baseball.

3.    Respect all senses of order:  the organization's hierarchy, structure, and timelines.

4.    Remember that rules, standards, policies, laws - whatever you want to call them - RULE!

5.    Do not interpret a Gold's reluctance to change as stubbornness or stupidity: Gold folks understand that the enormous work and creativity of the past matters. They are going to challenge you severely when you ask them to alter or destroy these accomplishments. Examples: changing an accounting system, getting rid of some of the company's core products and services, changing the company's name, moving from brick and mortar to online sales.

6.    Be clear on what you want. Gold people hate ambiguity.

7.    Be focused. Avoid too many loose ends if possible. Save surprises for surprise birthday parties and the like. Do not blindside Golds with sudden "brilliant ideas." For one thing, you'll be judged as a flake if that happens too often.

8.    Be professional. Don't scare them with too much lightheartedness, over-casual dressing, or other actions that seem disrespectful.

9.    Be loyal to your Gold colleague, employee, or boss. They likely intend to " get your back" for the rest of their lives and expect you to do the same.

10.Appreciate and acknowledge people for their accomplishments: show them you know what they did, extol the benefits of their work, then thank them with fitting words and fitting awards of recognition.

 

Martha Stewart on YouTube

Martha Stewart is an iconic Gold person - a responsible "Supervisor" whose jobs are gleefully reported to be complete and thorough. Notice on the YouTube link her conservative movements, facial expressions, and even her coif. Her delivery is matter-of-fact, rarely too excited (even though she uses the word "exciting" quite a bit).  When she speaks, it's all about careful and complete organization - in all of its forms. She voices the "right way to do things" in so many ways, e.g., by categorizing, offering up plenty of lists, and referring often to anything that supports good logistics.

What's YOUR Story?

 
You know your Colors, so what info would you love to share about that? Or about your relationships? Submit a story to dermody@cox.net. If we like it, we'll publish it in a future JackDermody.com Newsletter. The next article is this week's story.

Sheri Westerlin's Story: My Goldness Almost Got Me Fired

 

Before I attended your workshop, Jack, I was about to get fired. The CEO (I'll call him George), who is also my boss, had called me into the office to warn me I was not measuring up to the title "Executive Assistant." His reasoning was that I didn't run with the ball often enough, that I did not anticipate problems soon enough, and certainly I did not qualify to speak for him in his absence.

That was tough to hear. I have a master's degree and I have worked myself up from pool secretary in 1998 to the top of the ladder for administrative assistants. I told George that I met every single criterion for the position of Executive Assistant when I applied. I reminded him that he and the entire interview panel said they were thrilled I was the final pick.

In your workshop, Jack, I saw clearly that I had entered a Green and Orange world. As a "solid Gold" person myself, I knew that my skills and strengths were exactly what the executive team needed, but little had I realized how much I needed to stretch my openness to change. I realized that I was cramping their style by being too rigid with schedules and old ways of doing things - all strengths that work well for a pool secretary who is expected to simply obey and carry out orders, but do not work so well for an executive assistant.

After the workshop, I got George to sit down with me for a serious discussion. It turns out that I had judged him to be irresponsible and flaky with his scheduling and overall decision making. He saw me as a drone who got in the way of progress. Once we saw this was mainly a question of his Green-Orange vs. my Gold-Blue, we went over some past misunderstandings and proceeded to fashion new ways to communicate and act with each other.

To make a long story short, I can feel confident that my responsible Goldness will still compliment George's constant game-changing Green-Orangeness, but that I can apply Gold strengths in useful and appreciated ways. "Running with the ball" now means that I make sure I understand company strategy and make responsible decisions about completing tasks that the CEO should not have to do. For that, George agreed to let me know frankly, and in a timely manner, whether those initiatives went too far or not far enough. As for "anticipating problems," I promised to be more pro-active in analyzing information coming across both of our desks and then alert George about potential problems asap. Finally, I got George to agree to a weekly meeting with me to let me know what was in his head about important people who would call so that I could indeed speak for him confidently. I assured him that as time went by that I'd get better at knowing what was generally in his head.

 

Submitted by Sheri Westerlin

Once you understand the power of Colors, most of your relationships with others make sense. And you begin to breathe easy.

Sincerely,

          Jack Dermody

Jack Dermody
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