Matrix Goes to School Newsletter
What We  Have Been Moving Toward
December 2014
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Greetings!

This is the first newsletter after launching the site in March. In the spirit of the matrix I am learning by doing and noticing what happens next!

I plan to have several each year to highlight what has been going on and where the Matrix has been taking me. Feedback is welcome as well sharing what you have been up to with the Matrix.

I am considering adding some more content to the site by way of podcasts or specific applications to working with parents and families to help promote social development and academic success. Please share thoughts and suggestions.

If you have matrix stories please share or email. I would be happy to add them to the newsletter.

Here's to a productive and creative 2015. Thanks again for downloading the manual.

Phil Tenaglia
The Continuing Matrix Journey
 
It has been an interesting and exciting year for matrix users. Kevin and Benji got the ACT/Matrix book out and the word is spreading! For my own part I launched this blog and website to share what's going on in the schools and educational circles. As we cast a wider net  I am finding students, teachers and support staff picking up the matrix and coming up with all kinds of uses for it. 

My colleague Lynda Marasco and I are continuing to run Matrix groups for students attending our alternative program. I have been busy providing matrix training to administrators, teachers and support staff throughout my school district. During the training everyone has multiple opportunities to practice. I have gotten some nice feedback that staff are incorporating it into counseling sessions, guidance lessons and conferences.

 Some of our middle school students have been using the matrix to begin and end their school days. They even had a chance to teach the matrix to the teachers!
 
The Matrix as a Unifying Prosocial Intervention

 

 

 

A while back I got together with several elementary special education teachers.

 

My idea was to promote the matrix as a unifying intervention in classrooms serving young students with significant behavioral issues. We used the matrix to develop a set of common purposes, procedures and a means of having students self-monitor their progress over time. The staff and I continue to meet regularly to identify obstacles as they come up and generate viable solutions. In the hands of committed staff and assistants, targeting psychological flexibility has resulted in increased cooperation, academic improvement and significantly less behavioral disruptions!

 

The Matrix is promoting prosocial behavior by inviting students to sort their experiences into the diagram. Individually, students are encouraged to use the Matrix to notice their behaviors during the day and whether or not what they are doing is getting them where they want to go. To accomplish this all that is needed is for the diagram to be visible in the room or students create their own on individual whiteboards. Students are encouraged to "walk through" the matrix and notice what they are doing ("Right now I am working at my desk, this is helping me move toward what is important to me which is doing well in school,etc. When I am doing this it feels good and I am proud of myself") and how it is working to move toward what is important. They can also notice if they are engaging in behaviors which may be away moves (" I am noticing that I don't feel like working and I am not following directions. This is not getting me where I want to go") and choose to work with staff on coming up with more workable moves and behaviors.

 

Using this point of view has put students and staff on the same page and reduced epsiodes of avoidance and conflict. The same procedure has also become an everyday means by which the class as a  group notices how it is doing and if everyone (including staff) is moving in the same direction. The more they sort their experiences, the better they get at sorting what works, increases their psychological flexibility and feelings of success and accomplishment typically show up.

 

Kudos to psychologically flexible teachers Bianca Smith and Melissa Ryan for all of their dedication and hard work. They are supported by their talented educational assistants Sue Mercantini and Amanda Carmignani. Our creative school psychologists Paige Heffelfinger and Ana Benalcazar have come up with enagaging matrix "lessons". This year we were also joined by dynamic undergraduate interns Nina Ventresco, Megan Young and Nicole Muller.

 

Great Work Staff and Students!

 

Matrix Musings and a Tip
 
The matrix is ideal for any meeting or consultation.Whether I am with students, teachers or parents, the matrix works like a charm to get psychological flexibility and collaboration going. It is especially useful for stuck situations since everyone likes to be invited to share about who and what is important to them.

Teachers again and again report how the shared language of the matrix gets everyone involved and on the same page. It is "catchy" and helps to reinforce what's important in the moments when students or teachers are feeling stuck.

THE TIP: Get yourself a few small whiteboards. Kids love to write/draw the matrix on them and adults like them too. They are also eco friendly!