Pornography Is Anti-Relationships
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 I am not a rock music fan. Don't get me wrong. I like rock music. It is just the many vulgar performances and nasty lyrics have ruined it for me.
John Mayer, evidently, is a rock star. He is not a preacher, counselor, researcher, or a professor.
Better than any of those experts, he explains what pornography can do to you.
"Internet pornography has absolutely changed my generation's expectations. ...How does that not affect the psychology of having a relationship with somebody? It's got to.
When I meet somebody, I'm in a situation in which I can't run it because another person is involved. If I date somebody and it doesn't work out, it's another nightmare for me. ...If I date nine more girls before I get married ...that would be nine more spats of character assassination.
I don't equate sex with release, I equate it with tension. I grew up in my own head. As soon as I lose that control, once I have to deal with someone else's desires, I cut and run.
I mean, I have unbelievable [sex] alone. They're always the best. They always end the way I want them to end.
This is my problem now: Rather than meet somebody new, I would rather go home and replay the ... experiences I've already had. ...I'm more comfortable in my imagination than I am in actual human discovery."
Can you feel the fear? the loneliness? Pornography, while being all about sex, actually robs people from being able to enjoy sex.
(Specific citation withheld due to the explicit nature of the article.)
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