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The BMX-NY  Gatekeepers  e-NewsletterMAY  6th, 2011
Black Men's Xchange-National

 
In This Week's Gatekeepers Issue
This Friday's Outing:
Tyler Perry's Madea's Big Happy Family
BMX National News: BMX Annual National Leadership Summit & Retreat
Friday Forum Recap (04|22|11): ZEITGEIST Film Screening
Upcoming Topics: BMX- NY 2011 Spring Calendar
BMX: A Historical Flashback
Community Corner Announcements
SGL Black Sheroes:
Bessie Smith
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About BMX- NY...
BMX Mission Statement
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Welcome To The Black Men's Xchange-New York (BMX-NY) Gatekeepers e-Newsletter. This e-newsletter is for the gathering on Friday, May 6th, 2011.

 
 



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BMX  Outing  For  This  Friday,  May  6th,  2011       

  

BMX Outing:

Tyler Perry's Madea's Big Happy Family

 

BMX-NY Brothers 

Will Convene With Kyle Doyle

This Friday At 8:00 PM In The Movie Theater Lobby

For The 8:30PM Showing

    

 

Madea's BHF

 

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Regal Cinemas E-Walk Stadium 13 & RPX

247 West 42nd Street

(between 7th & 8th Avenues)

Times Square, New York City



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BMX  National  News        


BMX Annual National Leadership Summit & Retreat: "Healing, Strategic Intelligence,

Self-Love & Discovery"

 

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Friday, May 6th - Monday, May 9th, 2011

@ West Sonoma Inn & Spa Center

In Guerneville, California

 

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Friday  Forum  Recap

(Topic  Hi-lites  From  Friday,  April  22nd2011)  

      
  

Film Projector


Zeitgeist

(Film Screening)

 

Zeitgeist - The Movie 

 

Last week BMX-NY screened the documentary ZEITGEIST, which expounds three conspiracy theories including: The Christ myth, an alternate theory on the perpetrators of 9/11, and banks' manipulation of the international monetary system and media to consolidate power.


Participants were asked to reflect on the film from the following angles:

   

 

What does zeitgeist mean?

 

{Facilitator reads definition(s): "'Zeitgeist is the spirit of the age or prevailing trend of thought during an epoch or age.'  Does that definition(s) square with what was depicted in the film?"}

 

[Collective] "Yes..."  

 

"The film shows how events lead to other events and how they're prescribed..."

 

"I just can't believe that Bush, Cheney and Condoleza Rice got away with so much shit..."

 

 

Before you saw the movie, what, if any, did you believe the African origins of Christianity to be?

 

"I was trained as a Mason...the world's oldest fraternal order, so I was aware of the African origins of Christianity..."

 

"There are Masons and there are Masons..."

 

"One man's magic is another man's craft...Religion was created to push forth a certain agenda...to control folks...We've had that conversation before...So, I was kind of prepared for it..."

 

"I saw it as...Religion...whether there are parallels [between Christianity and other religions]...The people who promulgate it believe it is for the best [interest] for their people...Even the slaves...They adapted it...Yes, to some extent they were fooled...[But] the only way they could get together [was through the observance of Christian rites]...Religion is a way of coping..."

 

"There was symbolism in the film...The people who understand it and use it right will profit...You can use the power in those symbols any way you want to...You can use them to build a movement..."

 

{Facilitator says, "Those are important ideas...[That] The people who understand symbols and use them well will profit...[And that] You can use the power in those symbols to build movements...Consider the symbols of the gay liberation movement for a moment, if you will...what are they?"}  "The lambda..."  {Yes, and where is it from?}  "Greece..." "The pink triangle..."  {And where is that symbol from?..."}  "Germany..."  { And, consider how powerful the gay liberation movement has become...You can use the power in symbols...The symbols undergirding the same gender loving liberation movement include the Afrikan adinkra inspired bawabisi symbol and the Pan Africanist flag..."}

 

"The gay pride symbol is a circle with a rainbow pyramid in it..."

 

{Facilitator says, "Interesting...the pyramid...which is also on American currency... is part of a gay pride symbol...Where are the first pyramids from?..."}  "Africa..."  {"And from which religion do the film-makers say Christianity was plagiarized?..."}   

 

"The pyramid is a common geometric shape...and I can imagine many people using it simultaneously..."

 

"That it is not common knowledge that our people...the Ethiopians created [the pyramids] is why we're in the condition that we are..."

 

"Most of the religions that we know of have their root in mystic numerology and astrology...No one man has ever lived through any one of those ages...So, there must have been a repository of knowledge [which was passed on to ensuing generations]..."

 

"One of the areas of skepticism is, I don't believe that there were records dating back that far...particularly when you get back to prehistoric man..."

 

{Facilitator says, "Did not even prehistoric man create symbols?...Did they not carve things?...Draw things?...And if not, how could archaeologists have made meaning from the artifacts they left behind?..."}

 

"Why is this piece of media more believable than other things you may have seen?..."

 

"The reason I was so moved was because it sort of defied my core beliefs that I have felt comfortable with...I have wondered...Why Bin Laden?...It stirs up emotions, such as, what if?...Or, what am I going to do moving forward?..."

 

"It struck me that George Bush quoted something Hitler said [about homeland security]...It makes me not want to identify with color, race or anything...That I just want to be me...See how we're being manipulated...In school, we're reading The 48 Laws of Power...Law 3...[Conceal] your intentions..."

 

"There's very little to feel comfortable about what we know...How I view media...I say, if this is true...then I do the research...This movie didn't really present any evidence..."

 

{Facilitator says, "In fact, the film-makers have made two follow-ups to this piece because, chief among the criticisms of the film was the suggestion that some of the theories advanced in it were wanting evidence...So, this may also be construed as propaganda...But, to the extent that we are capable of research...the issues it raises are ones that might prompt us to do some of our own, rather than simply accepting the party line..."}

 

"The documentary confirms many things I have been researching...The Federal Reserve is connected to the Bilderbergs...The richest people in the world...Every year they get together and decide world policy...The Rothschilds and Rockefellers...The people who are placed on committees and who get elected to the senate...And, you're right...There's a lot of misinformation...So, you have to [do your own research]..."

 

"If you're gaining from what you're promulgating, chances are you're not telling the truth...If you're not gaining anything from what you're promulgating..."

 

"Consider the source...As you say, they're not gaining anything...They've put [the film] on a website and say, 'Give it to a friend'...Look at the message of the film...If [we] choose fear over love, we're doomed..."

 

"Just the other day a Jehovah's Witness woman approached me and tried to get me to take a paper, and I pointed to a picture on the paper and said..."That's a white Jesus"...She said..."No it isn't"...I insisted..."It's a white Jesus"...She said..."No, it isn't"...I'm not going to buy into the illusion..."

 

 

Does the U.S. government have your best interests in mind?  When, and how?

 

"No...They wouldn't want to implant chips in us...Bush wouldn't have done a lot of stuff without our knowing it..."

 

{Facilitator says, "Did you hear on the news today that I Phones and I Pads are outfitted with chips that track your movements and compile databases of your every move including time stamps for each move, which anyone who has access to your phone or computer can access?..."}

 

"All these things...your cell phones...If you check your email, you're tracked...The 1% who control the 90% of the wealth...They're in control..."

 

"When I first came to BMX-NY and I saw Diop's African Origins of Civilization and James's Stolen Legacy about Coptic Christianity...that's why I came back...I think thinking about conspiracies keeps you in sort of a narrow space...It enhances the power of the perceived conspirators...Thoughts of terrorism, conspirators, conspirac[ies] conflate into this soup...If I think about Bush...I have to think about Obama...He's the celebrity appeasement President... all this conspiracy [leads to]...Guess who's the Boogieman?...And, we keep reminding each other we were slaves, so that we don't take action...we have no power...'I already come from [a tradition of powerlessness']...['And] I live in the evil empire...Every time I turn on the light, they done screwed somebody else'...The only way to subvert that is to use those tools of the system...Coercive Resistance...The reason social justice movements don't work for poor people is because we keep standing in the middle of the road and saying, 'Please treat me fairly'...and they shoot you... If everybody had bought [even] 1 share of Halliburton stock [we'd be in a much better position]... We have to use the same tactics of the system you're in..."

 

{Facilitator says, "Insofar as focusing on conspiracies is concerned, I tend to think you're right about there being a trap in obsessing about them...But, otherwise, I believe what my grandfather said...'Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you'...And, about remembering our enslavement...I believe Ghanians, with Sankofa are right...You must go back to go forward...And whoever it was that said, 'We must never forget'...We don't have the luxury of permitting ourselves to forget our holocaust...If we will ever be free...The idea of coercive resistance may bear some fruit...Using the tactics of the oppressive system against it...Buying Halliburton stock...while that's consorting with the devil...That tactic might well bear some fruit..."}

 

     


   

 


 



 


Upcoming  Topics:  BMX-NY  2011  Spring  Calendar          

(PLEASE NOTE THAT TOPICS ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE;
WEEKLY E-NEWSLETTERS WILL REFLECT ANY NEW CHANGES)

           

 

Friday, May 13th, 2011

Bringing MTF* Trans Sisters Home

(Facilitated by Kyle Doyle & L. Jett Wilson)

 

*Male To Female

 

 

Friday, May 20th, 2011

Is there Division between Black and Latino SGL Men?

(Facilitated by JM Green)

 

 

Friday, May 27th, 2011

"The Epidemic Chronicles" Film Screening

(Facilitated by L. Jett Wilson & Tommie Thompson)

 

 

Friday, June 3rd, 2011

TO BE ANNOUNCED 

 

 

Friday, June 10th, 2011

Taking Responsibility For The 'L' in SGL

(Facilitated by Chad Franklin & L. Jett Wilson)

 

 

Friday, June 17th, 2011

Thriving or Surviving, Which Are You?: The Resource Quotient

(Facilitated by Kyle Doyle)

 

 

Friday, June 24th, 2011

How Do We Flex Our Political Muscles As SGL Men?

(Facilitated by Anthony Truly & Tommie Thompson)

 

 

Saturday, June 25th, 2011

2nd Annual Harlem Pride Event

(Currently Scheduled For Marcus Garvey Park > 12 NOON - 6PM)

 

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BMX: A  Historical  Flashback
(Re
writing  Black  Manhood  Myths: A  Rap  With Heterosexual Brothers - Friday,  June  29th,  2007)           

Rewriting Black Manhood Myths 10 (Kevin Powell & Heru Talking) 

Special Guest Kevin Powell (Motiivational Speaker, Author,

Activist & Political Public Servant) and Heru

 

 

 

 

 Rewriting Black Manhood Myths 16 (BMX Brutha & Kevin Powell)

BMX Brutha and Kevin Powell Talking 

 

 

 

    

Rewriting Black Manhood Myths 11 (Lakeim & Stephen)BMX Bruthaz Lakeim and Stephen Chatting  

 

 

 

Rewriting Black Manhood Myths 6 (Kevin Powell & Cleo)

 Kevin Powell and AmASSI & BMX Founder Cleo Manago

Sharing  A Light Moment   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Community  Corner  Announcements 

 


25th  Annual  ADODI  Summer  Retreat

Wednesday  July  20th  -  Sunday,  July  24th,  2011

White Eagle Conference Center

Hamilton, New York 


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Official ADODI Website:  ADODIonline.com




Greetings from The Brotherhood of ADODI

 

We invite all same-gender loving men of African heritage to join us in the gathering for our 25th annual summer retreat:

 

The ADODI Promise:

Claiming the Legacy, Living The Legend

 

If, as Joseph Beam postulated in 1986, "Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act..:" then the ADODI Brotherhood is surely revolutionary. It lies with each of us to ensure that this life affirming movement does not become simply an historical moment.

 

We gather together in July 2011 to conjure the legendary qualities of the ADODI Brotherhood. We journey forth to hold one another and affirm the fearless vision and life-saving, life-giving mission of black men loving black men. We congregate to appreciate the lives - both past and present - that define our tribe of caring, compassionate community among same-gender-loving (SGL) men of African descent. This summer we join together and share our commitment, knowledge, skill, passion and evolving aspirations of freedom, so that our beloved tribe may thrive 25 years more!

 

For this special 25th summer gathering we invoke the idea of

"legends" to honor the values, traditions, ancestors and historical significance of the ADODI Brotherhood. We call forth the notion of "legacy" to center our spirits on the seemingly modest gifts turned into grand treasures - our inheritance of loving intent and beloved community called ADODI. As trustees and beneficiaries of this legacy, we have our own bequests to the future to consider. This year's Retreat is dedicated to celebrating that legacy, and envisioning the future. As we benefit from the fruits grown by those who have gone before us, so the future of the brotherhood rests on our shoulders.

    

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ADODI Summer Retreat (2011) Registration Form (PDF)

  

Registration for the 25th Annual ADODI Summer Retreat is now available online, too!!!

 

Visit www.ADODIonline.com and click on The Adodi Annual

Summer Retreat on the banner to be taken to the Retreat info.

page.

 

You will need to create a login to ADODInline.com to register for the Retreat. Above the Retreat information tabs is where you click to create your free account to access the ADODIonline community.

 

You may register online now and mail your payment(s) in later, or you can register and using a credit card via PayPal. (if you pay using a credit card, a $15.00 service fee is added onto your registration price).

  
Registration Fee Information 

If paid in full by April 30, '11........... $630.00

If paid in full by May 31, '11 ............ $700.00

After May 31, '11............................... $800.00

 

 

Round trip coach bus transportation will be provided from the  

Adam Clayton Powell Jr State Office Building 

163 West 125th Street

(between Lenox Avenue/Malcolm X Blvd and Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd)

Harlem, New York City 10027

 

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New BlackFest, The (logo)Official Website: TheNewBlackfest.org

 

 

   

THE NEW BLACK FEST is A THEATER FESTIVAL.

 

THE NEW BLACK FEST  

with guest curators Judy Tate and Godfrey Simmons  

in association with  

651 ARTS

 

presents

 

 

THE AMERICAN SLAVERY PROJECT

 

In recognition of the Sesquicentennial of the Civil War (now through 2015), The New Black Fest with Guest Curators Judy Tate and Godfrey Simmons, launch the American Slavery Project Series, a monthly reading series that celebrates the work of African American playwrights who boldly and refreshingly explore slavery and/or the Civil War. The purpose behind the American Slavery Project is to initiate new conversations around theater's role in counteracting the increasing revisionism in our political/social discourse about the Civil War and slavery. More importantly, the American Slavery Project aims to promote a generation of African-American voices who are telling the diverse and rich stories from an era that most adversely affected us. The series runs from mid-March through Juneteenth.

 

Schedule of Events

 

Monday, March 7, 2011 at 7 p.m.

 

Fast Blood by Judy Tate

 

It's 1845.  Ham and Effie, an enslaved couple, stumble across the body of a hanging man who's miraculously still alive.  It is their connection to this mysterious and seductive stranger that tests their faith, love and ultimately, their own notions of slavery.

 

Location:  CAP 21 - 18 W. 18th Street, 6th Floor, NYC

 

Post Show Conversation:  The Human Face of Slavery

 

Kick-Off Wine and Cheese Reception will follow.

 

Co-presented by CAP 21

 

 

 

Monday, April 4, 2011 at 7 p.m.

 

Sweet Maladies by Zakiyyah Alexander

 

It's been two years since slavery was abolished and three recently freed slavegirls, stuck in 'the big house', play the only game they know: history.  But what happens when the game turns sticky sweet and deadly?

 

Location:  Mark Morris Dance Center - 3 Lafayette Avenue, Fort Greene, Brooklyn

 

Post Show Conversation:  Tiny Rebellions

 

 

 

Monday, May 2, 2011 at 7 p.m.

 

Living in the Wind by Michael Bradford

 

Georgia. 1876. Isaiah, a former plantation stud, steps into Sarah's front yard after a twelve-year absence. Married as slaves and separated by their owner on the night of their marriage, Sarah and Isaiah attempt to salvage a relationship.  However, difficulties arise as new lovers, past conquests, and the deadly reminder of slavery stand before them.

 

Location:  The Drilling Company - 236 W. 78th Street, NYC

 

Post Show Conversation:  Slavery's Impact on Male Sexual Identity

 

Co-presented by The Drilling Company

 

 

 

Monday, June 6, 2011 at 7 p.m.

 

Voices from Harpers Ferry by Dominic Taylor

 

In 1859, twenty-one men, including five free Black men, attacked the arsenal at Harpers Ferry along with the legendary John Brown.  This exciting new play probes into the lives of the five Black men who fought alongside Brown, and more importantly, Osborne P. Anderson, the only Black man who survived to tell the tale of Harpers Ferry.

 

Location:  Audubon Ballroom - 3940 Broadway, btw 165th & 166th Streets, NYC 

 

Post Show Conversation:  John Brown and Civil War Uprisings

 

Co-Presented by The Classical Theatre of Harlem

 

 

 

Wednesday, June 15, 2011 at 7 p.m.

 

Safe House by Keith Josef Adkins

 

1843.  Kentucky.  Addison Pedigrew is a free man of color who has big dreams of opening a shoe business.  His family also secretly helps fugitives flee to Liberia.  When a young woman knocks on his door seeking refuge, Addison's loyalty to race and family finally clashes with his unrelenting desire for success.

 

Location:  Audubon Ballroom - 3940 Broadway, btw 165th & 166th Streets, NYC 

 

Post Show Conversation:  Free People of Color and the Trek to Liberia

 

Co-Presented by The Classical Theatre of Harlem

 

 

 

Please check back for updates:  TheNewBlackfest.org

 

THE NEW BLACK FEST is URGENT.

 

The New Black Fest is a movement. It's a call to action inspired by the state of Black theater in the 21st century. It is a bold step motivated by a growing need within the Black theater community for serious change and boundless opportunity.

 

THE NEW BLACK FEST is A COMMUNITY.

 

The New Black Fest is a gathering of artists, thinkers, activists and audiences who are dedicated to stretching, interrogating and uplifting the Black aesthetic.

 

THE NEW BLACK FEST is VISIONARY.

 

The New Black Fest is a commitment to celebrate, advocate and showcase diverse and provocative work in a festival of Black theater artists from throughout the Diaspora.  It is a convening of visionaries who are determined to reintroduce the way black theater is perceived, who are ready to chart out resolutions and promote action through panel discussions, workshops, and putting both artists and community members on the hot seat.

 

THE NEW BLACK FEST is FOR EVERYONE.

 

The New Black Fest is for everyone and anyone who supports elevating and celebrating Black theater around the world, in a fresh way.

 

THE NEW BLACK IS NOW.

 

WE ARE THE NEW BLACK.

 

For reservations, e-mail reservations@thenewblackfest.org

The New Black Fest couldn't do this work without your support! A donation of any size will help! You can make your tax-deductible donation here
 
  

The New Black Fest  

is a sponsored project of Fractured Atlas, a non-profit arts service organization. Contributions for the purposes of The New Black Fest must be made payable to Fractured Atlas and are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law.


The New Black Fest

Keith Josef Adkins & J. Holtham

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Bessie  Smith  (1894  -  1937) 


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Bessie Smith 4Bessie Smith began her professional career in 1912 by singing in the same show as Ma Rainey, and subsequently performed in various touring minstrel shows and cabarets. By the 1920s, she was a leading artist in black shows on the TOBA circuit and at the 81 Theatre in Atlanta. After further tours she was sought out by Clarence Williams to record in New York. Her first recording, Down-Hearted Blues, established her as the most successful black performing artist of her time. She recorded regularly until 1928 with important early jazz instrumentalists such as Williams, James P. Johnson, and various members of Fletcher Henderson's band, including Louis Armstrong, Charlie Green, Joe Smith, and Tommy Ladnier. During this period she also toured throughout the South and North, performing to large audiences. In 1929, she appeared in the film St. Louis Blues. By then, however, alcoholism had severely damaged her career, as did the Depression, which affected the recording and entertainment industries. A recording session, her last, was arranged in 1933 by John Hammond for the increasing European jazz audience; it featured among others Jack Teagarden and Benny Goodman. By 1936, Smith was again performing in shows and clubs, but she died, following an automobile accident, before her next recording session had been arranged. 

 

 

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Smith was unquestionably the greatest of the vaudeville blues singers and brought the emotional intensity, personal involvement, and expression of blues singing into the jazz repertory with unexcelled artistry. Baby Doll and After You've Gone, both made with Joe Smith, and Nobody Knows You When You're Down And Out, with Ed Allen on cornet, illustrate her capacity for sensitive interpretation of popular songs. Her broad phrasing, fine intonation, blue-note inflections, and wide, expressive range made hers the measure of jazz-blues singing in the 1920s. She made almost 200 recordings, of which her remarkable duets with Armstrong are among her best. Although she excelled in the performance of slow blues, she also recorded vigorous versions of jazz standards. Joe Smith was her preferred accompanist, but possibly her finest recording (and certainly the best known in her day) was Back Water Blues, with James P. Johnson. Her voice had coarsened by the time of her last session, but few jazz artists have been as consistently outstanding as she.   



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The SGL symbol, the Bawabisi, is inspired by Nigerian Nsibidi script and West African Adrinkra symbols. The two facing semi-circles represent unity and love. The figure has been split symmetrically in half to suggest parts of a whole that mirror each other. Dots are often used in Adinkra symbols to represent commitment and pluralism. The split and dots, with the addition of color, suggest the concept of gender. The circle encompassing the figure reinforces the idea of connectedness despite duality, suggesting the idea of two-spirited.





About  BMX- NY...
 
  



 THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE - NEW YORK (BMX-NY) was founded in Harlem in 2002 and is a gathering for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual Black men to powerfully and respectfully address issues that impact their lives, and to connect with one another in a positive, affirming, nurturing and transformational environment. Ages 18 and up.

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BMX  Mission  Statement

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THE BLACK MEN'S XCHANGE (BMX) was founded in 1989 by activist, writer and behavioral health expert Cleo Manago, as an instrument of healing and empowerment for same gender loving (SGL) and bisexual African descended men. The mission of the Black Men's Xchange (BMX) is to affirm, heal, educate, unify and promote well-being and critical thinking among Black people - 18 and up - diverse in sexuality, class, culture and philosophy.  Black Men's Xchange (BMX) conducts activities that promote healthy self-concept, sexual health, constructive decision making, and cultural affirmation among same-gender-loving (SGL), bisexual and heterosexual Black populations. BMX affirms and educates Black men (and the community at-large) while providing tools for self-determination, community responsibility, self-actualization and the prevention of health threats (e.g. HIV, isolation, substance and other addictions, and mental instability). BMX creates an environment that advances black culture and involves identifying and unlearning ingrained anti-homosexual and anti-black male and female conditioning,

 

BMX is built on a philosophy that embraces same gender loving experience as intrinsic to everyday Black life.  Integral to BMX's approach is the understanding that, in order to decrease internal and external anti-homosexual thinking, and demystify differences around diverse ways of living and loving Black people must engage in supportive dialogue with each other and the community.

 

At BMX we believe that self-determination is crucial in achieving success toward healing and empowerment.  We understand that our cultural and experiential uniqueness requires a uniquely focused and precise approach.  Affirming strategies born out of our own experience is powerful; hence, the adoption of the terms, Black, African American and Same Gender Loving (SGL).



  

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The Black Men's Xchange-New York And Our Allies At The Millions More Movement (MMM) In Washington, DC
(October 15th, 2005) 


 
The Term Same Gender Loving

The term Same Gender Loving (SGL) emerged in the early '90s to offer Black women who love women and Black men who love men (and other people of color) a way of identifying that resonated with the uniqueness of Black life and culture.  Before this many African descended people, knowing little of our history regarding homosexuality and bi-sexuality, took on European symbols and identifications as a means of embracing our sexualities, including: Greek lambdas, German pink triangles, and the white-gay-originated rainbow flag, in addition to the terms gay, and lesbian.

The term gay, coined as an identification by White male homosexuals in the '50s, was cultivated in an exclusive White male environment.  By the '60s, the growing Gay Liberation movement developed in a climate largely excluding Blacks and women.  In response to this discrimination, White women coined the identification lesbian, a word derived from the Greek island, Lesbos. The Lesbian movement, in turn, helped define a majority White movement, called feminism.  In response to the racism experienced by women of color from White feminists, celebrated author, Alice Walker introduced the term womanist.

The term womanist identified women of color concerned with both the sexual and racial oppression of women.  In this spirit of self-naming and ethnic-sexual pride, the term same gender loving(SGL) was introduced to enhance the lives and amplify the voices of homosexual and bi-sexual people of color, to provide a powerful identification not marginalized by racism in the gay community or by "homophobic" attitudes in society at large.

As gay culture grew and established enclaves in San Francisco, Chelsea, Provincetown, Key West and other territories, Blacks especially, were carded and rejected from many establishments.  Even today Blacks, Latinos and Asians often appear in gay publications and other media solely as potential sexual objects.  Ironically, gay rights activism was modeled on the Civil Rights and Black Power Movements initiated by African Americans.

In the years since the advent of the Gay Rights movement many Black SGLs have found scant space for the voices, experiences and empowerment of Black people.  Additionally, the rigid influence of the Black church's traditionally anti-homosexual stance has contributed to attitudes that repress and stigmatize Black SGLs.  The lack of acknowledgment and support in the Black community has shunted multitudes of same gender loving African descended people to the White community to endure racism, isolation from their own communities, and cultural insensitivity.

The high visibility of the white gay community along with the absence of illumination on same gender loving experience contributes to the tendency in Black communities to overlook and ridicule same gender loving relationships as alien or aberrant.  The SGL movement has inspired national dialogue on diverse ways of loving in the Black community.  The term same gender loving explicitly acknowledges loving within same-sex relationships, while encouraging self-love.

The designation, same gender loving has served as a wake up call for Blacks to acknowledge diverse ways of loving and being, and has provided an opportunity for Blacks and other people of color to claim, nurture and honor their significance within their families and communities.


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