UU News
Monthly Newsletter of
The Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro
An Intentional Liberal Religious Community August 2015
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Liberal Religious Community
| ALL ARE WELCOME IN THIS CHURCH Distinctions of power, privilege, and estate, which apply outside these doors, do not apply within them. Women, men, and children, persons of any color, culture, age, ability, economic status, or affectional orientation; skeptics and those pursuing common or unorthodox religious paths... All Are Welcome Here!
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Newsletter Notes
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The deadline for the September ewsletter will be Friday, August 28.
Send news items to commuucg@bellsouth.net
The newsletter will be published on Sept. 4.
Hard copies of this newsletter are available in the church foyer on the Visitor Table.
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Sunday and Special Worship Services and Schedule
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Sunday, Aug. 2
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Does Your God Have a Name?
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Rev. Ann Marie
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Sunday, Aug. 9
| Happiness: An Inside Job
| Rev. Ann Marie
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Sunday, Aug. 16
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Mister Rogers and Me
(An Intergenerational Service)
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Cindy Dillard
Youth Religious Education Director
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Sunday Aug. 23
| What is Prayer? |
Rev. Ann Marie
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Sunday Aug. 30
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What is the Topping on Your Sundae? |
Rev. Ann Marie
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Sunday Morning Schedule
10:30 - 10:55
| Social Gathering
| Informal Social Gathering prior to Worship. (Nursery Services Provided)
| 10:55 - 12:15
| Adult and Youth Worship
| Both adults and children start the service together. On most Sundays the children leave the sanctuary for Youth Religious Education, which ends at 12:15. Services labeled as "Worship for All Ages" are Intergenerational, shared by both children and adults.
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Inspirations
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"Do you ever look at someone and wonder, what is going on inside their head?"
asks the character Joy, in the Pixar Studies movie,
"Happiness often sneaks in through the door you didn't know you left open." John Barrymore
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Wednesday Potluck
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We share a potluck supper at 6 p.m. each Wednesday.
Please bring a dish to share and your own table service.
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Summer Film Series
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The following films will be shown after the potluck on Wednesday evenings:
 Aug. 5 through Aug. 19 "The Prisoner, a 1967 BBC series"
Aug. 26 "Bullied: A Student, A School and A Case That Made History," a 2010 documentary produced by the Southern Poverty Law Center
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Reflections from Rev. Ann Marie
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I vaguely remembered someone at church told me I should go see the movie Inside Out. Not long afterwards my wife and I had a rare night with no church meetings and childcare (woo hoo!) so we decided to go to the movies. She, too, had heard that Inside Out was worth seeing. With feelings of some trepidation, we selected the animated flick even though we were childless for a few hours. I am happy to report that this new Pixar Studios release is not only delightful; it was deep!
(I whispered at the very start that my favorite character was Sadness. She was round. She was blue. She had tiny feet and she shuffled.) The main character was an all too peppy girl named Joy and she was clearly, at the beginning, the official star of the show. But when the going got really tough, it was the empathy and presence of Sadness that saved the day. If you go see it, I hope you agree (while wishing you had brought some tissues) that it isn't possible to be truly happy - as an adult - without the help of Sadness.
Here's to the mix of emotions that helps us all be all that we can be, each and every day, no matter what age!
Yours in faith,
Rev. Ann Marie
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Cindy Dillard, Youth Religious Education Director
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Of the many ways I have been in the world, learning with children and youth has brought particular satisfaction to my life.
That's right-I said "learning" because that is what happens each time I am in the classroom as a teacher. There is something powerful seeing an abstract lesson plan brought alive by the energy and ideas of our youngins. When entering the classroom, I might have certain ideas about what will be taught, but it is the unexpected response and the surprising question that I carry with me. And it is the humor and joy of navigating the classroom that brings me eagerly back again.
As summer wanes and the school year begins to take shape, I hope you will consider becoming a teacher/learner in YRE. To learn more, check out the YRE table during Sundae Sunday, August 30.
The Treehuggers -- our multi-age (preschool-5th grade) summer Sunday School program -- is focusing on our 7th Principle this summer: affirming and promoting respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.
Here's the August schedule:
Aug. 2 Circle of Trees/Children's Garden.
Aug. 9 Taking It T-UU the Streets/Children's Garden.
Aug. 16 Circle of Trees/Children's Garden.
Aug. 23 Cooperative Games/Children's Garden.
Aug. 30 Circle of Trees/Children's Garden.
Youth (6th grade and older) are welcome to volunteer in the classroom, or may stay in the service. For more information or to learn how you can get involved, contact Cindy Dillard .
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From the Congregational President Karen Madrone
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At this month's board meeting we spent a fair amount of time talking about the process for making a certain decision. In Unitarian Universalism, we place a high value on our community. It is often said that "the process is more important than the decision itself." This means that we spend time talking about not only what a decision is but how we arrive at the decision itself.
How we "do" church together is very much embedded in our principles. In everything we do we should be consciously living - and governing - from what we say we believe. For example, the first principle reminds us of the inherent worth and dignity of all people: are we making sure all points of view are heard? Are we making space for difficult conversations? The fifth principle, "the right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large", asks us if we are following the bylaws that we have all agreed to. Finally our seventh principal, "respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part" reminds us that that everything we do has future consequences to people we might never meet and will have unforeseen affects.
Sometimes a decision is clear and straightforward, but that's rare. The board is charged with fiduciary, strategic planning, and stewardship of the church as a whole, which means that many times we are facing challenging questions that make us think about who we are and how we want to work together. We recognize that how we come to a decision, because we place relationship over specific individuals, is more important than the decision itself. Can we stay in relationship even in disagreement? Can we stay at the table when we get frustrated? The ability to do these things and honor the process is part of what makes both a good board member and a healthy board. Our next board meeting will be held on Thursday, August 20 at 7:00pm. You are welcome to join us.
Please contact Karen Madrone, president, or Michelle Lee, vice-president, if you would like to talk more about ministry and governance.
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Team and Committee Meetings and Ways to Help Out
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Members and friends of UUCG are invited to participate in Ministry Teams or in Governing Committees. Whether you have a particular talent or want to learn one, there is a place for you!
Some of the Teams and Committees have regular meetings. Others meet irregularly or virtually and accomplish their missions without regular meetings. The list below contains the meeting time and location of those teams and committees that meet regularly. Feel free to attend any of these meetings as they are all open.
Ministry Team Lead Meetings
All Ministry Team Leads meet with the Minister on the 2nd Tuesday of the month at 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary to plan together for all church ministry programming. This is an open meeting.
Coordinating Council Meetings The Coordinating Council (both the Ministry Team Leads and all Committee Chairs) meet quarterly (Feb, May, Aug and Nov) on the 2nd Tuesday of the month at 7:00 PM in the Sanctuary. The Council is co-chaired by Michelle Lee, VP and Rev. Ann Marie Alderman. We share regarding current and upcoming events. This is an open meeting.
Board of Trustees Meetings The Board of Trustees meets on the 3rd Wednesdays in odd months at 7:30 pm, and 3rd Thursdays in even months at 7 pm. Please check the calendar for each month's meeting date. This monthly meeting is where governance decisions are made. This is an open meeting.
Adult Faith Formation Team
This team's leadership is going through transition and new classes are being studied. Adult Faith Formation sessions will begin again on Sunday mornings from 9:30 - 10:30 am on September 13.
Communications Team
The Communications Team publishes the monthly newsletter and maintains the web site. We also administer our social media presence. We don't have regular meetings but there are several tasks that you could help with. Please contact Liz Gauger if you would like to join the Communications Team. Fellowship Team Meetings
Everyone is invited to join this team that is always on the lookout to create opportunities for people to connect and have fun. Contact Kay Bishop and Rick Tolley for more information on the Fellowship Team. We sponsor the Wednesday night Potlucks and the Young Adult Gaming Group and many periodic fun fellowship events.
Healthy Congregation Committee Meetings
For more information, contact Marie Houck
Justice Action Team Meetings
The Justice Action Team meets on second Sundays after the service at 12:30 pm in the Library. Opportunities for volunteering with JAT include hands-on nitty-gritty tasks and work toward policy change to benefit Greensboro's residents.
Membership Team
The Membership Team makes visitors welcome and invites all who are ready to be members into the full benefits of congregational life. Our team runs the visitor's table on Sunday mornings, contacts all the visitors who come to our church and organizes meetings and classes for new members. Take a look at our bulletin board in the foyer and get to know the new members. If you are interested in this vital ministry contact Nancy Henderson . We also sponsor the Chalice Circles, which are coordinated by Laura Graham.
Music Team Meetings
The Music Team meets after church on the Sunday before the Ministry Team/Coordinating Council meeting. This is typically the 2nd or 3rd Sunday of the Month. Meetings are typically held in the Library.
Policy & Procedures Committee
Worship Team Meetings
Our Worship Team meets on the 1st Tuesday of the month at 3:30PM in the Minister's office. Please contact Nora Bird if you are interested in helping the Worship Team as a Team Member, an Usher, Service Leader or Service Coordinator.
Youth Religious Education Team
For meeting times and dates see the calendar or contact Team Lead Heather Rushforth.
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A Worship Note
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In order to decrease our environmental impact, Rev. Ann Marie and the Worship Team are conducting an exp eriment during August. There will be no printed Order of Service!
We will still have announcement page(s) printed and cut (as they are now) available on the back tables.
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A Late Summer Gathering
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Sundae Sunday
Aug. 30 following the service
A time to chill out and learn about what makes UUCG such a cool place!
Grab a bowl of ice cream and dress it up with all your favorite toppings. See displays about governing committees and ministry teams finding out what they do and how you can lend a hand to this special community.
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Coffee Volunteers
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Volunteers are needed for Coffee Hour in August. It is a gift of a time and joy we can all share. Anyone can sign up; the sheet is on the bulletin board just outside the kitchen, next to the 'Flowers' sign-up. Serving coffee is easy, and we will be glad to go through it with anyone interested.
We would like to express a sincere "Thank You!" to the great folks who have volunteered to provide coffee after Sunday service.
Karen and Robb Fulkerson
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Ladies' and Men's Night Out |
Ladies' Night Out
Ladies are invited to our monthly Vietnamese dinner at the Saigon Restaurant the last Monday of the month -- Aug. 31. We meet at 6:30 p.m. If we have ten or more, we have the option of having the chef prepare a communal meal for us. It's usually a soup, two kinds of egg rolls and one or two entrees, costing a little over $10.00. We also have the option of selecting from the menu. It's a lively evening of table discussion, laughter and getting to know more about each other. Newcomers are always welcome. If you plan to attend please contact Mary Davis (586-0188)
Men's Night Out
Join us the 2nd Monday of the month -- Aug. 10 -- at 6 p.m. at Villarosa, 6010 Landmark Center Blvd, Greensboro, near I-40 and Wendover. We also meet on the last Monday of each month at Applebee's on Battleground Avenue at 6 p.m.
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Faith Formation
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Adult Faith Formation continues to be "on break" for the summer. Every Sunday Afternoon |
Deep River Sangha, Buddhist meditation
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4:00 - 5:30
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Justice Action Team Update |
Monday Night Dinner at Urban Ministry
On the first Monday of each month, a group of volunteers from our church prepares and serves supper to the residents of the Urban Ministry shelter.
For the past couple of months, we have had a small number of volunteers show up. We need some new workers, especially younger ones, to be part of this important contribution to the welfare of some or our most vulnerable brothers and sisters.
Taking It T-UU the Streets
Our children will assemble carebags for the needy on Sunday, August 9, as our monthly justice action project. Please consider donating non-perishable individual food and hygiene items to the collection basket in the lobby. If you (or someone you know) travels, please gather the soaps, etc. and donate them to the lobby basket. Financial donations are also welcome to help purchase materials for the carebags. For more information, please contact Cindy Dillard
Donations will be given to the Mental Health Association.
Peanut Butter Alert
Thanks to everyone at the Unitarian Universalist Church who contributed to the 168 pounds of peanut butter and nonperishable food collected last month for the Greensboro Food Bank. You are greatly appreciated! Becky Floyd
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Board of Trustees
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Highlights of the July 22, 2015 UUCG Board of Trustees Meeting
- Karen Madrone, President, reported that Robert Gretton has agreed to serve for one year as a Board member, filling the position left open by Shawn Gagne's resignation. Karen also noted that Marty Ward agreed to serve on the Committee on Leadership Development, taking the place of Benn Kuecker because our current bylaws do not allow CLD members to serve consecutive terms. The Board voted to approve both appointments.
- Ken Williams, Building and Grounds Team Lead and Chair of the Restricted Gifts Task Force, led a tour of the outdoor worship area for those present. The project is about 60% completed and Ken answered questions about progress and plans for the Memorial Garden, Columbarium and Labyrinth that are still in process. Expenses are expected to exceed the budget (total amount in fund) by about $5,000.
- Lonnie Houck provided the Treasurer's report on behalf of Susan Hill, current Treasurer, who could not attend this meeting. Delta number (cumulative income vs expense) for the year is negative by about $2,000. Pledge income received through June was about $2,700 under YTD budget.
- Rev. Ann Marie Alderman noted that she will be doing Adult Faith Formation in the fall until there is a team lead. She was pleased that so many UUCG members participated in the Moral Monday March on July 13. The "Hold in Your Hearts" item now going out as part of weekly email announcements mentions only the names of those who have given permission to be included.
- Lonnie Houck, Chair of the Bylaws Task Force, reviewed a draft of proposed bylaw changes for discussion. The final version of changes approved and recommended by the Board will be announced at least 45 days before the October 18 Congregational Meeting at which they'll be considered for a vote
- At the August meeting, there will be further discussion of guidelines for UUCG's policy about onsite smoking.
More details are available in reports posted at the UUCG website http://uugreensboro.org/for-members/ Go to "2015-16 Board Reports" in July.
The next Board meeting will be Thursday, August 20, at 7 pm and is open to all.
Submitted by Sharin Francis
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Reinhartsen Speaker
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Dr. Arvid Straube has been chosen as the 2015 Reinhartsen Speaker. Dr.Straube will be presenting an evening program on Oct. 2 at UUCG entitled "Jesus, the Buddha and Unitarian Universalist".
The Reinhartsen Speaker Fund was established in 2013 to honor the late Rev. Steven Reinhartsen. Each year a speaker addresses the congregation and the community on subjects that were important to Rev. Reinhartsen.
In 2014, Dr. Straube retired as Lead Minister of First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego, Calif. He served the church from 2004-2014. He currently serves as Emeritus Minister at Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, after serving as its first full time minister for 21 years. He is married to Sonya Prestridge, who was a UUCG member before their marriage.
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Save the Date
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Cabaret Auction Nov. 7
It's not too early to start gathering your donations for this fun fundraiser! For more information, contact Lauren Houck or Robin Lewis.
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Community Events |

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August Birthdays
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Best Wishes to this month's honorees:
Louise Porter, Lyric Moore, Ryan Hamilton,
Sue Sherwood, David Williams, Ian Rushforth,
Carlee-Jane Smith, Marty Bergman, Noah Gagne,
Tish Gunn, Lindsay Clinard, Sarah Weih,
F. Nelson Stover, Lonnie Houck, Michelle Puzio,
Chris Roerden and Rebecca Floyd
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Attendance
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June 21 |
103
| June 28 |
114
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July 5
July 12
July 19 | No count recorded
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Share Half donations for June: $343.50 The donations went to Guilford Child Health and Triad Adult and Pediatric Medicine.
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UUCG Covenant
| We, the members of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro, do covenant to:
- Promote a search for personal meaning, respecting individual truth in a community process of quest
- Speak and act with caring, courtesy and love thereby maintaining emotional, physical, and spiritual safety for all
- Support UUCG and denominational efforts with our resources
- Combat injustice while promoting equality
- Nurture our children on their spiritual journeys
- Hold ourselves to this covenant, especially during times of conflict and disagreement
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UUCG Officers
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Karen Madrone, President
Michelle Lee, Vice President
Susan Hill, Treasurer
Sharin Francis, Secretary
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UUCG Trustees
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Sue Beck (2016)
Katja Brown (2016)
Jim Roeder (2017)
Robin Lewis (2018)
Cindy Williams (2018)
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UUCG Staff
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Reverend Ann Marie Alderman, MinisterRev. Ann Marie Alderman may be contacted by sending an e-mail to amalderman@uuma.org or on her mobile phone 704.770.8748. She is usually in her UUCG office on Tuesday and Wednesday afternoons. Julie Hamilton, Congregational AdministratorOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments
Office Phone: 336.856.0330 Cell: 336.687.4101 E-mail: uucgchurch@att.net Mark Freundt, Director of MusicOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 336.856.0330, Cell: 336.908.1103 E-mail: uucgdirmu@bellsouth.net Cindy Dillard, YRE DirectorOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 336.856.0330 Cell 614.975.0126 E-mail: uucgre@att.net
Walter McCorey, Sexton
Tuesday, Thursday & Friday (times vary based on needs).
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Ministry Team and Board Committee Contacts
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Ministry Teams--Reporting to the Minister
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| Adult Faith Formation Team (formerly Adult RE)
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| Building and Grounds Team
| Ken Williams
| Care Team
| Sara Bourquin
| Communications Team
| Liz and Jeff Gauger
| Denominational Affairs Team
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| Fellowship Team
| Kay Bishop and Rick Tolley
| Fundraising Team
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| Cabaret Auction Sub-Team
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Lauren Houck, Robin Lewis
| Justice Action Team (formerly Social Action)
| Sue Cole, Sara Bourquin, Becky Floyd
| Environmental Stewardship Greensboro
| Vance Archer
| Food Drives and Food Donations
| Becky Floyd
| Standing on the Side of Love
| Tim Leisman
| Potter House Service
| Ken Knight
| Red Cross Blood Drive
| Tim Leisman
| Pastoral Care Team
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Joe Gecinger
| Membership Team
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| Music Team
| Sue Sherwood
| Worship Team
| Nora Bird
| Labyrinth | Michelle Lee |
Youth Religious Education Team
| Heather Rushforth
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Committees and Task Forces
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Report to the Board of Trustees
| Accountability Committee
| Karen Madrone, Acting Chair | ACT
| Open | Archival Records Committee
| Sharin Francis
| Designated Gifts Task Force
| Ken Williams
| Finance Committee
| Lonnie Houck | Healthy Congregations Committee
| Marie Houck
| Human Resources Committee
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| Policies and Procedures Committee | open | Strategic Planning Committee | Katja Brown |
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Congregational Standing Committees
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Report to the Congregation
| Committee on Leadership Development
| Wendell Putney | Committee on Endowment
| Ken Williams
| Coordinating Council
| Rev. Ann Marie, Michelle Lee
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