Old Age: Simulation vs. Reality
What if you and I "were given glasses with lenses smeared in Vaseline, cotton balls to stuff in our ears, weights to tie on our ankles?"
Then, "we were led through activities such as brushing our teeth, making beds, washing dishes and dusting the furniture."
Then, "we were told, this is what it feels like to be old."
Ann Burack-Weiss, the author of "The Lioness in Winter: Writing an Old Woman's Life, tells us she could not disagree more. "It is rare that an old person will have every disability or that those she does have will be of equal intensity. There is an ebb and fkow to physical functioning in late life just as there is in earlier years."
"And we are more than the sum of our bodily woes; we are individuals who meet the challenges of old age in individual ways," she asserts.
"We do not live to take care of ourselves and our habitats; we do these things in order to do other things that give our lives meaning."
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