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GuardYourEyes Chizuk E-Mail (No. 1228)  

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In Today's Issue  

  • 12-Step Recovery: Step 4 (p. 1)
     
  • Torah Attitude: GYE Principle 10 (p. 2)

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Category: Announcement 

 

GYE is launching Duvid Chaim's 12-Step phone Groups (info below) as well as Dov's 12-Step phone group.

 

 What's the difference between Dov and Duvid Chaim's groups?

 

Contact Dov for more info.
 

Duvid Chaim's 12-Step phone Groups

 

The Big Book Study Group

 

NEW CYCLE BEGINS

THIS COMING MONDAY APRIL 20, 2014


* 8:30am EST with Cap'n Steve
* 12 Noon EST with Duvid Chaim
* 10:00 pm EST with Cap'n Shlomo
* Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays!

The Conference Call In Number is (209) 255-1000
Participant Access Code 637207#

 

Participants should have a copy of the Big Book, or a printed download (see bottom of
this page), and the ability to highlight and take notes in the margins. This is important for your success in the program. And remember: participation is key - listening in on the sidelines is rarely successful.

 

Note: The 8:30-9:30 time was especially created to help yeshiva men in Beis Medrash and Kollel who can finish davening by 8:30 and need to be at their shtenders by 9:40/9:45. It's a great start to a kedusha-filled day!

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One-liner

  

 Try to replace guilt with gratitude. 

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Category: 12-Step Recovery

  

Step Four

Part 1

 

By Rabbi Yisrael Pinson

 

Rabbi Yisrael Pinson is the Director of the Daniel B. Sobel Friendship House in West Bloomfield, MI. Since joining the Friendship House he has helped create a local Jewish Recovery Community where recovering addicts are helped through support, guidance, friendship and community.  

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Category: Torah Attitude

 

GYE Principle 10: 

Redirecting the power in our souls

 

Part 2 (Click here for Part 1)

 

Our Sages have said (Sukkah 52a, discussing the desire for lust): "Whoever is greater than his friend, his Yetzer is greater as well". It is important to understand that, in a psychological sense, the Yetzer Tov and the Yetzer Hara are really the same inner force. The greater a person is, the more his soul's strengths require expression, and these strengths will ultimately burst forth and find expression in either a positive or negative way.

 

As Rav Tzadok (in Tzidkas Hatzadik #44) writes, if a person has major temptations, he should not be saddened about blemishes in his soul; on the contrary, he should be glad to realize that he has special strengths that need to be properly channeled. This, he explains, is what Chazal meant by "One who is greater than his friend, his Yetzer is greater as well."

 

Later on, Rav Tzadok explains (based on the Zohar) that the Dor Hamabul and the Dor Hamidbar who received the Torah, shared the same souls. And he explains that the reason is based on the above principle. The Dor Hamabul's major sin was spilling seed, as is well known from all the kabalistic oriented seforim, and the Dor Hamidbar were Zoche to receive the Torah. Rav Tzadok explains that the spiritual energy is one and the same. The fake desire for lust is the flip side of the same coin of a true desire for Torah and spirituality. And he explains further, that this generation will appear once again in the days before Moshiach, where the spiritual Kochos will once again succeed in overpowering the koach of lust.

 

So let us direct our spiritual vigor into our prayers. We will be amazed at how uplifting they can become! And let us start doing the mitzvos with enthusiasm and learn Torah with passion! We were given a gift by Hashem because the struggles we experience are really just the vibes of our souls, striving for genuine expression and a true connection with the Almighty.

 

Our Divine service can be so much more than average if we use the struggle in the way it was intended by Hashem, as a spring-board for growth. Spiritual progress that might take other people many years of intense Divine service to achieve, we can attain through this struggle in a very short time if we use it right!

 

It can also be very helpful to seek alternative ways of connecting to Hashem to find inner fulfillment. We can seek out Chesed projects, Torah projects or study new areas or techniques in Divine service. For that is what our souls are really yearning for: a meaningful connection with Hashem, and to fulfill that which we came down to the world to accomplish.

 

It is also important to point out that instead of running frantically away from the Yetzer Hara in fear, we can learn to run instead towards Hashem with joy. If we do this, the Yetzer Hara falls away by himself. As the Sefarim say: "Sur merah." How? Through "Aseh Tov!"

 

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