If you are not ready to get on this path and do something you have never done in order to follow your heart and what you love, then you need to get clear with yourself. You need to remove the inner conflicts standing in your way. You have to know your goal, and see it clearly, and define it with specifics. If you want a house, actually make a blue print of the house you want, and be realistic, but none the less be particular. You can't get anywhere if you don't know where you are going. You will get lost without a road map and guidance to constantly correct you and keep you path. This is how planes get from point A to point B, they are constantly correcting and paying attention to the guidance system that is keeping them on target. They may get blown off path by storms and rain with lightening, other planes in the path, delays, and they may have to fly a different route, even make a layover or unexpected maneuver to stay safe and return to being on point, but the fact is if they didn't have this system of guidance with a clearly defined origin and destination on the journey, they are never going to be able to get there.
This is what you need, a system. In case something happens, you have a plan that no matter what you will apply to find a solution. Keep that feeling in your heart to pursue this dream you have and figure out a plan of attack for action that will get you there. If it comes easier, or sooner, great, but chances are it will be longer and more difficult, so build into this plan margins and the rule of thumb I apply in my own life, is if I think it is going to take 3 years, it may take 9, and that is ok, but I have to have an ultimate goal, and stick to it and make it a must. If it needs to be 5 and not 9 years, then that is it, it will be 5, that is D day and I will execute the plan by or before then, period!
Get clear and be true to yourself in order to eliminate and remove inner conflicts. This means simply, you cannot have goals that don't match up with your values. You have to get them in line and unison to be in harmony to be successful. If not you will fail. Living by your values will help you to live a fulfilled live and in essences it the only way to live a fulfilled life.
If you want to build a Gazillion Dollar business, but you want to have all the free time in the world with a large family with 10 kids, you will fail. If you want to be a successful attorney at law, but you want to have a booming practice of your own in 2 years and don't want to work that hard, not going to happen. Or if you want to be a professional athlete, but you are not very talented or skilled and you want absolute control of your life and where you live to be a family man, this is impossible. Find the balance, set a system in place, and go get it!!!
Lastly, I will close with this.
Have you ever heard the saying,
"Timing is Everything!" ?
This is very true!! So so so true!! See Why Here!
If you do the wrong thing at the right time, you get pain. If you do the right thing at the wrong time, you get pain.
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Timing Is EVERYTHING.
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It is only when you do the right thing at the right time, you get success.
Is this confusing? It shouldn't be. Let's think of this easy illustration.
-You are driving in a drag race at the track, and you are supposed to hit the gas, steer straight, and keep the wheels from spinning out to get good traction and go as fast down the strip as you can possibly go for a quarter mile, then brake slowly and slow down to a stop.
Now if you do all of that, but you do it before the light turns green, you are disqualified. If you do it when the other opponent is half way down the track, you will lose, and if you do any of this stuff in the wrong order you will crash.
-Or even easier, if you trade in a bad financial market, or try to sell houses when the market is down, it won't work, even if you do the right thing, so don't scream that you are doing the right thing, but not being rewarded if your timing is wrong.
Doing this would be like a farmer thinking that if you harvest your crops on a farm in the winter
he is going to get a good result. Obviously he would be doing the "right things" at the wrong time, and he would get detrimental results and losses as such.
Again, get this sytem in place. Never think just because you are doing the "right thing" it is going to work. You have to be doing it with the timing. This may require you to speed things up, or it may require you to exercise extreme patience and move on to other parts of the plan in order not lose time until you can come back to that part of the goal and accomplish it. You can't just force it, and you can't just give up. Part of life is working all these variables into your plan as you go to create your own system.
This is a motivational newsletter, none of this stuff is for sale, it is from my own life's success, books, seminars, and things that are known to be true and proven time and time again to work.
Now go get it!!
