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The Gift of Unhappiness

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The Gift of Unhappiness

Greetings!

No, I'm not talking about the unhappiness we experience from being retrenched, not getting a promotion, a lover or partner leaving us or being clinically depressed. I'm talking about the inner mechanism that tells us things are not as they should be in our world and its time for change. Do you know how to read it or use it to your advantage? Few do.

Everyone strives for happiness. It's like the port a ship steers towards. It's a value we all strive for that indicates all is well in our world. Different people get it from different things, including success, marriage, a holiday, balance in our lives; others find it in adventure and excitement. What makes you happy?

When you feel unhappy or dissatisfied it's your inner-self telling you that something needs to change.

Responses to Unhappiness

1. Ignore - the boiling frog syndrome
You may have heard the story about the frog that was placed in cold water and slowly heat was applied. As the change was gradual, the frog didn't notice the change in temperature and was eventually boiled to death. Had the frog been placed directly into hot water though, he would have jumped out immediately. How many people do you know who have just learned to live with unhappiness and accepted this as their lot in life?

2. Compromise - settling for second best
Another way of dealing with unhappiness is to dull the ache a little with compromises at the job, in the relationship, standard of living or lifestyle. Deep down inside you are still not happy though.

3. Change -  Read the unhappiness meter and take action

Have you ever had a friend who is always whinging about their relationship, their job, their finances etc etc. After listening, the best thing you can do is say to them. "That's terrible. What are you going to do about it?" Most people are shocked by that response. They hadn't actually thought about doing something about it as they were just locked into negative thinking.

So are you unhappy about an area in your life? Time to take action and change it.

'Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action'

Benjamin Disraeli

Any questions? Just email me. anthony.venn-brown@psalifecoaching.com

Recent Testimonials

After a friend forwarded Anthony's newsletter to me, I considered life coaching with him for nearly a year. No knowing exactly what outcomes I'd get, I was concerned about the cost of coaching and called and asked him if he could recommend someone that he had taught that I could afford. He generously did so and I made further enquiries but my procrastination set in and put it off coaching once again!

I was very unhappy in my job and also wanted to learn how to stop the procrastinating that was affecting all areas of my life. Finally I decided that I wanted the best for myself so I would go to the best!

This was a fantastic decision as meeting Anthony and doing the 'Dare to be your Best' program was a real turning point for me. I clarified my values and beliefs and then was able to identify what wasn't serving me in other areas in my life and not just in my job. I learnt how to break my bad habits, especially procrastination, how to set goals and really stick to them and how to focus on what I wanted for myself. Things have shifted and it's been a real case of out with the out of date and in with the new!

Anthony's gift is that he makes you to feel completely comfortable during the process, he wisely gives you a nudge if you need one and most importantly he makes it fun! He also introduced me to The Secret before it really hit the news stands which has become part of my daily life. It still amazes me how it works and how my thinking patterns affect my life.

Finally, I read Anthony's autobiography which was incredibly inspiring. I was so tired at work that week as I couldn't put it down at night! It's a real page turner and it inspired me to just be the person I am and want to be and no longer put it off.

Having now experienced the benefits of coaching for myself, I would recommend anyone who wants the best for themselves to use Anthony as your coach. It's an investment worth every cent and more! Sam Partington                                                     

Anthony Venn-Brown along with the Dare to Be Your Best coaching format have taken me from a comfortable state of misery with my job, an unfulfilled family life and turned me inside out. There was no doubt after the initial complimentary session that I was at a point in my life where I was either going to accept my situation and live my life for others, or I was going to accept the idea of coaching and embrace a future that I can be proud of. 

With coaching, you have the freedom to say things that may have never been said, ask life questions that you have never asked, express your true self and face no judgement. I was able to say things to Anthony that I had never told anyone about my inner self. We talked about my sexual orientation and feelings that I have struggled with my whole life, the fact that I am married with children and now question everything about that. We looked into every part of what is me and discussed how I perceive myself. Coaching gave me a new awareness of true self for the first time in my life. It also showed me the differences between me and others and what that means for me in business and family relationships. I am now able to measure myself but more importantly for me, I can also measure the people around me and choose relationships that are a positive impact on me.

Every hour of everyday I can use what the coaching process has taught me to make my world a better place. I will never be able to thank Anthony enough for the future that I am now able to create. I am now the proud owner of a life that matters and I am going to make a difference. When was the last time you inspected your entire operating system? For me it was never. In the 12 week process you will find what makes you, well, you. Everyone should take 12 weeks of their life for self examination, especially before you take major steps in life. Career, family, relationships, marriage, they all deserve your best, Dare to Be Your Best

(client name withheld USA)

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When Would You Benefit from Professional Coaching?
When you're:
  • wanting a change in your career
  • navigating changes in your life
  • starting up a new business
  • wanting to change the habit of procrastination
  • tolerating too much and recognise it's time for change
  • stuck and wanting to move forward
When you need:
  • to discover personal empowerment
  • strategic planning in your finances, social life, health, career
  • greater understanding of your journey or self discovery
  • to increase performance in your job or business
  • clarity and accountability around goal setting
  • to bring your life into balance
  • to understand your life purpose, mission and vision
  • assistance with time management and decision making
  • to identify and change the self-limiting beliefs that hold you back
  • to increase your salary or reduce the stress of finances
  • to clarify your values and beliefs and find out what will truly fulfil you

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A Life of Unlearning - A Journey to Find the Truth is Australia's Brokeback Mountain and Ted Haggard stories rolled into one. It's a behind the scenes look into the life of a high profile preacher who, believing being gay made him unacceptable to God and others, struggles to resolve his homosexuality and his Christian beliefs. Ultimately, this honest account is as story of resolution, the impact the author's courage has on others and what it means to live authentically.
 

"Human stories, like the one in these pages, play a part in advancing understanding and acceptance. It is the story of a quest to find not only self-acceptance but one of the most powerful forces in nature-human love.."

The Hon. Michael Kirby
Anthony Venn-Brown
Professional Coach - Author - Speaker
Personal Success Australia
+ 61 2 9699 2448 or 0416 015 231