Remember that feeling of excitement and anticipation at the start of a new school year? No doubt, your children are feeling those same emotions right now.  The start of a new school year is exciting for parents as well, but if your children are entering their middle or high school years, that excitement is probably matched with an equal measure of concern about your teen's safety.  Unfortunately, drugs and alcohol are a part of our children's world.  As parents, it's our job to do what we can to prevent our children from abusing these substances.

For nearly four years now, Parents. The Anti-Drug has been working to provide parents in our community with strategies that address the problem of teen substance abuse.  Working together with the public and private schools in Districts 106, 109, 112 and 113, we have sent out monthly emails such as this one that offer information and resources to parents.  

Parents Are Key

Year after year, research shows that teens who consistently learn about the risks of drugs and underage drinking from their parents are significantly less likely to use those substances.  Parents are key!

• Starting at an early age, talk to your children frequently about drinking and drug use.  Keep the conversations brief and casual rather than tackling the subject in a "big talk" that can intimidate both you and your child.  Talking and "checking-in" with your child often is key to building an open and trusting relationship.  Short trips to and from school or the grocery store are a great venue for these conversations.

• Be honest, clear, and consistent when expressing your opinions and beliefs about underage drinking.  If your kids feel you're being sincere, they'll be more likely to respect your rules about underage drinking.   And make sure the conversation goes both ways.  Allow your child the opportunity to ask questions and express his or her opinions.  Children whose parents listen to their feelings and concerns are more likely to say "no" to alcohol.