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January E-Newsletter
Volume 6                                                         Edition #1 
In This Issue
AdoptUsKids
CT Heart Gallery
Suggested Reading
Open House Schedule
FAM Support Groups
Words of Wisdom
News and Items of Interest
Star of the Month
Tools for Youth
Kay Wyrick Scholarship
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Suggested Reading


Books on Foster Care And Adoption

 

Click here to download a PDF file containing an updated comprehensive list of books on foster care and adoption topics, including childrens' books.

Have we forgotten one of your favorite books? Please let us know and we will be happy to add it to the list.

 

Open House Schedule
Want to learn more about foster/adoptive parenting? 

 

Prospective foster and adoptive parents are welcome at any Open House listed on our website. Please call one of the regional coordinators listed at the bottom of this newsletter or

for more information or to schedule an individual appointment.

 Click here for the most current listing of open houses across the state.

 

 

FAM Support Groups
Adoption Support Group 
Prospect Public Library 
3rd Wednesday, 7pm
No childcare.

Relative Caregiver Support Group 
Girls Inc. Waterbury 
4th Monday, 10 a.m.
No childcare.   

Relative Caregiver Support Group
Torrington Headstart
Beginning November
1st & 3rd Saturday
10 a.m.
Child care available with RSVP
  
Quick Links

Adoption Assistance Program

 

Adoption Community Network

 

Black Hair Care

 

CAFAP

 

Crayola Stain Tips

 

DCF 

 

More about FAM

 

Kids.gov

-official kids' portal for the U.S. government

 

Represent Magazine

-national magazine written by youth in foster care

 

Spoonful 

 

Wrightslaw -
CT page for resource relating todisability resources 


Words of Wisdom
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Many persons have the wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness.
It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.

-Helen Keller
January 24, 2014


We hope this newsletter finds you all safe and warm during the past few weeks of arctic cold! Raising teens requires confidence and support.  Confidence can be gained by accessing resources, both online and in-person.  We encourage you to check out the resources below AND we strongly encourage every caregiver parenting a child or youth in foster care to take advantage of the many support groups available across the state.   Click here AND here for different lists.

Did you know that this month is National Mentoring Month?  A mentor can make an extraordinary difference in the life trajectory of a youth in foster care/aging out of foster care.  Maybe someone you know (or maybe it's you!) wants to help youth in foster care but cannot commit to foster parenting. Maybe you want to take "baby steps" before committing to foster parenting or adoption. Consider the difference a few hours of time every month could make in the life of a youth who really needs a caring adult in his or her life.  Contact us for information on mentoring opportunities in your community.

As a new year begins, we also want to take time out to say how much we appreciate everything you do for children each and every day whether you be a social worker, a case manager, a kinship caregiver, a foster parent, an adoptive parent or one of the other very many support people who help kids achieve success.  With your love, support and our continued partnership kids are safer, healthier, learning and thriving. 

Best wishes for a happy and healthy 2014.

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News and Items of Interest
Calendar
 Click on the calendar at right to see FAM events. 

Check out all the great information we've been posting on Facebook recently!
  •  Raising Foster: Many foster parents as well as some pre-adoptive parents will experience the pain and grief of having a child they grew to love return to their bio family. This blog will resonate with you.
  • OP-ED National Human Trafficking Awareness Day:  As a follow-up to yesterday's post....
    Did you know that: "...one of the biggest days for traffickers [is]: Super Bowl Sunday on Feb. 2. Hundreds of thousands of visitors will descend on New Jersey, many of them not only to watch the game, but to have sex with a minor. Pimps from all over the world will fly and drive in their trafficking victims to feed this cycle."
  • CT Voices for Children 3rd Annual Youth at the Capitol Day: Raising the GradeDefinitely worth watching! Today, local and national leaders and advocates as well as CT youth shared their stories about how foster care impacted children and youths ability to receive a quality education responsive to their needs.
  • Missouri State Advertising Class Marketing Campaign Helps Foster ChildrenWe need this to happen in CT! Anyone know of a marketing professor at a CT college or university they can pass this on to?
  • Going Full Circle to Work From StrengthsLearn more about the Wilderness School and it's Director who started by attending as a student in 1975.     

 

Star of the Month
Star of the Month  
Each month one of our member agencies feature a "star" whose service to children in foster care deserves special recognition.
 
Stars receive a small gift from FAM and a certificate of appreciation from the nominating agency.  This month, we share a family from our partner, NAFI, Connecticut.

 

 

On behalf of the NAFI Connecticut, Foster Care Services, I am pleased to nominate Theresa Dawkins as the January 2014 Foster Adoptive Mission "Star of the Month." Ms. Dawkins is being recognized for demonstrating exceptional service to the NAFI Connecticut, Inc. Multidimensional Treatment Foster Care (MTFC) program since joining just six short months ago. Ms. Dawkins came to NAFI Connecticut, Inc. in hopes of improving the lives of children.  In her short time with our agency, she has shown a genuine desire to help children in care. Foster Parent Recruiter, Antonio Eason, worked closely with Ms. Dawkins as she completed the training and licensing process. He remarks "From the very beginning it was evident that Theresa genuinely cares about kids. She got involved in foster parenting for all the right reasons." Since becoming officially licensed, Ms. Dawkins has been very receptive to the evidence-based MTFC model which requires foster parents to provide a high level of support, supervision, and care for youth in their homes while building upon the unique strengths of the child. MTFC Program Director, Mariana DaCruz lauds Ms. Dawkins for her compassion and flexibility. DaCruz says, "Theresa recently agreed to an emergency respite placement during the holidays. Despite receiving very short notice, Theresa scrambled to purchase Christmas gifts for the child to ensure he had a special holiday.   Then, when unforeseen circumstances prevented the child from returning to his full time placement, Theresa adjusted her work and personal schedule to provide care for an additional two weeks. Her willingness to help a child in need was appreciated by the entire MTFC team!" All of us here at NAFI Connecticut, Inc. are so happy to have Theresa Dawkins as a new addition to the Multidimensional Treatment Foster Care team. We look forward to working with her in the future and her continued dedication to the children in our care. We are pleased to nominate her as the Foster Adoptive Mission's Star of the Month recipient.

 

 

Jessica Clow, MTFC Foster Care Recruiter
NAFI CT, Inc.    

    

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Tools for Youth


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For those parenting older youth, finding good resources can be a challenge.  Getting your youth to utilize them is yet another challenge at times.

Below you will find some useful website links and descriptions. We'd love to hear back from you which, if any, you and your youth found interesting and/or useful.

 

  •  Youthhood.org:  This site requires youth to register to use the tools on the site which include information about hygiene, eating disorders, sexuality, disability rights and much more.   
  • Represent Magazine:  This site is written by and for youth in care.  Winners of many awards over the years, Represent offers the youth perspective on many topics including LGBTQ issues, sex and pregnancy, mental health, aging out and birth family.
  • Foster Club: Another written by and for youth site, Foster Club offers a national network for youth in foster care.  resources include scholarship information; a teen speakers' bureau available for conferences; message boards; and biographies of famous people who were in foster care.
  • Foster Youth Money Guides: Developed by the Annie E. Casey Foundation, these free downloadable tools are for both caregivers and youth.  They help educate youth about personal finance.    
  • V Street: A subscription-based site that offers life-skills curricula for youth developed keeping in mind the nine domains the Ansell-Casey Life Skills Assessment requires.  A single subscription (one youth) costs $24 a year.  Discounts appear to be available for multiple registrations. 
  • Foster Care Alumni of America: A completely volunteer-led and driven national organization that offers support groups and other opportunities for youth to make connections that can continue long past the time they age out.  The oldest active alumni member of FCAA is in his eighties!
  • National Resource Center for Permanency and Family Connections: is a training, technical assistance and information services organization.  The site is rich with resources for both caregivers, social workers and youth.  We've linked you directly to the Fostering Connections page which lists many of the resources for families and youth.  
  • Jim Casey Youth Opportunities Initiative: This site offers a substantial array of resources for caregivers and professionals including adolescent brain development, finances and information on engaging youth in their planning and transition, and recruitment.
  • Foster Focus Magazine: Written by a foster care alumni, this award-winning magazine focuses on a different topic every month and always includes the voices of former foster youth.  Past issues have focused on human trafficking, mental health diagnoses; foster care and Black History Month; the effect of foster care on bio children and much, much more.
Do you have a resource to share that we can pass on to our readers?  Please let us know!  Click here to share.

 

Kay Wyrick Scholarship
Does your youth qualify?

It's that time of year again! Does your graduating high school senior qualify for this scholarship opportunity? 
□ Students must be a high school senior and enrolled as a full time student.  
□ Student should have been in foster care for one consecutive year.
□ Student must be a resident of Connecticut.
□ Student should have a G.P.A of a C (2.0) or better.
□ Student should be a child of color, preferably African American or of African ancestry.
□ Student should major in a field related to working with children in the community. (Social Work, Human Services, Sociology, Psychology, Criminal Justice, or closely related field)
□ Student must be accepted into or enrolled in an accredited post-secondary program. (University, College or Community College)
Click here for the scholarship application.
All applications are due no later than April 1. Questions can be emailed to Deb Kelleher.

 

From our Facebook archives....
We asked our readers to respond to the following question asked by a prospective foster parent (you can check out the responses by visiting our FB page):
Someone recently asked: "Why do parents open their homes to children and youth in foster care? The process takes so long!"  
What would you say to this person? 
Please help us out! We know the best answers come from those of you doing the work. We'd love to hear YOUR response also!
Click here to respond on Facebook.

Click here to email a response. 
Contact Information
Northwestern CT Regional Coordinator:         Deb Kelleher 203.706.0101  Email 
Meriden/Greater New Haven Area Regional Coordinators:
Ashley Minihan 203.394.8506  Email 
Laura Rainey  Email 
Central/Southeastern CT Coordinator:         Alana Jones 860.710.1593 Email