Our culture focuses on two outcomes, winning and losing. We were taught from the time we were children that those two outcomes define a moment, a day, a year or even a life time. Many of us are still lamenting over a moment where we lost or failed and it still carries a sting as if it happened yesterday. If we have not learned from it and moved on, it hinders us. That moment does not serve to inspire us, it make us insecure, shrink and miss out on the lesson it brought. It is time to put that moment in its rightful place, in the past and create new moments that offer growth, opportunity and the courage to fall...but get back up.