Our birthday is our own personal New Year. It is an annual reunion with ourselves - a periodic opportunity to take serious personal stock. It is the perfect time to check in with our deepest and best self to evaluate the past year and to project the next.
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By the half-way point of fall we are surrounded by an ambient prescience of impending death. Death and decline. Death and disappearance. The sun seems to be dying as we approach the winter solstice six weeks away. Our world is steeped in deep shadows, the light decreasing daily, dimming toward the shortest, darkest day of the year. And the year, itself, is reaching the end; drawing to a close. Another cycle completing its course. The birds and animals have departed, gone south or underground for the duration. The trees, the vineyards and fields are stripped bare, exposed to the first frost. Their lost leaves create a compost cover like a cozy comforter for the land. Dead and decomposing, they feed and warm life contained inside the earth. Incubating.
And we, too. We pull ourselves close; cover up and snuggle down. We naturally spend more time inside now. And we tend to be more introspective. Come in upon ourselves. In the season full of shadows we are inclined to explore the darkness inside of us. The shadows of our psyche. The shade of our fear. The specter of our soul. And what we discover there, if we are willing to recognize it, is the inevitability of our own demise. Everything does, after all, die, doesn't it?
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By acknowledging those who walked before us, we can set our own life into context. The practice of paying homage to past generations - the veneration of the ancestors - keeps that connection intact through the ages. We put our own paths into perspective by recognizing the trail blazers who made it possible. Those from whom we have inherited our world. Those to whom we owe our lives. Those whose blood and pain and guilt and triumph travels through our own brains and bodies. To those, who are our roots, we toast our thanks.
Death has taken so many luminary thinkers, writers, artists, philosophers, healers, teachers, and priestesses of the Feminine Divine in the past several years. Many of these extraordinary spiritual leaders have been dear friends, colleagues and mentors to me, and undoubtedly to many, many others.
In the spirit of Dia de los Muertos , Veteran's Day and Thanksgiving, I hereby honor these fabulous, remarkable, inspirational and influential Queens. I offer sincere gratitude for the work they produced and the role models they were.
Thank you, thank you, thank you all.
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Are you angry?
How angry are you?
What makes you angry?
How do you handle it?
How do you express it?
How does it make you feel?
The conversation continues:
Dear Queen Mama Donna,
In regards to your last newsletter about anger, I do believe as you said, that we are to use these feelings of anger, injustice, violation, etc. to help make progress in these certain issues and be advocates and help those and educate.
I find the concept to be a part of a backdrop of how women (and men but we are focusing on women) that back in history and now that we stain our selves, our purity, our virtuous symbol (the virgin/innocence)
if we corrupt ourselves with getting involved or standing up. So many of us are labeled crazy, bitches, liars, etc. when we are speaking up or fighting for a worthy cause peacefully and in a noble way. Look
at history....how long it took for us to get the right to vote, we still do not have equal pay just because we were born a female, we get labeled as sluts or whores depending upon what we wear or don't wear, look like or don't look like, or that if a male behaves a certain way we had to do something to provoke it, which is not only lethal and a dangerous mindset but perpetuates violence against women.
It took so long before we had the right to control giving birth because for some women we wanted more than just having children. It's not about knocking the women who enjoy having children, but the power to be able to make that choice or use it for health reasons or to have a fulfilling sex life without worry of a child coming into the mix. Some women were tired of just getting pregnant and not being able to provide or risking their health. Now, here again we are in the year 2015 battling to keep women's health funding for Planned Parenthood (I wish the name would be changed; apparently it is VERY misleading to individuals in Congress or in politics that you would think would investigate and have the intelligence but seem so "concerned" about our health that they want the very tests and preventative healthcare measures to aid us to be taken away. Irony, isn't it? Planned Parenthood gives birth control, mammograms, checks for STD's, etc. It doesn't promote "Come here so you can have lots of babies and abortions."
Where are we headed? Why is everyone so concerned with our anatomy? Why can't we leave the decision up to ourselves? It's still an issue of being our own entity, our own person and being an equal and capable of making our own decisions. We can THINK for ourselves and SPEAK but that seems to be forgotten.)
If you look at the video I love how the white is used (the symbol of clean, pure, etc.) and the black as a way to stain.....as though when we speak with our words or certain actions then we have turned our backs on what it means to be a lady or woman which isn't so. I also love how the main singer is getting condemned for her talking out of popular belief and thenbasically she is labeled or diagnosed as a nut job...how many of us have had to deal with that....especially back in the day.
We have so many people from government, politicians, family members, magazine, media, society telling us this is what we must do to fulfill being a good woman but why are we still being sold as property to people or made it to seem these things are healthy for us when they are binding us, holding us back? Let us use our voices and our gender as a way to empower ourselves and take ownership of what we know we can and should do.
I also think it would be worth mentioning a great program that is also available on a DVD set and clips on Youtube as well as seminars offered by the Gracie Family of Jiu-Jitsu called "Women Empowered." It's a workshop that shows self-defense techniques to help one women. Very empowering! It shows how if you ever do get to the ground on your back that is the most powerful move for a woman to use to overcome and turn the situation on the attacker's back (literally). Eve Torres Gracie helps her husband/head instructor Rener Gracie and grappling coach for UFC reigning champ Ronda Rousey teach the classes.
Here are some links for it:
Women Empowered Clip from ABC News:
Gracie Wrist Release
Their official website is here:
Thank you and my our Divine Mother bless us, direct, and protect so
we may help our fellow sisters, mothers, friends and women
everywhere. There is a lot of healing that needs to be done. And we must be there for each other. Sincerely,
- Lisa, NJ
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Thanks so much for taking the time to respond to The Queen's Chronicles. It is a joy to connect with you and to share your comments with our sister Queens.
Letters in response to
the SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2015 Issue:
Loved that hysterical song, "I Don't Come From Your Rib, You Come From My Vagina!" What a total hoot. Brava to her! And to you for sharing it.
- Sally, NJ
Thank you for these examples of women - very different sorts of women - doing such good and helpful work to make the world a better place. Donna. I always enjoy your newsletters, and you are a great soul! Take good care, and keep doing all the good you do.
- Anne, NM
Your writing is so profound it is like going on a journey! I am grateful to you Mama Donna for who you are and the space you hold on our planet. Hugs,
- Gail, CT
Y muchas gracias santa mujer once again for your newsletters and all the sacred info you write up so beautifully. You are one of the primary energy vortexes on the planet, like Sedona, like Machu Picchu, much smaller in scale, but no less the spiraling forces of light. You are helping hold the grid in place, helping earth to sustain the strain, as conscious awareness returns, is born and rises. In beauty, mindfulness and solidarity, so mote it be,
Ahhhh thanks so much Mama D. Your messages always arrive just at the time they need to, Thanks. I've passed this on to some very dear loved ones in our community.
You are a gift, a goddess and a joy. Your email communications fill my heart, as I am one woman who has chosen not to bear children and to follow my career dreams. Your acknowledgement means much to me.
- Janet, OR
Keep these coming, please. They satisfy me intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.
- Jackie, FL
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We extend hearty congratulations to our multi-talented circle of Sister Queens for their impressive accomplishments and successes.
Imagination is powerful. Imagination is healing.
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The result may not be what you expected,
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Robin Bady, NY; Allesandra Belloni, NJ; Marcy Gordon, NY;
LuLu LoLo, NY; Suzanne Lacey, CA; Linda Mary Montano, NY;
Pat Oleszko, NY; Barbara Rosenthal, NY; and Kay Turner, NY; on their performances and/or performances of their work.
Helen Aylon, NY; Nancy Azara, NY; C. Bangs, NY; Dara Birnbaum, NY; Darla Bjork, NY; Stephanie Brody-Lederman, NY; Nancy Buchanan,, CA; Lauren Curtis, NJ; Mary Beth Edelson, NY; Karen Fitzgerald, NY; Janet Goldner, NY; Karen Guancione, NJ;Suzanne Lacy, CA; Meryl Meisler, NY; Lorraine O'Grady, NY; Carolee Schneemann, NY; and Linda Stein, NY; on the exhibitions of their artwork.
Miriam Dexter and Vicki Noble, CA, Foremothers of the Women's Spirituality Movement, Elders and Visionaries (Anthology with a chapter by Mama Donna); Glenys Livingstone, Australia, PaGaian Cosmology Meditations (CD Set); Nicki Skully, CA, The Union of Isis and Thoth (Book); and Elaine Silver, FL, The Only Real Power (CD); on their new publications.
Victoria Moran, NY, on winning the Vegan Media Outlet 2015 Award for her "Main Street Vegan" podcast.
Mollie Thornburg, NY, on her new job and new home.
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Eclipse Nelson, RI, whose book Stand In My Heart: An Elephant"s Prayer was a winner at the Animals, Animals, Animals Book Festival.
Please send your good news, achievements, accomplishments, successes and celebrations so that our international circle of sovereign sisters can send you blessings and accolades.
And we are glad to so. It is a joy and a privilege to share in the fortune of another woman. I recently heard Oprah say the saddest thing ever - "The hardest thing about being successful is having someone to be glad for you."
It takes a centered and confident Queen to break that pattern. There are 60 million thrones out there. One for each of us. There is plenty of purpose, passion and power for us all. May we use it well!
Please Offer Your Purest Thoughts, Your Heart-Felt Prayers, Your Great Good Feelings, And Your Very Best Blessings For Healing and Peace of Mind To:
Adrianne, NY; Alison, TN; Amy, NY; Babs, NY; Barbara, NJ; Bebee, DE; Berenice, NY; Bettye, NY Betty, AL; Chrissie, NY; Christine, NY; Dana, FL; Dawn, CA; Diane, NY; Dolly, NY; Dominique, NM; Dorothy, CA; Gail, WA; Jo, AZ; Gerry, VT; Joan, ME; Joan, NY; Judi, FL; Judith, NY; Karen, NJ; Kathleen, PA; Kaylin, MD; Kazuko, NY; Kim, NY; Kimi, NJ; Laura, NY; Laurie, OH; Linda, FL; Linda, SC; Lisa, NJ; Lorie, KY; Lydia, CO; Lisa, PA; Lucia, TX; Mari, VA; Margi, NY; Marna, NY; Marsha, NY; Mary, MD; Mary, NY; Mary, OH; Mary, CO; Nancy, NY; Nancy, NC; Nona, LA; Pat, MA; Patsy, NY; Paula, NT; Pearl, NY; Reynolds, NY; Roberta, NY; Sally, NY;Sandy, CA; Serpentessa, NY; Sharon, NY; Shelley, NY; Sheriden, MA; Shirley, IN; Sherli, CA; Sid, PA; Sue, CA; Susan, NC; Susan, NY; Terese, NY; Terri, FL; Urvashi, NY; Vicki, MN; Weslea, ME; and Yvette, NY; who are in the process of healing themselves from illness, accident, injury, or surgery.
Amy, NY; D. Barbara, NY; Beverly, NY; Carol, NY; Diana, FL; Eleni, NY; Gaetana, NY; Joanne, NY; Kimberly, NY; Kyia, MN; Linda, NY; Linda, NY; Maureen, NY; Meryl, NY; Beedee, NY; Patricia, Australia; Regi, CA;Sheryll, CA;Susan, NY; and Svetlana, NY; who would benefit greatly from some spiritual support.
Ali, VT; Annie, NY; Barbara, NY; Barbara, CA; Carol, NY; Chrys, NY; Deni, NY; Diane, NY; Erica, New Zealand; Erica, CT; Gaetana, NY; Gail, NY; Hemetra, PA; Janet, CT; Kat, NY; Kate, NY; Kathrine, Denmark; Laurie, OH; Lois, NY; Marla, NY; Mary, CO; Marya, NY; Meryl, NY; Nancy, NC; and Roslyn, NJ; the caregivers who are in weary need of care themselves.
May Their Spirits Rest in Peace
Rita Gross, CA
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