Kim DeMotte. Team Performance Professional, Executive and Leadership Coach.


Thoughts you can use on the Value of Clarity, Trust, and the Human Interaction.



Volume 6   Issue 8                                                                                             August, 2013
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  High Definition Trust, Understanding and Camaraderie
   Reduce Struggle Dissipate Conflict Improve Relationships Relieve Stress

In This Issue
A Real Power Trip
Survey says
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"Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated. "


                                                                      ~  Confucius 


Moment of Clarity, August 2013, Who won the watch?
Moment of Clarity, August 2013, Who won the watch?

A Real Power Trip



Recently, a client used the V8 palm-to-forehead smash when he realized that people who piss him off are executing their power over him. To rage and attack such people just further proves that the antagonist has total control over him. He gets completely engaged in the game, which is being directed by the other person.


Sound familiar?  (Read more).... 



Survey says......   


First, thanks to all the respondents in my survey since last months HDClarity E-zine. You are an amazing group. Almost 100 of you took the time to share with me what you would be looking for in an online course.... ..and here's what I've learned:


10% of you are under 34

62% of you are between 35 and 60

28% of you are over 60


....we don't seem to be talking to Millenials here....


And here's what you say you want if you could "wave a magic wand":

  • You want more focus on the big picture.
  • You want more time.
  • You want less clutter in your life.
  • You want closer relationships both social and within families and more close friends.
  • You want to influence people to do the right thing.
  • You want less struggle day-to-day.
  • You want to communicate better.
  • You want to let go of bad habits.
  • You want to trust more and be trusted more.
  • You want a path to pursue some dreams.
  • You want your business to run in a higher gear.
  • You want less stress.
  • You want to lead more effectively.
  • You want to help your spouse/significant other grow.
  • You want more discipline.
  • You want the power of "NO" to help focus your life.
  • You want to be healthier.
  • You want more money.
  • You want to make others around you happier.
  • You want to trust God, the Force, The Collective Intelligence, something bigger than you.
  • You want to let some things go that don't serve you well.
  • You want to align career with enjoyment.
...quite a shopping list, isn't it?


We're granted roughly 45,000,000 minutes on this planet. Some less. Some more. How we spend them is our choice. If you're spending yours and NOT getting what you want, well, those minutes are gone. But there's still time to align the minutes ahead with the dreams and aspirations you've always had. My mentor, Jut Meininger, penned the book "How to Run Your Own Life" in 1976. Pretty well sums it up. If you're not running yours, then it's running you. The minutes are ticking. Perhaps that's why the under 35 crowd did not constitute a great portion of the responses. Seems we start thinking about the minutes we have left a little later on in life.


I intend to launch this course in January of 2014. It will address most, if not all of the issues YOU shared with me, and it will do so in a step-by-step manner with the ability to measure results. You'll be learning more in the next three months. Please stay tuned!


In the meantime, if you know of others who have shared similar desires, please have them subscribe to the HDClarity E-zine and join our group.  

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Many of my readers know what I do as a Co-Driver in a rally car....but for those who don't, click here to get a quick idea! 


OK.  I have an idea about what you do in a Rally Car...but what can you do for me or my team?


  • Reduce Struggle.
  • Dissipate Conflict.
  • Improve Relationships.
  • Relieve Stress.
  • Develop Trust, Understanding and Camaraderie in your team.


Check out  Kim's 3-pronged approach.


Who's Kim worked for?


Give Kim a call (877) 245-8251 toll free (314) 963-1112 in St. Louis 


"There is a clear and present danger.....when you are neither clear nor present."
Saving civilization (or your team) one conversation at a time.


Kim DeMotte, Corporate CoDriver

(877) 245-8250

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