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December, 2014

Baby Sign Language classes ~ Register early ~ Space is limited
 
Introductory Workshops for those just starting out.   
Saturday, December 13, 2:30 - 4:00 Healthy Horizons, Burlingame
Saturday, January 10, 12:00 - 1:30 Blossom Birth, Palo Alto

Six-Day Playgroup Series once your baby is around six months and older. 
Saturdays, January 17 - February 28 Blossom Birth, Palo Alto
In This Issue
A Holiday Treat!
About Us
Saturday Sanctuary for Moms
Baby Sign Classes

KODA in Kindergarten Holiday Concert
Happy Holidays!

No matter how you celebrate this year, we hope that your holiday season brings you and your family much joy.

Bill & Kathleen
and our team of instructors, coaches, and massage therapists

About Us
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Touch Blue Sky is the collaborative work of the husband/wife team of Kathleen Harper and Bill White.

We help parents live with more joy by illuminating new ways to nurture, communicate, and connect with themselves, each other, and their children. We love to share what excites us with families throughout the Bay Area and beyond, including sign language programs for families and children of all ages, and one-on-one life coaching sessions and workshops for moms.

For more information, please visit the Touch Blue Sky website and feel free to contact us with any questions.

We look forward to seeing you soon!

Take care,

Bill White
Sign Language Director
bill@touchbluesky.com

Kathleen Harper

Certified Life Coach/
Program Director

kathleen@touchbluesky.com




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Tunnel When my boys were babies and toddlers, I spent time wishing that they'd sleep more, that breastfeeding didn't take so long, that motherhood didn't demand so much of me when I didn't have anything extra to spare.  Because this "first trimester of motherhood" throughout my sons' infancy and preschool years felt so hard, I focused my attention and effort on getting to the second phase, what I called The Light at the End of the Tunnel - kindergarten.  I told myself, "When my youngest gets into kindergarten, it will all be so much easier." 

And it was.  I had more time to focus on the work that I enjoyed, to build a bit of self-care into my routine, to enjoy time with girlfriends and my husband, to breathe.

But by keeping my eyes on that light that promised easier times ahead and pushing through the the sleep deprivation, fussy babies, and demanding toddlers, I didn't take in the happy times, the good stuff, the irretrievable moments of sloppy baby kisses and sweet smelling skin.

It was like traveling through Italy's countryside in a train car with the blinds closed.  I ended up in Rome, but didn't see any scenery along the way.  

My husband Bill has so many vivid memories.  He'll start reminiscing about something from when the boys were little and sometimes I'll have a vague, fuzzy recollection, like an out of focus photograph without any rich emotional connection to it.  I can easily recall so many of the hard times - I remember vividly the long night I initiated sleep training for my two year old son based on recommendations from the book Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child, the wrenching frustration when the nanny spilled full bottles of holy breast milk, my consuming fear when my infant son had a unexplained fever that wouldn't break.

Our brains are wired to hold onto the hard moments. This negativity bias served humans well in ancient times.  As hunter gatherers, we didn't have the luxury of waiting to see if the rustling in the bushes was a tiger or a rabbit. "To keep our ancestors alive, Mother Nature evolved a brain that routinely tricked them into making three mistakes: overestimating threats, underestimating opportunities, and underestimating resources (for dealing with threats and fulfilling opportunities)," writes Rick Hanson, PhD,
neuropsychologist
and author of many books including his recent Hardwiring Happiness. "This is a great way to pass on gene copies, but a lousy way to promote quality of life." 

Saturday Sanctuary for Moms
December 6th, San Mateo 
 
 
 
Celebrate Yourself This Holiday Season
December's Saturday Sanctuary will be a mommy-time celebration, giving back to ourselves a bit of the energy and effort we spend on others.  We'll enjoy mulled cider and holiday treats, create a special ornament, and spend time sharing our stresses around the holidays and solutions to them in a safe, supportive group facilitated by certified life coach Kathleen Harper.

Each two-hour retreat includes a short guided meditation, circle time to share and find insight and solutions, new ideas and tools, and a hands-on craft project to build a bridge between the retreat and your daily routine.  Light refreshments are provided.  

"This was the kind of break I really needed.
It reminded me of things I needed to remember."

 

Saturday, December 6th

San Mateo 

10:00 to noon

$40

Register Now! 

 

The groups are just for moms so that you can take the time for yourself without distractions from your family. Space is limited to only eight moms; registration is required. 

 

Come to Saturday Sanctuary for Moms to rest,
relax, and renew.  You'll head home happier.

Contact Kathleen with any questions or please visit the Saturday Sanctuary page on the Touch Blue Sky website for more information.
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Baby Sign Language
I LOVE YOU Emery
Teach your baby to sign
I LOVE YOU

 

Touch Blue Sky offers many ways for you and your family to learn, practice and enjoy baby sign language:

 

- A 90-minute Introductory Workshop where you'll learn about the benefits of signing with your baby, how to integrate signing into your daily routine, and start your signing vocabulary with 40 signs. 

 

- Playgroup Boom and Zoom - two different playgroup series that meet for six one-hour sessions.  Both Playgroups include the essential basic starter signs but vary in the more advanced vocabulary.  

 

- VaVOOM! Touch Blue Sky's new Toddler/Preschooler Signing Series that meets for eight 45-minute sessions.

 

 
Coming Soon!
Register Today ~ Space is Limited
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Babies are welcome but not required to attend

Introductory Workshops
Birth to 18 months old
 
Healthy Horizons, Burlingame
to register or call 650-347-6455 
Saturday   December 13   2:30 - 4:00

Blossom Birth, Palo Alto
Click here to register
or call 650-321-2326 
 Saturday    January 10   12:00 - 1:30  
   
DayOneBaby
DayOne Baby, Palo Alto
Call 650-646-7644 to register
Thursday   January 15    2:30 - 4:00

Peninsula Jewish Community Center, Foster City
 Tuesday   January 20   10:00 - 11:30  

 
Six-Day Playgroup Series
4 - 18 months old
 
Blossom Birth, Palo Alto
Saturdays   January 17 - February 28
10:45- 11:45   Playgroup Boom
12:00- 1:00   Playgroup Zoom
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Kaiser 

Kaiser Permanente, Redwood City

Open to the community! 

To register call 650-299-2433  

Saturdays,   February 21 - March 28
3:00 - 4:00   Playgroup Zoom 
 

VaVoom! 
Toddler & Preschooler Series
Eight 45-minute sessions | 18 mos. - 5 yrs.
 
Blossom Birth, Palo Alto
Click here to register!

Eight Fridays,   January 9 - March 6
3:30 - 4:15
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Host a class at your home
and earn a free registration!