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Negotiating for Success 
August 2014 
In this issue...
Tutorial: Break the deadlock
Blog: Negotiation impotence costs lives
Testimonial: "Learning by doing" created lasting impact
NYC open course: Oct. 28-31
Inc. 5000: Scotwork NA honored again
Meet our
lead tutors
Sandy Sbarra
Rich Waldrop
Simon Letchford
Jill Campen
Gaetan Pellerin
Jerry Langlois

Associate tutors

Ananda Laberge 

Ross LaGumina 

John Leehman 

Julie Shen   

 

Open courses All courses are
Advancing Negotiation Skills (ANS) unless
otherwise indicated.

Parsippany
-Sept. 15-18
-Oct. 6-9
-Oct. 21-23 (SSN3)
-Nov. 10-13
-Dec. 1-2 (ANS2)
-Dec. 8-11

Chicago
Sept. 22-25

Montreal
Sept. 29-Oct. 2

San Francisco area
Oct. 27-30  

New York City
Oct. 28-31   

Charlotte, NC 
Nov. 3-6   

Toronto
Nov. 10-13

Houston
Nov. 17-20

Raleigh, NC
Dec. 1-4

Columbus, OH
Dec. 8-11  
 



CEO's message: Don't withhold critical information 
                               
 

   

Some of the news these days is downright depressing: Two sides fighting. Innocent people killed. Little hope for resolution. And total failure of negotiation (read blog on negotiation impotence).   
 

We can't offer a fool-proof solution to these deep-rooted conflicts in various parts of the world, but we can identify a fairly common theme: withholding information. Without knowing all the facts, one side assumes the other is wrong--leading to bad outcomes. Just look at what happened in Ferguson, MO when the police officer's name wasn't released for three days.

 

On a much-smaller scale, we've worked with several clients whose previous failures stemmed from their reluctance to reveal key information. As a result, their negotiating partners were annoyed, sometimes bringing the negotiation to a deadlock (see Tutorial: Break the Deadlock). This delayed the time needed to reach an agreement, costing both sides.

 

So always give the other side the information it needs to negotiate. And let's hope that the powers throughout the world can find a way--through better negotiating and maybe a bit more compassion for human lives--to stop senseless tragedies. 

   Marty Finkle  

 

 



Marty Finkle, CEO      
  

Tutorial: Break the deadlock   
    

Deadlock can be an effective tool, especially when used as a pre-condition to prevent the negotiation from starting when the status quo is desired.


Breaking a deadlock is a more critical negotiation skill--which many great powers across the globe have failed to master.

 

Strategies

  • Give the other party a chance to save face.
  • Repackage your demands to account for the other side's inhibitions.
  • Introduce new variables that substitute or compensate for the deadlocked issue.
  • Increase the cost of deadlock by removing the status quo as an option.
  • Establish an informal off-the-record contact to create a more cooperative atmosphere.

 Need more guidance on deadlock? Contact us. 

Blog: Negotiation impotence costs lives               

How can we prevent the tragic deaths and injuries of those who have nothing to do with any political or ideological movement?  

 

When warring parties care only about winning and refuse to  compromise, negotiation can be futile. Part of the answer, according to Stephen White, is to strive for a "stable imbalance of power."   

 

Read Stephen's blog.

Testimonial: "Learning by doing" created lasting impact                             

"In my 38-year career, very few seminars have made such a lasting impact as Scotwork's Advancing Negotiation Skills.  

 

 

 

"Led by seasoned executives, this lively and efficient course involves each participant--the best example of 'learning by doing.' It focuses on core elements that occur repeatedly, which makes it easy to apply skills in different situations.

 

"Scotwork has provided me the tools to prepare, understand and effectively negotiate the best deal for my clients and most importantly, for me!  Regardless of your business background, work experience or skill set, the benefits of ANS will stay with you for years."   

 

John MacMaster 
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NYC open course: Oct. 28-31                     

Sandy Sbarra  

Scotwork's gold-standard Advancing Negotiation Skills course will come to Manhattan for the first time on Oct. 28-31.  Additional sessions may also be scheduled. 

 

Seats are filling up fast. Register now.  

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