It looks like Mother Nature finally changed her mind about giving the Midwest a long, long winter. This week I shoveled my last sidewalk and driveway for the season! I also changed my mind and believe spring is coming!

You may wonder what I mean by "Change your mind, change your pet." Many times I tell clients to remember this phrase. I learned it at Tellington TTouch� Training. Here are some ways I recommend using it:

• If you dog is barking too often and annoying you, change your mind about your dog. Stop thinking "I wish she would stop barking. Stop barking." Instead picture your dog being quiet. Tell her "Good quiet. Thank you for telling me about the person going by."
• If you cat is tearing up the rug or furniture, direct the cat to another object. A cat's pet parent told me her cat was acting out to get even with her. When the cat's guardian changed her thoughts of the cat doing this to punish her, the cat stopped ripping the rug and returned to the loving cat.
• If your dog isn't taking their medicine, you can change your mind about how you are giving him the medicine. Are you forcing open his mouth and shoving the pill down his throat? I bet you are tense and holding your breath. Now exhale and change your mind about giving the medicine. Tell your pet why they need the medicine - to feel better, to stop the pain, etc. Then offer the medicine in a yummy treat (meat, cheese, etc.) If you are still having problems, call me for some more ideas.

It amazes me how changing my mind, really affects Hobbes. I've learned to ask him for what I want. When I use "quiet" or "walk with me" (instead of stop pulling), the changes are huge. And I remind myself to exhale first.

Take care,

Elaine