Another school year is just about done and for many parents, and kids, it just wasn't what was hoped for. The grades didn't match expectations, personal projects were left unfinished, and outside goals were not realized. It's not easy seeing so much potential go untapped. Frustration and fear often build up as weeks, months, or even years pass by with seemingly little substantial movement. How can we make sure that this disappointment doesn't become pervasive and that self-image doesn't become shaped by too much negativity?
Traditional parenting often leads parents to apply more pressure and increase control in hope to get their kids to achieve. Sadly, this tactic often has the opposite impact, causing kids to retreat into a place of frustration, negativity, and isolation.
Preparing for the next season
Okay I'll admit it - I'm a Mets fan. It's been a rough couple of years! Talk about untapped potential! Each year, as spring rolls around, I wonder what it must be like for the Mets marketing team as they seek out a new slogan to encourage Mets fans to believe that THIS will be the season when success will finally replace disappointment. Not only do they need to sell tickets, they want to motivate their players, too.
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