Many of us alike have these blueprints in our mind, and we had a plan, and we are unfulfilled or unhappy and discontent because our life and current situation does not coincide or match up with our past blue prints. Here is how we solve this.

We must get absolutely clear about our dream, our vision, and then plan how we can get there. Once we get can clear, truly clear, we will know where we are going.

Sometimes this requires not only changing our blue prints, or our lives, but actually by changing both.

You see You do not connect the dots in the future, you connect them in the past. This means you are going to be required to reflect, look back, figure out how you got to where you are, learn from the past success and past failures, and then formulate new blueprints and then align everything in your life to fulfill these blue prints.

Here is Something to Watch, just 30 seconds or So and then try and in your own mind or Out Loud Say Your Dream out Loud if you Can. If not, then practice until you can.

Tony Robbins: "I have a dream that..."

Think about, some of us our so ambitious, we will never stop we will constantly push for more, and although this is healthy to a large extent to always want to be better we have to realize that in order to be fulfilled we are after a state of mind. Others of us are to easily satisfied, but not actually fulfilled, we are just content and happy with the status quo. It is the balance of these two things, the blue prints and our life, which are really our values and our accomplishments to achieve these values that is going to lead each of us to a truly extraordinary life.

You see, you can achieve and accomplish, and have success but if you are not living by your value through these things you will have abundance, but somehow be unfulfilled which is missing abundance in the most true form; fulfillment. If we can have our goals in life align with our values we can then be in a position to take action, because when these are aligned, we have no inner conflicts and we won't even have to try to take action, we just will because we are balanced and in harmony on both sides.

We are all after something in our lives, a girl, a guy for that relationship, children, a big house, many vacation properties, traveling to see the world, cars, boats, fancy clothes, more time off to do our hobbies etc, but in the end these are all not going to solely on their own fulfill us if we are not true to our own values. It defines who we each are. We want all these things in life because of how it will make us feel, however would if we could change our way of living and get our minds into a state that we are living by our values in order to accomplish these things and that we already have them. We then would have that feeling right now, and we could always be wealthy, even as we move towards more abundance in our lives. We are never guaranteed tomorrow or to reach our set goal, and if you set yourself so that you cannot be happy or content until you reach that goal and it takes another 20 years longer, or you don't quite get to that goal because you are stubborn and won't modify your blueprints and realize that there are other important changes in yourself along the way but you don't change you plan, you are setting yourself up to be let down by yourself. Instead, harness all the positive of what you are doing in your life right now, align it all for what you want and constantly keep that in balance, it will propel you forward and allow fulfillment all along the way.