No Eric Note Last Week
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You may have noticed you did not receive a newsletter last week. Eric's mother was unexpectedly hospitalized and had surgery. Her condition has improved but she remains in the hospital. Eric would appreciate your prayers.
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Why Teens Are Risky Online
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Security software company, McAfee, released a study of teen online behavior. My last Eric Note posted an info graphic that shared 9 statistics about teens online. Today I want to look at what parents should do about it.
First, let's look at the good news. Parents are more protective of their teens online: - 80% of teens have had a conversation with their parents on how to stay safe online
- 77% know that what is posted online can't be deleted
- 54% have given their parents the passwords to their devices and sites.
Even so, here is the bad news. - 59% engage online with strangers,
- 50% posted their email address,
- 30% posted their phone number,
- 14% posted their home address,
- 8% (one out of 12) meet online strangers in real life.
Surprise, surprise the study found that teens hide things even though 90% believe their parents trust them to do what is right online: - 53% close or minimize their web browsers when their parents walk into the room,
- 50% clear the history of their online activity,
- 45% would change their online behavior if they knew their parents were watching.
Why? What need is being met online that would lead teens to take risks and deceive their parents? It is the same one we all faced as a teenager: being loved and accepted. McAfee's study found that 33% feel more accepted online than in real life. What can parents do about it? First, make sure you do the obvious things as I have mentioned before: Delay online privileges, use accountability software, use software filters, and keep computers/tablets/smart phone use in public places. Second, reduce the need for the risky behavior. Help your teen feel loved and accepted: - Get them involved with other teens,
- Show interest in their interests,
- Listen to them,
- Every day kiss them
- Every day say "I love you."
(Siciliano, R. (2014, June 3). Teens' Online Behavior Can Get Them in Trouble. Retrieved from McAfee Blog Central: blogs.mcafee.com/consumer/teens-and-screens)
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Upcoming Programs
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Today, Wednesday, July 23
Richardson, TX Power of Two Coaching & Counseling Center "Pornography's Effect on the Brain"
Next Wednesday, July 30, 7:00 pm Lewisville, TX Garden Ridge Church of Christ Not Of The World Adult/Teen Program
If you are interested in booking Eric to speak, email eric@ultimateescape.org or call 972-342-0753972-342-0753.
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