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Eric Tooley
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5 Dangerous Apps For Teens
In my program on social media, "Not of the World," I put on a
Mardi Gras mask.

I proceed to talk to my audience as if they don't know who I am. If I were to use bad language or hit someone or steal something from someone in the audience, I would get away with it because no one would know who did it.

If no one knows it is me, I don't have to worry about any consequences to my behavior. This is absurd because even though I wear a mask, everyone knows it is me.

Teenagers are especially attracted to privacy, independence, and not being supervised. That makes them especially vulnerable to the risks of phony privacy. The "responsibility" and "consequences" part of the brain isn't fully developed until the mid-twenties. I am sure you have heard a teenager say, "It won't happen to me."

Adding phony privacy to a teenage brain is like throwing gas on firewood; all you need is a match for a huge fire.

The match is some of the most popular apps to teenagers.

It started with Snapchat that promises to erase any picture a short time after you send it to someone.

Burn Note
makes that promise with texting.

Whisper and Secret-Speak Freely are places where you can post whatever you want anonymously: vent, confess, share intimate fantasies or anything else as long as there are no identifiable names or information.

Omegle is a chat room for anonymous instant messaging with a stranger.

Watch for and deny access to these apps with your teenagers.

As I do in "Not of the World," we have to constantly make the following loud and clear: Social media, the internet, and texting 
ARE NOT PRIVATE!
 
(McIlhaney, Jr., J. S., & Bush, F. M. (2008). Hooked. Chicago: Northfield Publishing.)
(Schryver, K. (2014, March 26). Trend Alert: 6 Messaging Apps That Let Teens Share (Iffy) Secrets. Retrieved from Common Sense Media Making Sense Blog: http://www.commonsensemedia.org/blog/trend-alert-6-messaging-apps-that-let-teens-share-iffy-secrets)
Programs in Dallas
Eric started the week with his quarterly program at AFIL, The Association For Independent Living. This residential program for developmentally challenged young adults just had its sixth program by Eric teaching sexual abstinence until marriage.

This Sunday, April 13
Students of Providence Christian School
"Images or Glory?" student program

Next Tuesday, April 22, 7:00 pm
Legacy Christian Academy
"Not of the World" parent program

If you are interested in booking Eric to speak, email eric@ultimateescape.org or call 972-342-0753.