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Spheres of Life.
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Greetings!
 
"I have no hesitation in saying that although the American woman never leaves her domestic sphere and is in some respects very dependent within it, nowhere does she enjoy a higher station. And if anyone asks me what I think the chief cause of the extraordinary prosperity and growing power of this nation, I should answer that it is due to the superiority of their women.". 
~ Alexis de Tocqueville. French historian and political scientist. 1805 - 1859
 
Before I address all the raised eyebrows that the above quote must surely bring, do have a look at this short video:
Dealing with Stress - Spheres of Life.flv 
Dealing with Stress - Spheres of Life.flv

The clip is a first attempt at making this newsletter a little more engaging, and I do intend to make the inclusion of video clips a regular feature.

Alexis de Tocqueville's remark about American women says quite a bit about the spheres of control and influence. In the Nineteenth Century, the home was the American woman's main sphere of control, and therefore might seem infinitesimal to a woman of today. However, that same American woman's sphere of influence was anything but small! Leading business and political figures owed much of their success to those private conferences where organic "female intuition" was fused with the cold iron of
male business sense. The result was to forge a supremely-tempered, high-quality steel, well able to prevail in the battlegrounds of both boardroom and stateroom. The large sphere of influence surely extended the sphere of interest, which, although greatly eroded, remains till today.

Spheres of life

How is your sphere of control, of responsibility? Have you stepped up to the plate and taken full charge of it? Have you determined what your true responsibilities are, and are you committed to the highest quality as you prosecute their fulfillment? Have you determined to release those things that do not belong in your sphere of control? Only then will your sphere of influence grow in both depth and extent. And when that happens, your sphere of influence will start to shape your sphere of interest.

Have a most fulfilling week ahead! 
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Happenings at Shining Arrow 
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I'm working on putting up a calendar showing coaching slots that are available for booking. After this newsletter goes out, I'll be sending news about workshops that I will be conducting in the weeks ahead. Do look out for that, and do forward the newsletter to your friends if you find them useful! The newsletter goes out to Facebook, LinkedIn and Twitter as well, so please let your friends know, too! Thanks for your continuing support!

Elijah Lim
Principal Consultant
Shining Arrow Consulting Pte Ltd
www.shiningarrow.com
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