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Holiday Traditions and Reflections
December  2013
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"I like to compare the holiday season with the way a child listens to a favorite story. The pleasure is in the familiar way the story begins, the anticipation of familiar turns it takes, the familiar moments of suspense, and the familiar climax and ending." -Fred Rogers
  


We were sitting around the conference table discussing what the December newsletter topic should be.  Somehow,  we got on the topic of holidays and traditions.  The stories started flying around the room, some similar, some different and some pretty whacky.

At this point, we decided it would be nice to share some of these stories with you - so you get to know us a little better and not just what we do at Peace Learning Center.

So, get your glass of eggnog and read on.  Enjoy a few stories and who knows, you may even find one that's similar to one of your own traditions! 

We'd love to hear your story, too!  Feel free to share on our Facebook page:
Wishing you a treasured holiday season and peace in the New Year.  

Peace on,
 
Peace Learning Center 
 
Growing up we opened presents from each other (my immediate family) on Christmas Eve.  My mom, obsessed with Christmas lights and her perfectly decorated tree, would not allow us to begin opening until it was dark and her Christmas tree could shine brightly in all the pictures taken.  My brother and I would close every blind in the house, turn off all the lights, and try to make night time come quicker than normal.  She never fell for our tricks.  That night we would go to sleep and Santa would come and leave presents from the North Pole. 

Christmas morning we would wake up and run into a living room piled high with toys and clothes and whatever our "big" gift was that year.  These presents were never wrapped (because Santa didn't have time to bother with wrapping everyone's presents!), just displayed nicely and always sat up and ready to be played with.  Twenty-six years later, my brother and I and my husband and his wife and kids now all gather in my parents too-small-living room Christmas eve and open presents to each other.  And true to design Santa always brings a little something, unwrapped of course, to leave Christmas morning.

                                        
THE PEACE CREW'S TRIP TO SWAZILAND, AFRICA
 
It has been a little over a week since I returned from Africa with our Crispus Attucks interns.  The number one question that is asked of me,  "Are you more grateful for what you have?"  Of course, I am.  In terms of technology, healthcare, housing, and more we are decades ahead.  In terms of means and access, I never want for anything - needed or desired.  I am so grateful.  But the number one thing I took from the trip was that it's not what we have that makes us better or puts us a head, but what we lack that puts us light years behind them.  Spirit. 

In all my life I have never seen such happy people.  People who sing and dance all the time.  People who hug and embrace family, friends, and strangers.  People who don't know when their next meal will come but who insist on sharing their lunch with you.  People who live in homes with dirt floors and stone walls, but will invite in to share and to laugh.  Children who are not promised tomorrow who run and play. 

This holiday season, don't stress over finding the perfect gift or how much you have to spend.  Take a lesson from me and from my new friends that are miles away;  true happiness is not found in what you will get, but what you already have.  Be happy because you are alive and well.  This holiday season give the gift of song, dance, laughter and love; it will last much longer than anything bought at a store.                                            

To read more about our trip, visit http://jhoran259.wordpress.com where I recount and share stories from our journey.
 

Volunteer 
VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES
 
Volunteers are needed for PLC's 16th Annual Martin Luther King Community Festival!

When: Saturday, January 18 from 10:30 am - 3:30 pm
Where:  Christian Theological Seminary (CTS) - 1000 W. 42nd Street, Indianapolis
What: A free and family-friendly event that incorporates music, art, interactive workshops, performances, and a community fair! To learn more click here.

All volunteers will receive a t-shirt and lunch.  A mandatory meeting will be held January 17 from 4:30-5:30 PM at CTS to train volunteers. 

Interested in volunteering? Contact MLK Event Coordinator Tiffany Tibbot atTtibbot@peacelearningcenter.org 
 
Youth
KRISTINA HULVERSHORN
Director of Youth Programs 

One morning a couple days before Christmas, when I was about 6, I remember hearing music coming from my parent's room.  My sister and I ran in and jumped in bed with them, wanting to hear as much of the song as we could.  

 

José Feliciano belted out "Feliz Navidad...Feliz Navidad....Feliz Navidad próspero año y felicidad..." It is hard not to love that song, especially when you are six.   We tried our best to sing right along with him, my sister, happy to correct my pronunciation.   The next year, the song came on the radio again, strangely enough, on a morning shortly before Christmas while we were all in my parent's room.  To this day, that snapshot of our little family, laughing and singing comes to mind every time I hear that song.   So friends, "Feliz Navidad próspero año y felicidad! I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas from the bottom of my heart!" 

   
To learn how to bring PLC youth programs to your child's school or organization, please contact Kristina Hulvershorn, Director of Youth Programs, at 317-327-7144 or
STACY ROBINSON 
Director of Development & Communications
Before I share my favorite holiday memory, I want to let everyone who's donated to PLC's Be Peace Campaign know how moved I am by your generosity. I often feel like I have the best job in the world because I have the good fortune of constantly being reminded there are so many kindhearted and loving people in our community. Thanks to people like you, we have been able to raise $662,873 towards our $1 million Be Peace Campaign goal!   That's impressive. If you haven't had a chance yet, you can still donate to the Be Peace Campaign - just click here to learn more.

My older sister often made life "interesting" for me when I was growing up - sometimes by doing things like locking me outside in the snow while I was in my pajamas by pretending to do a fire drill. However, more often than not, it was by doing something amazingly sweet and wonderful. One of my favorite memories is waking up to the beautiful lights of our family's Christmas tree after my sister had placed me underneath it while I slept. She recently told me she did it because she thought it would seem magical and she wanted me to have that experience because she never did. She was right - it really was magical. I think that's one of the main reasons I do what I do. I want to be able to help other people experience and give the love I was so blessed to have when I was a child. So, thanks to all of you for everything you do to keep the magic of giving and kindness to others alive in our community! 
 
LISA JONES  
Director of Human Resources & Operations 
With 6 sisters and 1 brother our holidays were crazy fun!
 
We had a silver "tinsel" tree that we'd decorate while my parents sat on the couch, drinking coffee and coaching us to fill in the "bare" spots.  We'd put our faces close to the ornaments and laugh at how distorted we looked. Garland became feather boas and strands of tinsel became static fun, clinging onto any and everything - even the dog!  When finished decorating, we'd  wait impatiently while my dad aimed the rotating colored light at the tree. Once plugged it, we were mesmerized at the ever changing green, blue and red shiny tree.

My parents gave us each $3.00 and drove us to Woolworths so we could do our Christmas shopping and have lunch at the counter.  They had everything at Woolworths....from women's Eau De Perfume to rubber bands and goldfish. We spent hours in that store and when we got home, we'd wrap all our goodies in newspaper and put them under the tree - 8 kids anxiously waiting to open their presents had to be torturous for my mom and dad!

My dad worked EVERY Christmas Eve and we were sad that he couldn't join in the festivities, especially when Santa visited! But my dad always managed to get off work early and was home shortly after Santa left.  The year I figured out Santa and my dad were one in the same was such a disappointment.  but I had to keep the secret for my younger sisters and brother.

After all the excitement was over, we'd gather at the dining room table. My dad would give each of us 50 cents and we'd plan who was buying what at the grocery store to give to the church pantry on Christmas Day. None of us wanted to give up our shiny quarters, but my dad, like a record played every year would say "Remember it's better to give than to receive and someday you'll understand why. Even if you have little, there will be someone who has less and will need your help. You WILL help them and you'll feel good about it and yourself.  NEVER EVER FORGET THAT! Now let's get back to planning and shopping!"

45 years later, here I am - with a daughter of my own, going through the same tradition, using the same words. The exception is we don't save this ritual for a special holiday, we do what we can, when we can.  Service, paying it forward, community, donating, giving of yourself, contributing ......whatever name you give it - my dad was right. It does feel good! 

Youth
JOHN McSHANE
Director of Corporate and Community Programs 

One of the objectives we strive to meet through our Community Programs is to create a place (a home, workplace, community) where everyone is welcome and no one is alone.  It begins with communication - dialogue with dignity and respect.  This time of faith, celebration, and excitement about a new year is a perfect opportunity to take an introspective look and ask ourselves what we're doing to build more inclusive and welcoming communities. It's also one of my favorite holiday traditions.

 

My own New Year's resolution is to try to do a better job of understanding and appreciating both friends and strangers alike. We practice some of these skills in Peace Learning Center workshops but in this new and hopeful year, I plan to:

  • Listen with presence - put down my phone, make eye contact, focus, and eliminate distractions when possible
  • Seek to understand the perspectives of others -   I don't have to agree with another person but it can be useful to at least consider their perspective.
  • Be honest with myself and others - Stop avoiding the difficult conversations. Sometimes the right thing to say can also be the hard thing to say. Learn ways to do this peacefully.

Within our own differences - in perspective, experiences, culture, faith, and knowledge, there is so much we have to share and learn from one another. I'm going to try to do a better job this coming year. What are you going to do?  

 

Happy New Year!

 

Check out Peace Learning Center's Community Program offerings at  www.peacelearningcenter.org  or email me at jmcshane@peacelearningcenter.org.   

ED
TIM NATION
Executive Director 
Tim Nation
Tim Nation, Executive Director & Co-Founder
The holidays remind me of the many years I spent delivering newspapers growing up.

 

Some mornings when it is very cold and miserable, it makes me wonder how I was able to wake up at 4:45 a.m. every day riding my bike down dark streets and sidewalks.  It didn't matter if there was a foot of snow, rain, or a beautiful June sunrise.

 

My least favorite part of the job happened in evenings and on weekends when I would go out and ask each of my customers to pay their bill.  Not only was I a child laborer, I was a child fee collector who many people really didn't want to see.  I remember it was $1.10 a week - those dimes really piled up and change was difficult to make after a few houses.  We'd leave tiny receipts that had the week paid and amount stamped on them.

 

Though I'd occasionally see my customers when I collected, it was a lonely job except for elders who took time to stop and talk.  They'd share their experiences when they were young, show me their gardens and ask me to put their papers in special places that would keep them out of the weather and be able to pick up easily.

 

For some reason, tales of tips were not readily shared among my paper carrier peers at the 12 Points Station in Terre Haute where we met to pick up and fold our papers, setting out into surrounding neighborhoods.

 

So I was very surprised during my first holiday season when customers would pay their bills and then hand me cards the shape of money telling me to have a Merry Christmas.

 

Looking back, it wasn't the money I remember the most.  It was the feeling that someone cared about the work and effort I made.  They cared enough to give me a gift to show their appreciation.  

 

Who do you know that needs recognition for their difficult and thankless work?  

 Events
UPCOMING EVENTS

Upcoming Focus 2020 Workshops: Our Focus 2020 program is taking a short winter break. We'll be publishing our new workshop schedule, which includes many new workshop topics, next month.  


Peace Learning Center's 16th Annual MLK Community Festival:
Celebrating the Life and Legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
Saturday, January 18, 2014

11:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. 

1000 West 42nd Street

 

FREE and open to the public 

No registration required

A great family event! Click here to learn more. 

 

More than 500 people attend each year and, as always, the festival will feature our very popular Community Fair. To make sure your organization is included, contact Lisa Jones at ljones@peacelearningcenter.org or 317-327-7144 for tabling information. To include your business as a sponsor of this inclusive event that celebrates diversity and supports social justice causes, contact Stacy Robinson at srobinson@peacelearningcenter.org
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