June 2010

Vol 5, Issue 6


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It's My Heart Newsletter

 Chapter Spotlight: Dallas/Ft. Worth
Chapter Spotlight
The It's My Heart Dallas/Ft. Worth Chapter was originally a small support group called Hearts and Souls based out of Cook Children's Hospital in Fort Worth, TX. It was put together by a group of parents who saw the need to get support from other families whose child also had a heart defect. After a few years the group seemed to lose support and fizzled out. A couple of years later, another parent also saw the need for a support group and brought back Hearts and Souls for the second time.  Not even a year after the group reassembled, we were approached by Corrie Stassen from Its My Heart (National) to see if we would like to become the Fort Worth chapter of Its My Heart. We finally put it to a vote amongst all of our members and decided that it would be in our best interest to become It's My Heart Fort Worth Chapter. We were all pretty excited to become a part of a national organization with the same goal of support and awareness for congenital heart defects.

Since then we have been avidly promoting CHD awareness by providing comfort bags at Cook children's, fundraising, holding events and monthly support group meetings as well as   getting our literature out as much as we can. Most recently we put on our 1st annual Run/walk for the Dallas/fort worth area. It was a great turn for our first year. We had a great time raising awareness and cannot wait for next year. We also just went to a Texas Rangers game as a group. There were over 100 Its My Heart members in attendance. This was our second year being invited to the ballpark.

We have a great team of officers without which our chapter would not be possible. Our officers are Miranda Tamez:  President, Woody Woodworth: Treasurer, Sherri Blazek-Woodworth: Secretary, Patty Alvarez: Comfort Bag Officer, Beth Loviscek: Newsletter editor, and last but not least Carolina Lara: Events coordinator. We have also had a great deal of support from our hospital coordinator Kathy Grieser who is also on our board of directors.

Our goal is to continue to grow, spread awareness, and reach out to as many heart families as possible.
 

New Address
Moving BoxOur office has moved!
The It's My Heart, Inc National Office has moved to:

1775 St. James Place, Suite 130
Houston, TX 77056

Please update your address book and make sure any reoccurring employer match donations are updated as well.
 
IMH in the News
The following article was published in the Echo Press Newspaper in Alexandria, Minnesota and spotlights four families from the new IMH chapter in Minnesota. We have printed an excerpt from the article.  To view the article in its entirety click here.

Matters of the heart
Published May 14, 2010

It's a dfficult thing for parents to go through - expecting a healthy baby, only to discover when the bundle of joy arrives that there are serious, and completely unexpected, complications. Four area families know only too well the heartache of having a child born with a congenital heart disease. In some cases, the families are celebrating successful surgeries and medical treatments, grateful their babies survived and are healthy.But some parents aren't so lucky - their children didn't survive. And they struggle every day with the pain and loneliness of having their little ones' lives taken by matters of the heart.

What is a congenital heart defect?

A congenital heart defect (CHD) is a structural problem with the heart that is present at birth. It results when a mishap occurs during heart development soon after conception and often before the mother is aware she is pregnant. Defects range in severity from simple problems, such as "holes" between the chambers of the heart, to severe malformations, such as complete absence of one or more chambers or valves. Treatment can include medicine, surgery, other medical procedures and heart transplants, depending on the severity of the defect.

Unlike most people who have children with heart problems, Jesse and Hannah Ross of Miltona were prewarned. At a routine ultrasound at 20 weeks, doctors discovered that the Ross' unborn child had HLHS. Hazel was flown to Rochester (the Heidelbergers currently reside in Mankato) where she was diagnosed with HLHS. She made it through two surgeries, but lost her battle for life on January 14. "It's a minute to minute thing," Angela said of how they are coping with their daughter's death. "It's very lonely." That feeling of having no one to turn to prompted Angela to start a Minnesota chapter of It's My Heart, an organization dedicated to raising awareness of CHD. The group also provides a place for those who have experienced the difficulties of having a child with CHD to meet, share stories, encourage each other, and get information regarding the disease. It's My Heart of Southern Minnesota became official with the state on April 26, with Angela Heidelberger serving as president.

Ways to Help:

· The Ross family - A spaghetti feed and silent auction are set for Saturday, May 22 at the Elks Lodge in Alexandria from 3 to 8 p.m.
· The Duchene family - An account to help defray medical costs has been set up at Bremer Bank in Alexandria. Make checks payable to Emma Duchene Benefit Fund and send to Bremer Bank, Emma Duchene Benefit Fund, 2210 Highway 29 South, Alexandria, MN 56308.
· It's My Heart, Inc. - Southern Minnesota Chapter is organizing a "Walk for CHD" to be held Saturday, September 11 at the track at Jefferson High School in Alexandria. Details will be published when they become available. To donate or support the event, contact Angela Heidelberger at (507) 779-2489 or by e-mail at angela.heidelberger@itsmyheart.org.
A Facebook page has also been set up; visit the website www.facebook.com and do a search for "It's My Heart of Southern Minnesota."

IMH National Conference
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       It's My Heart
      2nd Annual

      Congenital
     Heart Defect  
      Conference
                   
  June 4-6, 2010

  Houston, Texas


                   ♥ Hotel Accommodations
                 ♥ Full Conference Schedule
                      ♥ Online Registration
 
In This Issue:
IMH in the News
Heart Journey
CHD Birthdays
Someone Loves IMH!
Family Matching
Donations
It's My Heart Chapters

Quote of the Month

A single sunbeam is enough to drive away many shadows.

St. Francis of Assisi
National Officers
& Official Volunteers


Corrie Stassen
Executive Director

Katy Wolff
Vice President

Lauren Simpson
Secretary

Alexis Durham
Treasurer

Anissa Speight
Medical Advisory Board Coordinator

Laurie Hutchings
Family Matching Director

Ann Martin
Literature Distribution

Ashley Auzenne
Project Development

Gail Brasser
Project Seamstress

Pamela Floyd
Conference Chair

Allison Johnston
Newsletter Co-Editor

Amy McCathran
Newsletter Co-Editor

Heather Vinson
Financial Director

Kate Shamszad
Child Life Specialist

Jill Vantine
Transition Coordinator

Cailey Fitzgerald
We Got Heart Chair

Tiffany Galligan
Marketing

Ty McCathran
Legislative Liaison

Robyn Steinberg
Web Administrator

Tim Hutchings
Web Admin Assistant &
Graphics

Kim Shadek
Chapter Liaison

Pamela Camit
Chapter Liaison

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Heart Journey
This is the heart journey of Caleb Joseph Harris as told by his mother Kim Harris
 
    The day I found out I was pregnant was one of the most exciting days of my life. I always wanted to be a mom and my dream was finally coming true! Every night before I went to sleep, I prayed for a healthy baby, I didn't care what gender, just as long as they were healthy. Every doctor appointment I went to, they listened to his heart, measured me, and said that everything sounded wonderful. Even when I had ultrasounds, I was told "the heart looks great!" I just knew everything was going the way it should. I gave birth to Caleb Joseph Harris on December 22nd 2009. It is now April 2010 and we still haven't been home yet.
    He was born at 10:06 a.m. and I listened very carefully for that cry that every mom longs to hear that tells her "the baby's okay".   I heard that cry and felt like I breathed a sigh of relief. They brought him to me and I saw 10 fingers and 10 toes. Everything was perfect! I was going to bring my little boy home in 2 days and we would finally have our little family. It didn't get to happen that way.
    That night, we were settling into our room and I was so happy to have Caleb with us that I didn't want to give him up. Danny was falling asleep in the chair beside me and I took Caleb out of his bed and put him with me. I just held him, smelled him, kissed him and loved every minute with him. I started to get sleepy at around 11pm and despite wanting him, decided it was best to send him to the nursery so I could get some kind of sleep. I woke up at 2am to a doctor saying to me "we believe Caleb has a heart problem". Those words made my heart sink. That's such a general statement and my mind raced. She said they were waiting on the transport team and he was going to be rushed to Shands Hospital to their NICU unit. Two hours later, they let us see our baby before he was transported. He was in an incubator. He was hooked up to monitors, he had an IV. Danny and I were beyond terrified. They took him away, we went back to our room and cried.
     We were discharged the next day and Danny and I immediately drove the hour and a half to Shands Hospital. We saw Caleb again in the incubator. He was hooked up to even more equipment. I asked what was wrong. The nurses echoed the same sentence, "He has a heart problem." I wanted more! We went to a hotel and slept, or tried to sleep. We found out the next day that he had a congenital heart defect known as Hypoplastic Right Heart Syndrome. The cardiologist walked in and the first thing he said was "This is fixable, your boy will be okay". Wow, what a relief that was to hear. So we dealt with the NICU stay and just held on to the idea that in a few weeks he would have his first surgery and come home.
     On January 7th, the doctors did a heart catheterization to find out a little bit more about his heart. They called us into a meeting the next day. There were more problems; not only did he have HRHS, he also had Pulmonary Atresia, severe Tricuspid Stenosis, ASD and PDA. WOW. That was a laundry list of words we didn't understand. They told us in that meeting that they wouldn't be able to do his first surgery, he would need a heart transplant. We broke down again. This is not what we expected to hear EVER. He had been on a medication called PGE since he was born to keep a duct open that was allowing blood and oxygen to flow to the lungs. Without that, he wouldn't be alive. Caleb was listed on January 15th, 2010.
      Caleb did relatively well with PGE until the end of February/beginning of March. That medication has some "not so good" side effects. The areas around all of his bones were inflammed. He was in pain. You could see it on his face. I was scared to pick him up anymore. He would cringe when you would touch him. He was swollen, he had a fever, and at times was inconsolable. This was not the Caleb I knew. He was always so happy and content. All the nurses and doctors loved him, and he never gave them any problems.
      We found out in March that they were able to do a surgery called the Bidirectional Glenn which is where they take his superior vena cava artery and attach it to the pulmonary artery so that they can re-direct the blood flow to the lungs. This was part of the initial 3 part surgery we had heard about when he was first born. The first surgery was the BT shunt which Caleb never had because they feared he would have a heart attack and die if they attempted that first surgery. We never thought they would be able to do any surgery besides the heart transplant.
      This news came as a welcome surprise. Our boy was stronger than the doctors had hoped. We KNEW that but it was nice to have the doctors see what we knew all along. His surgery was done on March 16th, 2010.  It only took 3 hours. They got him settled in the PICU and we went to see our baby.  Luckily, I had met some heart moms before this that warned me what my baby would look like but it still didn't completely prepare me for what I was about to see.
We came up and he was hooked up to more things than we could imagine. There was not one part of his body that wasn't poked or covered with wires. He was puffy, he had a tube in his throat, his face was gone. It was replaced by monitors and tubes. Everything beeped, these were different beeps than what we grew used to in the NICU. I didn't know what these meant and that scared me. They told us the first 24-48 hours were the most critical. It hit me, my baby was in critical condition.
      The first day, we couldn't touch Caleb because they didn't want him stimulated. They wanted him to remain as pain free as possible. I think that was one of the hardest days of my life so far. Being so close but feeling so far away from my son. The next day, he was even more swollen, which no one had warned me about, so that made me break down. I cried so hard and just wanted my baby back. The days that followed were honestly a blur but he did get better every day, little by little. The next hurdle we had to jump was feeding.
    We have always been told that heart babies will always have a feeding issue. Their heart works more and they tire out. They lose weight and they struggle to keep the weight on. Caleb's doctors were hopeful though. He took 2 bottles right after the breathing tube came out. Not many babies do that! The next day though, he stopped eating all together. We worked with occupational therapy and occasionally he would take less than half an ounce but for the most part, he would not eat. That was the most frustrating part of it all. We were so close to the door out but at the same time, so far away. It was like I could see the exit but I couldn't reach it. After much deliberation by doctors and us included, it was decided that the feeding tube in his stomach (gtube) was the best option. He would get nourishment and he would finally be able to come home.
      On April 13th, he had the surgery to insert the feeding tube, (yes another surgery!) along with a Niss en which would keep him from vomiting due to a reflux issue. That surgery took almost 4 hours. I was a nervous wreck waiting for him. I was told it would only take 2 hours so my mind was wondering. I prayed that everything was going well. I was scared, though. I was by myself with this one so I had no distractions. I had a clock that reminded me what little time had gone by and I had my brain that wouldn't stop. He came up intubated (breathing tube in) which made me sad because he coughs and coughs and it gives him such pain. I saw the gtube, which frightened me. I know it will become like second nature but right now it just looks like a foreign object in his body that I don't want there. He was extubated the next day.
    Caleb is gradually getting better and we are hoping to go home for the very first time on April 19th, 2010, 118 days after being in the hospital!  I am elated, happy, overwhelmed, scared, sad, and nervous. Every emotion a person can possibly have, I am experiencing right now. I CANNOT wait to start our life and have normalcy. This child has shown me what a fighter really is and the true meaning of strength. He is my hero and I look up to him EVERY SINGLE DAY!

Share your story!
poetry contest
Language of the Heart
Poetry & Short Story Book


We want to hear from you! It's My Heart is putting together a collection of poetry and short stories written by or about people affected by heart defects.  We are looking for special moments, heartwarming and inspirational pieces. Poems and short stories should provide insight into the emotions, trials, and at times humorous events you have experienced living with CHD, either personally or through a family member. Please check out www.itsmyheart.org to submit and for more information, or contact book@itsmyheart.org.
Join us in putting feelings into words to share and inspire! Deadline for submissions is AUGUST 1ST!
CHD Birthdays

   Luz Yaneli ruiz     Syrus Ortiz    Breanna Marie Bickers   
           Luz Yaneli Ruiz                            Syrus Ortiz                            Breanna Marie Bickers
             June 1, 2006                           June 13, 1998                               June 14, 2006
  Joshua Weisman       Hana Kanter         Jacob Smiley         
         Joshua Weisman                           Hana Kanter                                 Jacob Smiley
           June 14, 2009                             June 18, 2003                               June 22, 2001                                                                                 

                        Sammy Baugh              Emma Womack
                                      Sammy Baugh                                   Emma Womack
                          June 22, 2008-June 14, 2009                         June 27, 2007                                                                                           

TCH

Is your child born in July?  Please send us your child's birthday and picture so we can all celebrate your child's birth with you!

 

We also want to celebrate all your angel's birthdays too! So, please send us their information so we can include them as well! E-mail to

newsletter@itsmyheart.org.
Someone loves IMH!
From the bottom of our hearts, Thank You. For what you do, for being there. It's greatly appreciated.
God Bless,
Maria & Family from New Jersey
(from the IMH facebook page)


 
Do you know someone who loves IMH?  Send a story of how someone you know reached out to the CHD community! Email newsletter@itsmyheart.org.
IMH Seattle Chapter Zoo Day
Seattle ZooEnjoy a day at the Zoo with the Seattle chapter of IT'S MY HEART!
June 5th 2010
Woodland Park Zoo
750 N. 50th Street
Seattle, WA 98103

Free tickets for children with CHD and their families.
Schedule: 10:00am-10:30am:  Ticket pickup at South Gate Entrance.
Bring a picnic Lunch or there are also two restaurants.

Visit the zoo website for directions, parking and current exhibit info! www.zoo.org.

RSVP by June 4th to Carla Baysinger - Chapter President (253) 269-2240.
 
IMH Portland Chapter
Portland Fundraiser Logo
It's My Heart Portland is proud to support
CHD Awareness and Research.
Sunday, June 5th from
5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.


We would like to invite everyone to help support the Children's Heart Foundation at this year's Lion Heart at the Children's Museum. Download the official Lion Heart Flyer here or go to www.chforegon.org for more information.
 
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Family Matching
 
How do I cope with all of the procedures and hospital stays my child endures?

Are there any other children out there with the same diagnosis as my child? How are they doing following their surgery?

Who can I talk to that has had a similar experience?

If you have these questions and more, our Family Matching Program may be able to help you. We can "match" you with another family with the same CHD .We have more adults signing up for family matching each month .If you are an adult with congenital heart disease please consider signing up for Family Matching. You are a true inspiration for families. 
 
For more information, contact familymatching@itsmyheart.org.
Donations

Recurring monthly donations from:
*Beth Jacobson
 
One time donations from:

Katherin Jackson in memory of Steven Douglas Abbott
Ron Rue in loving memory of Kaia Belle Urban
Dana Kervin in honor of Katy and Ed Wolff and their twins

Donations from the Its My Heart Facebook page:

Erin Marshall Ayscue

Donations "In Honor Of", "Memory Of", in recognition of a birthday, anniversary or "Just Because" can be made to It's My Heart. Not only will your donation go towards helping those affected by CHD, but also let someone special know you are thinking of them in a very special way.  All donations are tax deductible.  Your donation will further the work of spreading awareness of CHDs, fund programs such as the Comfort Bags and Care Packages to the hospitals, etc.

It's My Heart Chapters

The mission of It's My Heart provides strength and support for those affected by Heart Defects. It's My Heart exists to provide support to and advocating for those affected by Acquired and Congenital Heart Defects. Through awareness, resources and education, It's My Heart creates alliances and networks among families, groups, hospitals, and the community. 

The objective of chapter development advances our opportunity to increase awareness, support and thereby advocate for those affected by CHD.

 
If you are interested in organizing a chapter or walk in your area, please contact the It's My Heart National Office at (713) 334.4244 or (888) HEART.07 or e-mail
chapters@itsmyheart.org.


Click here to find the IMH Chapter nearest you:


Fresno, California
South Florida 
Indiana (Michiana Chapter)
Boston, Massachusetts
Detroit, Michigan
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Southern Minnesota
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Cleveland, Ohio
Columbus, Ohio
Portland, Oregon
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Houston, Texas
Seattle, Washington


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