Learning to Lead
A Newsletter for SDITE Leadership Class ParticipantsSpring 2015
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Reflection is an invaluable tool for discernment.  In this TED talk by Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love hear how reflecting on her feelings during a time of stress helped her get back to doing what she loves the most in life.


RECOMMENDED READING

The Energy Bus, by Jon Gordon, uses a story format to explore ways that we can all add more positive energy to our lives. This national best seller is a great book to read with a small discussion group or for your own personal reflection.

 

What leadership book would you recommend to others? Email your suggestion to Becky White.

QUICK TIP - 
Got a problem?  Sleep on it!

REM sleep activates the emotion area of the brain so things that are most important to you on a gut level are prioritized. Dreams can help you get unstuck.  Try writing your problem in a journal before bed then let your mind solve it while you sleep.  Chances are good that you will wake with new insight into a solution.
A CENTRAL BANK FOR LEADERSHIP CLASS MATERIALS

The central repository of SDITE Leadership Class materials has been created for access by class administrators and facilitators.  The original 14 modules are compiled in the bank.  If you have an additional module that you wrote or if you made improvements to one of the original modules, please send it to Becky White so the materials can be added to our bank.

If you are planning a class and need access to the bank, email Becky White.

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It's early spring, and with beautiful warm weather we naturally get a feeling our internal batteries have been recharged.  It's great when the re-charge happens automatically; however, leaders need to understand the importance of intentionally setting aside time to reflect and restore our mental and physical energy.
This issue of Learning to Lead provides you with some thought prompts and resources related to reflection and restoration.  We hope you will find at least one idea in this issue you can implement to become a more inspired leader.
Becky White & Chris Kirby
Editors
INTUITION: A LEADER'S QUIET HELPER

Civil engineers are not typically wired to make intuitive decisions. We're taught to make decisions based on empirical data. While the day to day brain functions associated with engineering may tend to crowd out our intuitive side, when we're in leadership roles, intuition becomes much more important. 
CONVENTIONAL WISDOM
Be Here Now

A plaque engraved with these words sat in prominent view on the credenza of the President of an international engineering firm. I had often been impressed by his ability to cut through the clutter surrounding an issue and find creative solutions to address the heart of the problem. He seemed to have an uncanny ability to bring insight and wisdom to the most complex matters. But this was the first time I'd seen his office. After our meeting, I asked him about the plaque. As it turned out, that sign - and the idea behind it - was the key to the qualities I most admired in this skilled and effective leader.

 

Most of us wear busyness as a badge of honor. We show how important we are by attending to multiple tasks at once. In meetings, or even during one-on-one conversations, we take pride in our ability to simultaneously keep track of the discussion at hand, monitor emails on our smartphones, text questions and instructions to colleagues, and mentally run through what we have to accomplish once we check this item off our calendars. 'Be Here Now' says just the opposite. Instead of trying to do three, four, or even five things at once, focus all of your attention on the task at hand. Dig into that challenge you need to solve, or that strategy you need to figure out. Mulling over a problem and thinking through alternative solutions requires dedicated time.

 

Science supports the view that multitasking is largely a myth.  Dr. JoAnn Deak, a British psychologist, says research shows the brain can focus deeply on only one task at a time. When we multitask we don't really do two things at once; instead, our brain switches rapidly between tasks. In the short term, says Dr. Deak, multitasking doubles the amount of time it takes to complete a task, and at least doubles the number of mistakes. The long-term effects are even more serious: habitually trying to do too many things at once actually impairs the brain's capacity for deep thinking. In short, multitasking lowers productivity.

 

'Be Here Now' also means engaging with the person in front of you and blocking out distractions.  Giving someone your full attention signals what they have to say is important, and it also ensures you don't miss the verbal and nonverbal cues that enable you to get the whole story. As management expert Steven Covey explains, effective listening requires two things. First, you must listen until the other person believes you understand their point of view, even if you don't agree. Second, to achieve the first objective you must ask thoughtful, open-ended questions to explore the other person's reasoning and uncover what's behind the statements they make. Unfortunately, most of us hear what we want to hear. If we misinterpret or miss part of the message, we blame the other person for failing to communicate clearly. That's not how it works, though. Probing and challenging to uncover new information is a critical step in decision-making. Former CIA deputy director John McLaughlin often ended a conversation by asking, "Is there anything else you haven't told me? Because I don't want you to go down the hall and tell your buddy that I just didn't get it."

 

As I discovered, focusing solely on the task at hand - especially in conversations - is a hallmark of great leaders. Committing to 'Be Here Now' will make you a better leader, for your own benefit as well as your organization's success.

 

- contributed by Kim Jaynes, CDM Smith

COMMON GROUND
Instead of spotlighting one leader in this issue, we thought it would be fun to poll some SDITE leaders to ask how do you relieve stress and find your 'Happy Place'.  Here are some of the responses we heard.  Maybe these activities will work for you too!

Robin Grier (VA)
"To reach my ZEN state of mind, I usually need to recharge with the sun on my face and my toes in the sand. If that's not an option, I turn to pumpin' my favorite tune on the radio, yoga or soaking in a hot tub. Clearing the mind of clutter helps to bring clarity and focus!"

Mike Ridgeway (SC)
"I have been an avid runner for a long time.  I started running in high school as part of the soccer team conditioning and then in college I continued running for enjoyment and fitness.  These days I run for fitness and a general stress release.  With three kids at the house I have had to change my running times.  So, I have found myself doing more and more mid-day runs from the office.  I have a lot of nervous energy and have always struggled sitting behind a computer for multiple hours and I have found that running at lunch time really helps break the day up for me.  One thing that I have learned from running is that although I am tired some days and don't feel like running; I always feel better afterwards.  I have also found that sometimes good ideas about projects come to me while I exercise." 
 
Will Letchworth (NC)
"My main method for recharging is to spend time outdoors.  In the winter this typically means hunting, in the warmer months it is spending time on a boat or at the beach. There is nothing like being outside, without a cell phone, enjoying nature alone or with friends and family."

Jeff Stephenson (AL)

"As part of my daily routine, I reflect every afternoon during the 20 minute drive from work to home. I don't listen to music and don't use the phone unless it is urgent. When I need to recharge I enjoy listening to the Alabama Crimson Tide compete in pretty much any sport. Recharging can often come from spending time with family and close friends. Reflection helps me celebrate successes, learn from mistakes, and put things into proper perspective."