You're Amazing
You are Perfect with a capital P. You are Smart and Strong. You are Glorious just the way you are. Do not change a thing, not one hair.
Has anyone told you these things lately? Was your first reaction to reading this "No, I'm not" with a bit of a gasp? I know you can find scads of reasons why you're this or that. You don't have to look very far from your local newsstand to see how quite inadequate you are (hi Cosmo, Shape). For some, you need only check in with your Mom or partner or boss. It always seems someone, maybe close to you, volunteers more, meditates longer, runs farther, or grows greener kale.
But, seriously. We only feel the way we do about ourselves by what we or others tell us. Suppose you love to sing. There is no better joy than to blast out "Like a Virgin" or some Streisand ballad to put a smile on your face and a swing in your booty. Then, someone (often yourself) rains on your parade with "Ugh! You sound terrible" and smirks or laughs or leaves. This self or outer criticism goes on and on and on throughout our lives. Yes, we can blame our parents, teachers and the media, but we do a lot of it to ourselves.
Most importantly, you are human with all the quirky tendencies and unavoidable foibles, Milk spills. Dings happen. Wrinkles appear. Deadlines pass. Please be super easy on yourself. And while you're at it, give a big toothy smile to the checker at Whole Foods. Dang if she doesn't give you the same back.
Try this: For a day, just a day pretend you are the most awesome You possible--just the way you are. You're caring, compassionate, capable and strong. You fulfill your commitments and and have plenty of time to call your Mom. Life is just as it should be and so are you--perfect. Are you smiling? I hope so. Enjoy your perfect day.
Did you want to read some of my past columns? You can right here.
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