At age 23, Holly had a new boyfriend. When Holly moved away for grad school, they dated long-distance.
"To keep the intimacy alive" she sent him naked photos and a personal sexual video. However after three years, it ran its course and they had a "normal breakup."
Several months later, Holly's naked photos were all over the internet with her full name, email address, job title, where she worked, and other details. "My stomach just dropped and I felt ill." Holly worked to remove the photos but they kept coming up on more and more sites.
Then it got worse.
She received an email with her photos. "Get in touch concerning your pictures. There's also a nice video. Have [your co-workers] seen them? It's 8:15 where you are. You have until 8:37 to reply. Then I start the distribution." The email listed the email addresses of Holly's co-workers and boss.
Holly did not respond. The photos were emailed to her boss and co-workers and went viral within three days. Her boss called her in to explain. Holly eventually quit her job.
Now three years after the break up, "I felt like the only thing I could do was part from that identity that had been completely defamed." She legally changed her name to Holly from her birth name.
Six months later she was going to present her doctoral thesis at a conference. Her naked photos appeared on the web with her new name and with the date, time and location of the conference. "They said something like why don't you go check her out and see if she'll have sex with you for money."
Fearing for her safety, Holly backed out of the conference and went to the police. Since she was over 18 and voluntarily gave the pictures and video, there wasn't anything they could do.
Holly didn't give up. She went to her state attorney's office who took her case. Holly, now age 29, became the first person to sue an ex for their distribution of revenge pornography.
"It is really cyber rape. It's just another way of exploiting women."
(Jacobs, H. (2013, September 8). A Message From Our Founder, Dr. Holly Jacobs. Retrieved from End Revenge Porn: http://www.endrevengeporn.org/?p=422)
(Miller, M. E. (2013, May 9). Miami Student Holly Jacobs Fights Revenge Porn. Retrieved from Miami New Times News: http://www.miaminewtimes.com/2013-05-09/news/revenge-porn-miami-holly-jacobs/full/)
