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GuardYourEyes Chizuk E-Mail (No. 1153)  

Getting stronger every day!
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Rabbi Feuerman's Friday Phone Conference

Parshas Eikev - When 'No' Means 'Yes'   


 8:30 AM NY Time

3:30 PM Israel Time

The call-in number is:
U.S: 209 255 1000              Israel: 076 599 0060
Participant PIN: 637207#

For archive of previous Shiurim see here.

 

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In Today's Issue

  • 12-Step Attitude: Acceptance Is the Answer
  • Testimonial: Accepting GYE's Help
  • Video of the Week: The Missing Tile Syndrome
  • Quote of the Day: But for the Grace of G-d 
  • Chizuk: Changing My Attitude through Acceptance  

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Category: 12-Step Attitude

 

Acceptance Is the Answer

 

A magical potion is available to us today. That potion is called acceptance.

We are asked to accept many things: ourselves, as we are; our feelings, needs, desires, choices, and current status of being. Other people, as they are. The status of our relationships with them. Problems. Blessings. Financial status. Where we live. Our work, our tasks, our level of performance at these tasks.

 

Resistance will not move us forward, nor will it eliminate the undesirable. But even our resistance may need to be accepted. Even resistance yields to and is changed by acceptance.

 

Acceptance is the magic that makes change possible. It is not forever; it is for the present moment.

 

Acceptance is the magic that makes our present circumstances good. It brings peace and contentment and opens the door to growth, change, and moving forward.

 

It shines the light of positive energy on all that we have and are. Within the framework of acceptance, we figure out what we need to do to take care of ourselves.

 

Acceptance empowers the positive and tells G-d we have surrendered to the Plan. We have mastered today's lesson, and are ready to move on.

 

Today, I will accept. I will relinquish my need to be in resistance to myself and my environment. I will surrender. I will cultivate contentment and gratitude. I will move forward in joy by accepting where I am today.


Quoted from the book The Language of Letting Go
by Melody Beattie.
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Announcement

 

The Nesivos Shalom Conference Call

 

SUNDAY Mornings from 9AM to 9:30AM EST 

 

Reb Noach Schwartz, LCSW will give a shiur in Nesivos Shalom specially geared to GYE members, followed by insights, sharing and Q&A.

 

Kindly call in for an enjoyable, educational, and chasidishe schmooze!

 

Call in number:

From U.S: (605) 562-3131

Israel: (076) 599-0060

(From other countries, see this page)

 

PIN# 952533 (for all countries)

 

For Reb Noach's therapy page  here.

For Reb Noach's website  here. 

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Category: Testimonial

 

Accepting GYE's Help

 

By olamhabanik

 

This is my first time trying to "get clean". I was in denial for many years, thinking that this "hobby" was no big deal, and even if it was a real problem, I felt it was impossible to overcome. 


 
I was referred to this site by a close friend, and after reading through the many posts I began to come to the realization that if all these members can do it, then I can, too.

 

 

Submit your testimonial. 

We are looking for testimony from recovering women, in particular. This disease knows no gender bias, and we'd like to carry the message of hope to women of all ages who still suffer. Please share your story with us.

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Category: Video of the week

 

The Missing Tile Syndrome

 

From Prager University


Have you ever thought to yourself, "I wish I were ___"? Adjectives may have included: thinner, taller, smarter, etc. If so, you're like virtually everyone else, and afflicted by "The Missing Tile Syndrome." As Dennis Prager explains, we often focus on the missing tile(s) in our lives, which robs us of happiness. In five minutes, learn how to fix your focus.

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Category: Quote of the Day

 

But for the Grace of G-d

 

AA Grapevine, Feb. 1993

 

"I'm still mystified by how I got sober, and the only answer that makes sense is that I stopped drinking (acting out) through the Grace of G-d. I was thinking about the difference between those of us who get sober and those who are still drinking, and I believe the difference is that we have accepted the grace that was offered. Every day, my Higher Power gives me the Grace to be sober, and every day I make the choice not to drink and to accept the Grace."

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One-liner

 

 Humility is our acceptance of ourselves. 

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Category: Chizuk

 

Changing My Attitude through Acceptance

 

People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are.

--George Bernard Shaw


It's easy to let circumstances determine how we think and behave. While it's true that some events seem devastating, our relationship with a Higher Power can help us accept and even grow from experiences that seem impossible to cope with.

We all have known men and women who've handled grave upsets far more easily than we have. How did they do it? They have no magic. Rather, they may be more comfortable letting their Higher Power help them accept and understand unfortunate circumstances. Once we accept our anger or disappointment, we're free to move on to better feelings. We begin to realize we have choices in how we look at problems.

We are never given more than we can handle. We can develop acceptance of any circumstances, but our success in doing so comes mainly through our reliance on Hashem to show us the way.

 

Daily meditation:

 

Hashem will help me handle the uncontrollable events of today. Through acceptance, I can change my feelings at any moment - even right now.

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