Many of us will agree that if we listen to the definition of others regarding our worth, or even how we negatively define ourselves,  

                  we would be people most miserable.  

Having embraced everything negative that has been said of us is the reason why we are depressed, have low-self-esteem and other "Identity Issues".   

Each of us is surrounded by a crowd of people in our homes, on our jobs, in our neighborhoods, at our churches, etc.  

What we must remember is that in a crowd there are a variety of people; some, who truly love, encourage and support us,  

          others who are nosey, while others are "Haters. 

Haters are those persons who point out our faults, and rally against us to discourage and humiliate us.  

Of course then, since throughout the Bible we are told to love and encourage one another as our Heavenly Father does to us;  

 when the "Hater" spirit is being displayed, that spirit is not of God.    

Instead of spending our valuable time, energy and emotions on Haters; we need to seek those persons we know that sincerely  

  love and support us.   

Why should we subject ourselves and listen to persons who mistreat or don't love us?   

We must consciously bless ourselves and embrace what Daddy God has said about us; for He loves us and has placed His Spirit in us.