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December 11, 2013
   
 

 

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It's almost here! The long-awaited paid leave bill will be introduced in the U.S. Congress on Thursday, December 12 by NY Senator Kirsten Gillibrand and U.S. Representative Rosa DeLauro. The Family and Medical Leave Insurance Act will offer eligible employees 12 weeks of partial income replacement for certain caregiving needs, like having or adopting a baby, dealing with a serious illness or caring for a family member with that sort of medical  condition.   

 

Who will pay for it? Both the employer and employee will contribute equally a sum based on the employee's earnings, and estimates show it works out to about $1.50 per week for the typical worker. We'll be gathering in force for the unveiling under the Capitol dome at a special press event. The NAMC has already joined forces with over 400 other organizations across the 50 states and in Washington D.C. to tell the Congress how crucial this move is to the well-being and economic security of all families, whether there are children, aging parents, spouses or partners needing and giving care. 


...consider this a wake up call. The rate at which women die as the result of a pregnancy-related condition in the U.S. is astonishingly high and getting higher. As reported in Women's eNews:
 
The United States has the highest maternal mortality rate among developed nations. While across the globe the rates are dropping, by 2010 rates in the U.S. rose to 21 deaths per 100,000 births, according to the World Health Organization, twice the rate it was in 1990 ... African American families suffer a maternal mortality rate that's three to four times higher than white women in the United States, according to the Association of Maternal and Child Health Programs. In addition, the number of maternal deaths in the United States may be significantly under-counted.
 
Clearly we have the knowledge and resources to change this story for all mothers. But only with the sort of political attention and quality care discussed in the article will it happen.

 

DogYearsTwo Steps Forward ...


Well into the 21st century, we live in an enlightened age of equality, democracy, and opportunities for all to excel, thrive and succeed, right? Follow your dreams, believe in yourself, work hard, and you too can grow up to be whatever you want.  

 

I suspect we so want to believe that our world is essentially fair and just that we ignore some very disappointing truths, like the movement towards equal opportunity has been flat-lined for 20 years. Dr. Philip Cohen explains what happened, why, and what to do about it in an article I just LOVE.

InCommonDo Children Really Make a Difference in Earnings?

 

I love data - it moves us from guessing and opinions to facts. Here are some facts from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, whose sole purpose is to produce data that tells us more about ourselves. Men with children under 18 in the home have median weekly earnings of $946. Women with children under 18 have median weekly earnings of $680. If these fathers are married and reside with their spouses, that figure rises to $988. If these mothers are married, their figure rises to $754. But if the mother does not have a spouse in the home, her median weekly earnings drop to $559.

If you want more fascinating facts and figures, take a look at Highlights of Women's Earnings 2012. If you want to see more about the "mommy tax" phenomenon, or why parenthood boosts dads' income but decreases moms', scoot over to this short video from NBC News.

 

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I've been told by men that the pay gap doesn't exist, and if women just asked for more, they'd earn more, maybe even as much as men.  

 

 

Oh, yeah? It's not that easy. There's plenty of research to suggest that bosses don't favorably regard women asking for a raise. According to the TODAY Show, "To do that requires being assertive, taking initiative, probably taking out your list of accomplishments and thereby self-promoting," said Laura Kray, a professor of  at the University of California at Berkeley's Haas School of Business. "It turns out people don't like it when women do this."  

 

Well, great. Sounds like the original spot between a rock and a  hard place. To get further into negotiation and what we need to know about it to lead, read this piece by Kathleen Fordyce at The Shriver Report.

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