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Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Northwest Tucson
3601 West Cromwell Drive, Tucson, Arizona

520-579-7094             JUNE 15, 2013               office@uucnwt.org

   

Our mission: to welcome, care for, and inspire.

June's Liturgical Theme: BALANCE
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SUNDAY SERVICES

10:30 am

 

Children & Youth

Religious Education

10:30 am

 

   

Minister

Ron Phares    

rdphares@gmail.com 

579-7094, 661-0791 

Office Hours:

T, TH, Fri 1:30-4:30  

 

Director of

Religious Education 
Donna Pratt 
441-0870

mklo@earthlink.net   

 

Choir Director

L. H. Brown

579-7094

lbrownvh@yahoo.com 

 

Congregational

Administrator

Donna Pratt  579-7094,   406-5121, (cell) 441-0870  

office@uucnwt.org  

Office Hours:

8 am - 1 pm  MWF  

 

Newsletter Editors John and Margaret Fleming
888-7059

margefleming@earthlink.net 

Deadlines: 12th & 24th

 

Board of Trustees

 

President:

Betty Meikle 

1st Vice President:

Sybelle van Erven
2nd Vice President:
Jan Anderson 
Secretary:
Elizabeth Reed
Treasurer:
Larry Jagnow

Trustees:

Jim Gessaman 

Pat Reddemann 


Charity of the Month

 

The Green Basket Charity for June is Arts for All.   

 

Please remember to make checks out to MVUU and put the name of the charity in the memo line.     

Circle of Life

 

* Ed Chester died June 5, surrounded by family and friends. A memorial service is scheduled for June 30 after the service.



 

Bibiana's "Sweet 16" June 29 

 

All MVUUers are invited to stop by and wish Bibi a happy Sweet 16 on Saturday, June 29 in the Fireside Room, between 3:30 and 6:00 pm.



A Super Service

 

Here's a huge hurrah for the YRUU kids and the service they put on last Sunday, June 9. Called "Art in Balance," it included a range of art forms, from Clarissa's poetry to Lucius's drawing on the cover to readings by Rachel and Braden, singing by Ali, dance, oratory, meditation, and beautiful flower arrangements for the three facilitators. It also included all the kids and the facilitators; there was a part for everyone, even some who hadn't participated in the past.  

 

And they all did superbly. Ashlen's meditation was beautiful and appropriate. Desi, who has often been excluded because of her limited speech, at last had a starring role. When I saw her up there dancing, so poised and so beautiful, I thought of how far she has come and was literally moved to tears. We have often seen Steven as a Worship Associate and a performer, so it was no surprise to find him articulate, thoughtful, and self-possessed, but who knew that Bibi, who used to be so shy, could give such an excellent homily--compelling, personal, and beautifully delivered.

 

I've known most of these kids since they were little and feel as if they are my extra grandchildren. It was so inspiring to see them perform so well. Thanks, kids. You are a credit to us all.

 

Margaret Fleming 

 



Pastoral Care 

 

The Pastoral Care Committee consists of the seven people and their phone numbers listed at the end of this article.  Bring us your sick, those in need. We can be of assistance from giving rides to doctors appointments, to bringing meals, to going grocery shopping, to visiting and/or phoning you, to doing a million and one other things that I can't think of right now but I'm sure you'll think of when you have the need. Everything is confidential.  

 

Your Pastoral Care Committee currently consists of Leon Bennet-Alder (306-1049), Judy Carlson (818-1980), Pat Desai (577-9642), Steve McGeeney (572-4741), Betty Meikle (990-4663), Paula Trahan (742-6657), and Pastor Ron Phares (661-0791). Give one of us a call if you need to! Times a wastin'!


Please contact Pastor Ron if you know of anyone who needs to be on this list.


MVUU Connect

 

A fun and easy way to stay connected to your UU Friends!
MVUUConnect@yahoogroups.com is our Electronic Community Bulletin Board. Use it to share short messages. Post any notices of interest to our community that would not be official MVUU announcements, newsletter articles, or posted on our website. This group is not intended for discussions on religious questions, church practices or policies.  

 

If you have not received your invitation, and would like one, please let Donna know in the office, 579-7094, or email her at office@uucnwt.org



Diary of a Hot Gardener

(Take that any way you want)

by Alberta Gunther

 

This month the news is mostly good.  In front I have okra growing nicely.  Should be a bumper crop. When I go to Oregon the first week of Sept., I'll take some to mother although she said I didn't cook them right the last time.  I had sauteed them and she wants them fried crisp.  I've had two tomatoes from my three plants and have eight green ones in various sizes.  It may be getting too hot now to keep setting toms but if the plants stay well, they'll produce again in the fall.

 

Out back I've planted green beans again.  I have such a time keeping them alive. The cucumber plants still look healthy and are blooming so maybe I'll get some.  I'd love to have enough to make some pickles. 

 

Happy Eating!

 

 


Greeters Needed    

 

Here's an opportunity to meet new people on Sunday mornings. We currently need friendly people to serve year-round or part of the year as regular or substitute Greeters.  We are especially in need of greeters on the second and fourth Sunday of each month, or on the fifth Sunday of June, September, or December.  Don't worry that our standards might be too high.  A few minutes of training is all that's needed for you to join the ranks of the Greeters.

To explore further please email Gene McCormick at genemick@comcast.net
or phone at 520-297-9498


2013 Triple Match Challenge

For a limited time only, your gift to the Friends of the UUA will go three times as far! The grant makers from the UU Veatch Program at Shelter Rock and leaders from the President's Council will triple every dollar you give from now until June 30, 2013. Please give generously today at giving.uua.org

 


Sign Up for Daily Compass

Sign up for the Church of the Larger Fellowship's Daily Compass, a daily meditation and inspirational email that now offers and audio version with a response. To subscribe, go to the Daily Compass,dailycompass.org,. scroll to the bottom, and add your email.


Don't forget to bring a flower for the Flower Communion service June 16.


 Minister's Column

 

Well, there you have it. That was my first year of full time ministry. That. Was. Awesome. I'm not speaking to my performance, but to my experience. I had an awesome experience. Awesome does not mean easy. It does not mean perfect or without struggle or grief. It means that when I look back on the year, I am struck by a feeling of awe.

 

If you remember the series of sermons I gave during the month themed "Becoming," you may recall that we discussed awe as being something that is overwhelming and therefor causes us to reconcile that sensibility into a new way of looking at the world. That has been my first year of full time ministry.

 

I have said it before, but it bears repeating. This occupation, driven as it is by passion, is powerfully formative. The energy for that formation comes down to the notion that I must practice what I preach. This has to do with my integrity as a person and my legitimacy as a faith leader. When that imperative is put into play with the marvelous personalities and ideas and opportunities and challenges that swirl into the Mountain Vista Unitarian Universalist Congregation, it is as if I can feel, physically touch, the pressures of fate. And that is thrilling and challenging and humbling and inspiring. That is awesome.

 

Earlier this year, I wrote a letter column that spoke of the intensity of ministry. I have moved from intensity to awesome. That is a good thing. The difference is subtle but profound and I find I am hard pressed to describe it. I think it has something to do with the instinct to control. There was a point this year when I realized that I did not have to save the world. I know that sounds silly. I did not even know I was trying to do that. But once I realized it, I was able to shift from the sense of intensity--which can be great, but can also lead to sleeplessness and headaches--to the sense of awe.

 

I don't anticipate that sense ever departing. Or maybe if it does, it will be time for me to find a new path. I do anticipate next year being different from this year, however. There was a lot to learn this first year. Names, procedures, cultures, characters. And then at home we've gone from syllables to sentences and from diapers to--as I type--the glorious rite of passage that is the potty. We're talking basics. The fundamentals. It sets a trajectory.

 

The trajectory that we set at MVUU this year is spectacular. I get giddy considering how that trajectory will play when I am no longer learning how to walk as a minister. That's not to say that I or we won't blow it once and again. It means that blowing it once and again isn't going to derail our drive to Welcome, Care for and Inspire (and be welcomed, cared for and inspired). We're in this for the long haul. We can afford to call upon the big picture while we work on the little picture. That is awesome.

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Ice Cream Social June 16

 

ice cream There will be an Ice Cream Sundae Fund Raiser for Interweave on Sunday, June 16, 2013, after the service. There will be ice cream, toppings and just good fun. It is also Father's Day, so all you dads who love ice cream, come over to the ice cream bar at MVUU.  A suggested donation of $5.00 would be appreciated, but as usual nobody will be turned away. The proceeds of this fund raiser will be to help with expenses of having a booth at PRIDE again this year in October. 

 

Thanks to everyone for all the support you have given in the past to MVUU's Interweave chapter. If anyone would like to donate ice cream, toppings, bowls, etc., please let me know, and thanks in advance. 

 

Roberta Price



President's Column

 

Betty Meikle And so, this is it. On June 30th it will be over. This year's Board of Trustees will make a couple more decisions and take its final bow, sing its swan song, then it's over. Why do the words of Cat Stevens come to mind?

Now I've been happy lately, thinking about the good things to come
And I believe it could be, something good has begun

 

This year's Board has been a unique gathering of individuals, each willing to give much of their time and wisdom to keep the business of the church running smoothly. We were devoted to the programs and projects of the congregation. We focused on what we could do in the "now" that would move us toward a clearer vision of the future. Some of the things we accomplished, with major help from individuals and the Congregation as a whole are:

  • Welcomed and integrated a new minister
  • Cleaned-up financial books using outside professionals, MVUU staff and volunteers
  • All Trustees became Stewards and participated in 2013-2014 connections and financial commitments campaign, for which pledges now stand at 20% over the prior year
  • Gathered and recorded Congregational desires for future facilities for use in our search for adequate facilities
  • Completed re-write of Policies and Procedures in consistent format
  • Supported Committees and their Chairs through Council Meetings and open board meetings
  • Turned Wednesday evenings into Adult RE with enriching and informative offerings
  • Participated in raising our income to cover necessary expenditures, which included:
    • Full payment of Our Fair Share (UUA and PSWD)
    • Rev. Ron's Ordination and Installation
    • Provided for Goldblatt doors to be upgraded to Fire Safety Standards
    • Chartered an audio/visual team for Sanctuary and provided for implementation
    • Chartered a Communications Committee with a budget for next year
    • Enhanced our Sacred Space in the Sanctuary
    • Increased transparency in our communications with the Congregation
    • And, many, many more

All these things seem like gift exchanges between the Congregation and the Board. Our meetings were begun by one of us giving a story gift of how one of our 4 guides had influenced her/his behavior during the past month. The guides are: 7 Principles, MVUU Vision, MVUU Mission and MVUU Covenant of Right Relations.

 

Certainly there were some disagreements. Most were thoughtfully resolved testing the merit of our Covenant of Right Relations. When invoked, it works.

 

MVUU is a congregation of people with things to do and places to go. Every week many of us seek out one another and chose to spend precious time together. We share our life journey with others who are seeking and asking questions. We are healing ourselves and others. We are building meaningful lives. We have begun reaching out. And, we are learning to celebrate our differences.

 

Welcome to the new Board. They have energy and ideas that will build on what MVUU has already built and discovered. Pitch in. Glide on the peace train!

 

 



Religious Education News

 

Donna Pratt

Summer Religious Education Program

 

This summer our Share Your Passion program got off to a great start on June 2 as Reid Gilbert introduced the kids to mime, one of his many talents. Everyone participated, and they all enjoyed it.

 

On June 8, the RE Committee sponsored a potluck supper. Afterward, the younger kids went up to the garden with Betty Meikle to do some preparation of our plot there and to plant some seeds. The older kids, under the supervision of Adria Brooks, built a compost bin. So from now on, we can take our organic waste up there and use it to improve our garden soil. While the kids were gone, the committee members and parents had a conversation about RE and shared ideas for next year's curriculum.

 

Here is the Sunday schedule for the next 2 months.

 

June 16        Intergenerational Flower Communion service

June 23        BAKING COOKIES with Margaret Fleming

June 30        Visit to MODEL RAILROAD with Larry
                   Jagnow

July 7           ALL ABOUT WHALES with Jim Gessaman

July 14         ABCs OF AUTO MAINTENANCE & REPAIR                    with Keith MacLoughlin (adults welcome too)

July 21         ANTI-BOREDOM SUNDAY with Catalina Hall

July 28         MAKING UP A STORY with Alberta Gunther

August 4      INDIAN CULTURE with Pat Desai      

 

If you have a passion you'd like to share with the kids one Sunday, please let Donna or Margaret know.  We have room for a couple more. Even if you don't have teaching experience, this is something you can do. One of the RE teachers or committee members will be with you to serve as a liaison, find supplies, provide snacks, and help you with the kids.  

 

Our Whole Lives (OWL) Sexuality Education

 

If you know of a child , (grades K through 2nd), who might be interested in attending an OWL Session at MVUU this Summer, please let Donna know. The child does not have to belong to MVUU. For more info on the OWL (Our Whole Lives) sexuality curriculum, please visit

 

If you have any questions, please call Donna, the Director of Religious Ed, at (520) 441-0870 or email her at cdpratt1@live.com



Stewardship Conversations

 

Tom Bunch

Consider Joining Stewardship

Please consider becoming part of the Stewardship Committee if:

  1. Our mission (To receive and enhance our congregation's gifts) speaks to you.
  2. Our 5-year vision [To significantly enhance the appreciation for, and existence of, the connections (heart-mind-actions) that exist between members and friends and this institution, at all levels. In practical, measurable terms, this increase in connections will be at least 50% and will be reflected by our financial giving levels] is one you can support.
  3. You realize stewardship is ministry and the focus is on the need of the giver to give rather than the need of the church to receive.
  4. You share our commitment to innovation, learning, expanding and improving stewardship.

We have 5 teams: 1. Annual Financial Commitment Drive 2. Time and Talent 3. Joyful Giving 4. Stewardship Education 5. Planned Giving. We would love to receive and enhance your gifts of time and talent in any of these areas. No prior experience is necessary, just a willingness to learn and work with others.

I encourage you to research us. See how others on the committee have found the experience in the past year. Speak with Betty Meikle, Ron Meikle, Meg Kidwell, Chuck Tatum, Anne Tatum or Ron Phares.

 

Please email (sparky9132000@yahoo.com) phone (797-2725) or speak with (the tall guy with glasses) Tom Bunch if you would like to join this lively group.



Media Update

 

John install
John Fleming pulling the snake out of the ceiling 

At its May meeting, the Board approved the Media Team's proposal for a new system of audio-video equipment. The cost will be about the same as just upgrading the current sound system. Over the summer the media team, which is a task force of the Buildings and Grounds Committee, will be installing it and training members to use it. The team consists of Ron Bishop, Joe Bredau, Mike Brennan, John Fleming, and Wally Gerrard.  

Wally install
Wally Gerrard wrestling with the snake 

We've already installed a snake (a cable with multiple plug-ins for microphones and musical instruments) in the ceiling. We'll have cameras that can be controlled remotely from multiple positions. When the entire system is complete, we'll be able to video record Sunday services, the choir, weddings, memorials, and conferences, which can be posted on YouTube and Facebook if desired. Recording such events could be an income source for the congregation.

 

Ultimately we'll be able to show services and events in the Goldblatt Building for overflow crowds. We'll also be able to link with other congregations through a computer network. The equipment is mobile, so it can be used outside too. Those interested in technical aspects can click here to see an informational video. 

 

Peter Becskehazy is working with us to develop an internship program with Pima College, through which students interested in media can get some practical experience and academic credit.

 

Thanks to the Board for its support. We are truly reaching out.

 

John Fleming



Volunteer of the Month

 

Arnold Van der Heiden and family  
Arnold Van der Heiden 

What is the most appropriate occupation for someone from the Netherlands?


a)      Cheesemaker
b)      Wooden shoe seller 

c)      Dike builder

d)      Florist

 

If stereotypes hold, any of these might be appropriate, but for those of us who know Arnold Van der Heiden, the obvious answer is d) florist.

Arnold has his own flower shop in Benson, and he has consistently provided us with beautiful floral arrangements for our sanctuary. His generosity has greatly enhanced the ambience of our worship services.

 

Arnold really surpassed himself during Reverend Ron's ordination and installation by providing multiple bouquets and floral displays, all of which helped to create the very special feeling of awe and beauty that we experienced during the ceremony and the reception. We can't thank him enough.

 

Various congregation members have been able to enjoy floral beauty at home when Sybelle van Erven, who is co-owner of the flower shop, gives them to someone to take home each week.

 

Arnold and Sybelle are the parents of Ingo and Bibiana, both of whom have been active in our congregational life. Ingo loves interacting with young children and has been a child care attendant ever since he turned 18 a couple of years ago. Bibi has been a nursery helper, an assistant in R.E. classes, and a youth member of the R.E. Committee. She has also been a delegate to a UUA youth leadership program. She was one of three teens who played a prominent role in the Ordination ceremony; and she delivered an outstanding homily in the YRUU service on June 9. Arnold and Sybelle have much to be proud of.  



Weekly Activities

   

reader Sundays, 8:30 am, Book Discussion Group

Our current book is The Social Conquest of Earth

by Edward O. Wilson. This book reportedly demonstrates that the sources of morality, religion, and the creative arts are fundamentally biological in nature. According to a reviewer, Wilson presents us with the clearest explanation ever produced as to the origin of the human condition and why it has resulted in our domination of the Earth's biosphere. Please join us Sundays at 8:30 am in the small RE room. For more information contact John Clark at alvinjclark@aol.com.

 

Tuesdays, 12:00 noon, Bridge Club 

Wednesdays, 9:30 am - 12:00 m, Writers' Workshop

Margaret Fleming at 888-7059 or margefleming@earthlink.net.  

Thursdays, 6:45 pm, Tucson Women's Chorus

Thursdays, 7:00 pm, MVUU Choir Practice

Saturdays, 6:30 pm, AA Beginners Meeting 



Bi-Monthly Activities

 

1st & 3rd Mondays, 6:30 pm, MVUU Growth Group 

 
The group will be discussing It's Not What You Sell, It's What You Stand for: Why Every Extraordinary Business Is Driven by Purpose by Roy M. Spence Jr. and Haley Rushing.
See full text in  March issue

 

1st and 3rd Mondays, 6:30 pm, Global Chant Group

"Sacred Poetry as Spiritual Practice" will take a break until September.  

 

1st and 3rd Thursdays 4:30-6:00 pm, Grief Support    

At UU Church of Tucson. Karla Brockie 269-9573. 


1st and 3rd (and 5th) Fridays, 6:30 pm, Women's Circle

2nd and 4th Fridays, 6:30 pm, Spirit Circle
 
 

Monthly Activities 

 

"Touched by Adoption" June 16  

 

Third Sunday of every month, 12:00-1:30 in the sanctuary. Facilitated by Sybelle van Erven. UUSybelle@gmail.com (520) 471-3557

      

Bookaholics Unanimous

   

Bookaholics Unanimous meets the last Monday of every month at 7:00 pm in the Goldblatt Building. We select a variety of books based on what has intrigued members. The one who suggests the book generally leads the discussion of that book.

Our next meeting is Monday, August 26. We take quick trip to Antarctica to discuss Endurance, Shackleton's Legendary Antarctic Expedition. (1914, complete with photographs.) Author: Alfred Lansing. The September meeting is on Monday the 30th. The book will be Jack Kerouac's On the Road, a classic. We will also be selecting books for the next season. You are welcome to participate. 

Welcome newcomers and members. For more information contact: Anne Leonard anne@alartworks.com or 825-3449.


 

Sunday Services for June

      

Liturgical Theme for June: BALANCE
 

 

June 16, 2013

"Flower Communion"

Reverend Ron Phares

 

Bring flowers! Just as water communion signals the ingathering of our community, flower communion signals its sending forth, its wilting and its flourishing. Flower Communion brings balance to our liturgical year. Margaret Fleming is Worship Associate. 

 

June 23, 2013

"Animal Planet: Fact v. Fiction"

T.J. Boothroyd

 

T.J. will explore the relationship between us and our animal brethren and show that what's good for the animals is good for us. Elka Love is Worship Associate. 

 

June 30, 2013

"High Wire Without a Net: Why Religion Matters"

Reverend Ron Phares

 

Why does religion matter? What are the stakes? What are the possibilities? What can we realistically hope to expect from our faith? And is balance the key to it all? Conrad Paul is Worship Associate. 

    

Liturgical Theme for July: VARIETY