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District 14 Al-Anon & Alateen

Monthly Newsletter

News from District 14
April 2013
In This Issue
Heard at a Meeting
Recovery in Our Own Words
District 14 and Beyond News
Service Corner
Bienvendos a Al-Anon
Institutions Corner
Alateen Corner
Upcoming Events
Forum Reflections
Contribute to the Newsletter
Archives
Heard at a meeting
Experience

Acceptance is the final frontier.
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Okay, God...whatever!
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I don't care how long it takes. I deserve to come out on the other side of this.

wisdom 

The same way the name of our program is abbreviated AFG, our program can be abbreviated with AFG: Accept, Forgive, Gratitude.
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I've been resistant to almost every good thing that has come into my life, including Al-Anon.
* * * 
I grabbed on to program like only the drowning can.
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I need to learn to let go of what was SUPPOSED to happen in my life. 

  

laugh 

 

 

  

 

I feel like I was a tic on the side of the path waiting for a host animal to come along.
 

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I don't live with active alcoholism. I live with active "thinking"! 

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Dear God, If you can't do it MY way, can You at least give me an explanation of why you can't? 

 

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Dear Al-Anon or Alateen Member,  

Welcome to the District 14 Al-Anon/Alateen Monthly Newsletter.  This newsletter is created and distributed by Al-Anon members.  Any member of Al-Anon or Alateen is welcome to contribute to this newsletter.

 

Recovery In Our Own Words

please write

 


 

We have not received a recovery story for this month's issue. These stories come from our own DIstrict 14 members. Over 500 Al-Anon members now receive this newsletter on a monthly basis. This Recovery section is for members to share their own stories in their own words.

 

Just two or three paragraphs are needed. And don't worry about grammar and punctuation. That's what we have an editor for. Share from your heart.  

  

The easiest way to share your story is to send something you've already written down in your journal or to write down what you just shared at a meeting, either as a speaker or just as a member share. Nothing fancy. Just your own experience, strength, and hope.

 

Remember that this newsletter goes to many who have not yet found the courage to attend a meeting. Please take a few minutes and send a share to the email address below.  

 

Please consider being a blessing to your fellow Al-Anon members.

thank you people

 

Please send your submission to:  Linda W  district14newsletter@yahoo.com    

 


District 14 and Beyond News
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The District 14 Monthly Meeting is held the 1st Wednesday of each month from 7:30 -9:00 in the Lesher Auditorium at the John Muir Medical Center, Concord Campus, 2540 East Street, Concord.   

                  Preceded by Concept discussion at 7:00 pm.    

                  ALL are welcome.  

 

all the news 

 

Items of Interest from April 3, 2013 District 14 Meeting  

 

  

 

  • share heart A MESSAGE FROM DAY IN AL-ANON 2014

    Hello, I am Rick P, DIA 2014 Chairperson, with the following appeal, or for those who are of a less codependent orientation, opportunity. Day in Al-Anon 2014 is reaching out to all who are interested in being a part of this annual event.  The theme for the 2014 gathering is Sharing from the Heart.  In keeping with this theme there will be a series of forums, in lieu of workshops, on a variety of Al-Anon topics and issues. Some of my ideas include forums involving ACA's, parents, slogans, step(s), higher power, relationships and whatever else the group decides.  Each forum will consist of three speakers and there is room and time for eight to ten forums.  This will require up to ten secretaries and thirty speakers and will provide us with an opportunity to tap into the vast resources our district has to offer.  The DIA 2014 will in all likelihood be held the week before or the day after Valentine's Day providing a real creative outlet for those interested in decoration(s).  But I need help. Almost all coordinator positions are still open and chief among them are a forum coordinator(s) and a co-chair.  There will be a coordinator meeting on April 28th at 2:00 pm at my home; 545 Van Buren Place,  San Ramon, Ca 94583.  For more information please contact me @ (925) 577-9902.   

  • Raised hand We have two important District level service positions open: Institutions and Archives. Please contact Carla G. at 925-586-8021 if you are interested or know someone who might be interested. Full descriptions of all service positions are on our District 14 Website. 
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  • sun and money Annual District Budget was adopted. Our treasurer announced that we have well over $10,000 in unallocated reserves. This money can be used for bolstering up our Al-Anon program in District 14. Groups and members are encouraged to think up new ideas about how we might use this money to spread the word. We can also support Al-Anon in its Institutions and/or Public Outreach domains. Please submit your ideas through your group GR.
  • Monthly Speaker Meetings.   For openings for host groups. please contact Sandy H. at 925-642-9909 to volunteer your group. Remember, smaller groups can join forces to host a meeting together, and there are very detailed guidelines with timelines included to guide you through the process if this is new to your group. December 28th is still OPEN for 2013 (note this is AFTER Christmas) and dates in 2014.  
  • Reimbursement Form for District Expenses now available on the website or here.
  • readers Literature Depot Reminders:   
  • The new workbook on the three Legacies is due to be released at the International Convention in July.  The book is titled Reaching for Personal Freedom and will be priced at $15.00. 
  • The new Intimacy book has over 700 submissions.  More are needed to achieve the right balance of shares. Let your voice be heard! For more information contact Diana, the NCWSA Literature/Forum Coordinator at dianasrca@comcast.net.
  • Spiritual Awakening First release of an Al-Anon eBookHaving Had a Spiritual Awakening, resulted in 100 copies sold in first week.  This eBook is available under Amazon (Kindle), Barnes and Noble (Nook), and will be available on iTunes.   
  • Contact Wynne for Literature Depot Questions. 
     
  • Group Donations to the District.  Please send group donations to: District 14 AFG, P.O. Box 416, Concord, CA 94522-0416. DO NOT FORGET to label your donation with you Group Name, Meeting Day and Time, and AFG number. 
  • NCWSA has new P.O. Box for donations. The new address is: NCWSA Treasurer, P.O. Box 728, Vacaville, CA 95696-0728. Donation form A-25 is available on the NCWSA website.
  • Twelve-Stepper, Area Newsletter for GRs. Now available online. Print copies are also sent out for two of the three publication dates each year. Available at:  www.ncwsa.org/newsletters    
  • hotlineHotline VolunteersAl-Anon Hotline still has gaps in the schedule that need to be filled.  You can volunteer for any day, any period of time.  Call Paula M. at 925-513-1770.       

  • join usMen's Day In Al-Anon Planning is well underway. This is an exciting new direction for the men of our District 14 and surrounding areas. If you want to be in on the planning pleaseContact Men's DIA Coordinator  John G. at 925-478-7848.  

Service Corner

 

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ATTENTION ALL GROUP REPS
2013 ONE DAY ASSEMBLY - FLYER
When:  Saturday May 4th, 2013
Time:  Registration begins 8:30 am, Event 10 am to 4:30 pm
Where:  Edward Harris Junior High School
             8691 Power Inn Rd,
             Elk Grove, CA 95624
What: Workshops & Speakers
Presenters: Patrick B - Our WSO Delegate reports back to us
                  Vicki H - Current WSO Trustee at Large speaks
Cost: $5 donation for lunch and bottled water
Transportation:  Please consider carpooling with other GRs.
Bring:  Your 12-Stepper, your Service Manual, your best voice to join in our District 14 "holler"!

ncwsa FALL 3-DAY AREA ASSEMBLY IN CONCORD ~ VOLUNTEERS NEEDED TO FILL TWO IMPORTANT POSITIONS
 
You may already know that our District 14 will host the 3-Day Assembly on October 25th, 26th and 27th.  We will need a number of volunteers for those days and more information will follow about that.  For now, we do need to fill two key positions for our 3-day Assembly:
 
Event Treasurer
 
Pre-Registration Chairperson

Both positions will be announced at the May One-Day Assembly coming up May 4th. Pre-registration will begin after the May One-Day Assembly and since checks will be collected, our Event Treasurer will need to be on board early as well. 
 
Please give these positions your consideration.  Maybe you are looking for your first service opportunity or maybe you haven't had the chance to do service in awhile.  You will have plenty of support.  If it peaks your interest, please call me at (925) 997-3340 or email me at sasmith_15@hotmail.com

 

Thank you,  Sue S., District 14 Chairperson for Three-Day Assembly

 


Bienvenidos a Al-Anon y Alateen

spanish al-anon faces alcoholism  

 

Como localizar una reunion 

   

 

Spanish Vancouver Congreso Internacional de Al-Anon del 5 al 7 de julio de 2013

 

 ¡Imagi­nese en Vancouver!  

Los Congresos Internacionales de Al-Anon son una grandiosa manera de celebrar la recuperación, encontrarse con viejos amigos y hacer nuevas amistades. Un Congreso Internacional es donde los miembros del Canadá, de los EE.UU. y de muchos otros países se reúnen para hablar el mismo idioma -el idioma del corazón-.

  • ¿Se puede imaginar lo que es escuchar a más de 4.500 asistentes
    -de Al-Anon, de Alateen y de A.A. e invitados- rezar la Oración de la Serenidad?
  • ¿Alguna vez ha visto el desfile de los países en que existen Grupos de Familia Al-Anon?

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Bienvenido al sitio web de Al-anon Familia Grupos para el Distrito 14
del norte de California del Servicio Mundial de la zona. Este sitio es creado y operado por el Distrito 14 miembros de Al-anon. Distrito 14 de límites se puede definir mejor el lugar de las reuniones que figuran en nuestra  
, y por lo general abarca las comunidades del condado de oriental y central Contra Costa.
El sitio web esta¡ organizado en torno a los Tres Legados de Al-Anon

 Al-Anon se enfrenta al alcoholismo 2013  

 

Institutions & Public Outreach Corner

public outreach Sign up to be a speaker for Al-Anon in the community... 

 

Claudette, our Public Outreach Coordinator, is asking for volunteers who would be available to speak to members of the community (for example, at Kaiser, at health fairs, at schools) about Al-Anon. Contact Claudette N. at 925-470-8939 with questions or to volunteer to be on a speaker's list for Public Outreach. We are also considering holding a workshop to teach members how to do public outreach speaking. 

 

She also announced that a new meeting will be started at Los Medanos Community College, reaching out to students of college age. 

 

INSTITUTIONS:  
Please replace the cover on the PINK Al-Anon Institutions Donation Can for your group.  The new cover has the correct information for donations.  Obtain the new cover at the next District Meeting.

Alateen Corner


To become a sponsor:  Contact Alt. Alateen Coordinator Marilyn G. at 925-759-1452.  Applications are also available to become an Alateen Sponsor through Kristine B., District 14 Alateen Safety Coordinator at 925-407-6053.


workshop GREATER EAST BAY ALATEEN SPONSOR WORKSHOP
When:  Sunday April 21, 2013, 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm
Where: St Joan of Arc Catholic Church, 2601 San Ramon Blvd., San Ramon, CA
Presenters:  Charli D., Area Alateen Process Person
                   Bonnie M., Area Alateen Coordinator
For: Current AMIAS (Al-Anon Members involved in Alateen Service) and anyone interested in becoming an AMIAS
What: Current AMIAS will be able to complete Recertification paperwork after the presentation if their DAPP (District Alateen Process Person is present; Kristine B. will be present for District 14 members)
RSVP: To Kristine B. 925-407-6053

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ALATEEN EVENT  

 

  

May 17, 18, and 19, 2013 

 

WHERE: Westminster Woods, 6510 Bohemian Hwy, Occidental, CA
COST: $149 postmarked by April 26th ($159 after April 26th, registration end May 10th)
FOR MORE INFORMATION: Contact Marilyn G. at 925-759-1452

FUNDRAISER FOR THIS EVENT: Alamaden Lake Park, 15652 Almaden Expressway, San Jose, 95120.  Peppertree Picnic BBQ Area, Saturday, April 13th, 2013. 1:00 pm to 5:00 pm. $10 Adults/$5 Teens. Bring BBQ meat and dish to share. Games and speakers!  

 
alateen express
 THE ALATEEN EXPRESS - Newsletter for Alateens in Northern CA
The ALATEEN EXPRESS is the official newsletter for Alateen groups of the Northern California World Service Area of AFG, Inc, and is distributed periodically to Alateen groups. It contains information about Alateen that may be helpful to Al-Anon and Alateen groups. All members of Alateen and their sponsors are urged to contribute information about group news, fund-raisers and other special events. Selected articles are presented on this web site and sorted by topic. Articles from members present their personal views and experiences. Opinions expressed are not to be attributed to Al-Anon or Alateen as a whole.

   

Upcoming Events

speaker District 14 Speaker Meeting -  Saturday, April 27, 2013
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6:30 pm   
Panel:
Reaching Serendipity Thru the 4th Step
Alateen: Elicia G., & Cierra P.
A.A.: Will S. & Clyde M.
Al-Anon: Chris H. & Lois S.

What:  Refreshments, Birthday Chips, Donation Drawing, Literature, Tape Library, Meeting recorded.

                       Hosted By: 8 pm Friday Brentwood
                       Where: Walnut Creek Kaiser, 1515 Newell Ave., Medical Office Bldg., Oak Room, 3rd Floor. Exit 680 S. Main St. or Olympic Blvd.  FLYER        
 
English Vancouver Al-Anon's International Convention July 5-7, 2013

Picture yourself in Vancouver!
Al-Anon International Conventions are a great way to celebrate recovery, meet old friends, and make new ones. An International Convention is where members from Canada, the U.S., and many other countries gather together to speak the same language-the language of the heart.
  • Can you imagine what it sounds like to hear more than 4,500 attendees-
    Al-Anon, Alateen, A.A., and guests-say the Serenity Prayer?
  • Have you ever seen the parade of countries that have Al-Anon Family Groups?

For Complete Listing of Area Events and Flyers:  NCWSA Events

OUR NEIGHBORING DISTRICTS:

 

Al-Anon Family Group District 16 (to the south, Dublin-Pleaston-Livermore) is having its open Speaker Meetings on the 2nd Saturday of every month.

 

30th DISTRICT 16 EVENT: 30th Anniversary Day in Al-Anon 2013

DATE: April 27, 2013 

Speakers: Stephanie B, Granite Shoals TX (Al-Anon) and Dominica O., Sacramento (AA)

Location: Trinity Lutheran Church, 1223 Hopyard Rd., Pleasanton, CA 94566

For Information: Call Jason B. at 925-200-1656 or Rick M. at 925-963-2219

FLYER 

 

 

District 6 (to the north, Solano and beyond) has its Birthday-Speaker Meeting on Last Friday each month 7:00 p.m. - 8:15 p.m. at Kaiser Hospital (3rd floor Rooms C & D), Vaca-Valley Parkway Vacaville Ca. 95678 (Leisure Town road exit off of Highway 80 Vacaville)

 

District 26 (to the west, Berkeley-Richmond) has its Monthly Speaker Meeting on the first Saturday of every month, 6:30-8 p.m., at Kaiser Permanente Richmond Medical Center Building C, 3rd floor, Conference Room F

 

 

Reflections from the Forum

 

Past Reflections 

Faith is not a guarantee against trouble, but against defeat. Sept 1978, Norma N., Moorhead, MN 

  forum apr 13   

 

Al-Anon's monthly magazine, The Forum, contains many personal stories of inspiration.  Click on this link to subscribe to receive your own monthly "Meeting in Your Pocket."   Only $11.00 a year.   

 

 

Current Forum articles:

  

In the middle of the night I trust the light will come around again... 

I got up in the middle of the night last night and stubbed my toe. I wanted to scream, but screaming would have startled my sleeping wife, scared the dog, and would not have accomplished anything for me.


My aching toe made me think of how my behavior "in the middle of the night" relates to how I work this program...

 

 She carried the message to the end... 

It was one of the darkest times of my life. By the age of 36, I had been married and divorced twice, had numerous committed relationships fail, and my latest relationship with an alcoholic was falling apart.

My son was eight years old, and we had moved 15 times in his life span...

 

In my early recovery, "pretending" was one of my biggest problems. I was so lost in denial that I didn't even know that pretending was denial's big sister.

 

I pretended because I had lost touch with the real me. I struggled to find my opinion, my likes, my dislikes, and my purpose in life.

 

Contribute to this Newsletter
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 A few words from your share at a recent meeting, a thought you had while reading conference approved literature, your take on one of the Steps or Traditions.  Any tidbit is welcome as long as you remember that we speak Al-Anon here, leaving other therapies and programs outside.   Send your contribution to the Newsletter by email with "Contribution" in the subject line. 

 

Submissions may be edited for length and grammar and will published at the discretion of the editors when space permits. Authors will be notified of changes to their submissions. 

Archives of Past Newsletters

 

No matter what relationship you have with an alcoholic, whether they are still drinking or not, all who have been affected by someone else's drinking can find solutions that lead to serenity in the Al-Anon/Alateen fellowship.  For more...

 

Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism 2013

 Al-Anon se enfrenta al alcoholismo 2013

 

Sincerely,
Co-Editors:  Karen, District 14 Newsletter Coordinator
                   Linda W, Alternate District 14 Newsletter Coordinator

Contact the Editors:  district14newsletter@yahoo.com