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Set Your Mid-Semester Goals
By mid-October, the school semester is half-way completed. Remember those goals you set with your child back in August when school was just starting? How are they coming along?
Now is the perfect time for a check-up. It's always a good idea to check progress on something so important. This shows your child that you're expecting her to be pretty motivated, too.
Here are some questions to consider at this important time.
Did you determine goals together?
Goals are much more meaningful to your child if you and she have determined them together. This is an important step in setting goals- shows you're both invested.
Are you monitoring regularly?
Regular, systematic checking is best. Then, to make sure everyone's got the message of your seriousness, random checks thrown in occasionally can't hurt.
Have the goals changed?
Sometimes they do? Maybe your child has reached a couple already. Maybe he's ready for another challenge. In any event, when goals change, work together again to sharpen, update, and set timelines for new ones.
Do routines need to be re-set?
Routines are vital for studying and learning. You've set up homework and other routines for bedtime, meals, play, and family time. If you're not seeing the progress you each expect, it may help to reassess those routines.
What about rewards and consequences?
You've determined together the reasonable rewards for reaching goals and the consequences for falling behind. Are they working? You may need to tweak them to provide just the right incentive.
Is she organized for success?
Organization is not a particularly exciting topic for kids, but it's necessary for keeping on track.
Does he have a study buddy?
Having someone to study with is a great way to keep him focused on his goals. Study buddies can help each other understand assignment requirements. They can compete with each other, support each other, and learn from each other.
Have you met with teachers and school guidance counselor?
It's always a good idea to share your goals with the folks at school. This lets them know you're involved and working with them for your child's success. | 
