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May 2015
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Conference Materials from the BISC-MI, Advancing the Narrative, Inspiring the Future!
Check out the Aquila resources onlineicle Headline
A Call To Men
New From Lundy Bancroft
Engaging Offenders in Justice and Accountability Using Evidence Based Practices
David Adams' blog
Message from NFL
PRIVATE VIOLENCE
New Book from Michael Paymar!

 Greetings!  

 

Welcome to the next edition of the BISC-MI Domestic Violence Issues. Once again we are happy to bring the resources listed below to you. 

 

Please be sure to visit our revised website: http://www.biscmi.org/

 

People around the country and world are doing incredible work in their efforts to end domestic violence!

 

Until the violence ends,
 
The BISC-MI Board
Conference Materials from the BISC-MI, Advancing the Narrative, Inspiring the Future!
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Aquila
Check out the Aquila resources onlinehttp://www.biscmi.org/aquila/

The AQUILA Working Group is dedicated to providing accurate, evidence-based information about batterer intervention programs and their impact on men who batter.  

We are committed to enhancing dialogue and public awareness about these programs and about the potential for change for many men who have a history of domestic violence.

New From ACTM!
 



The Next Generation of Manhood
The Next Generation of Manhood

New From Lundy Bancroft

Hello Friends and Colleagues!

 

More than ten years after Why Does He Do That? was published, a companion book for it is finally out! 

 

It's called Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That: Encouragement for Women Involved With Angry and Controlling Men.

 

I decided to write a book of short pieces -- daily readings -- because abusive men create such tension and chaos that it can be difficult for women to find a chance to read a book in peace. Digesting long sections of text can be impossible for a woman when her partner demands constant catering and doesn't allow her to ever focus on herself.

 

The new book contains 365 entries, each of which takes just five or ten minutes to read. Each day the reader focuses on just one principle and works with it  mentally through the day. I offer her a short sentence that summarizes each piece, so that she can repeat those words to herself as she processes what she has read.

 

Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That will also be valuable for advocates, as it wends its way through the myriad issues that abused women have to take on in their daily lives.

 

If you can buy the book at a bookstore, you help keep those stores alive. Remember especially any independent bookstores in your area, which always need support. But if a bookstore is too far to get to, the book is also available online at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and Powells.


 

Best wishes to all for healing and hope,


 

Lundy

Lundy Bancroft
413 582-6700
Engaging Offenders in Justice and Accountability Using Evidence Based Practices


Engaging Offenders in Justice and Accountability Using Evidence Based Practices

NO REGISTRATION FEE


June 9-11, 2015 ● Albuquerque, NM

Effective probation responses gather reliable information about offenders and their history; reassess dangerousness over time; and collaborate with system and cultural/community partners to manage offenders appropriately. Outcomes include reductions in offending and maximizing the safety and autonomy of victims and their families, and greater wellbeing for communities.

Practitioners working with offenders will be better able to:
  • Engage, motivate and monitor offenders as they move through systems and programs
  • Expand their own role in promoting victim safety and autonomy
  • Identify and address disparate intervention outcomes
  • Clarify who needs to be accountable to whom, for individuals, agencies and systems
  • Discern the quality of evidence-based research, and apply it to their practice
  • Encourage multi-institutional, community and family capacity to hold men who batter accountable for their conduct and encourage them to change.
View the agenda here for featured presenters

Registration: This conference has been approved for Arrest Grantees, other OVW grantees, and participants who do not have an OVW grant. 
Other OVW Grantees must check with their OVW Grant Manager to approve travel funding to cover this conference.

Arrest (GTEAP) Grantees, you must use your OVW-issued grant number to register for this training.
All Other Registrants, please use this number to register: 2010-WEAX-1933

There is no registration fee to attend this training. Participants are responsible for their own airfare, meals and lodging. The hotel is the Hotel Albuquerque and lodging expenses are at the Government Per Diem rate of $83.00, plus 13% tax, for single or double occupancy per night. Hotel information and how to make a reservation is included in your confirmation once you register. Check your junk email box!

Questions
  • For questions related to the content of the conference, please contact Connie Sponsler Garcia, BWJP Training and TA Manager: 612-824-8768 x108, csponsler@bwjp.org.
  • For questions related to conference logistics or OVW grants, please contact Jeanne Larson, CGMP, at BWJP: 612-824-8768, x101; jlarson@bwjp.org.

Registration ends Monday, May 28, 2015
Follow David Adams' blog
Domestic Murder and Murder-Suicide: It's Not About the Relationship 

The headline from WIVBTV News in Buffalo read, "Troubled Relationship Ends Tragically."

 

Meanwhile, there was this headline in the Savannah Morning News, "Troubled Port Wentworth Marriage Ends in Murder."

 

These are two examples of how news media regularly misrepresent cases of domestic violence murders and murder-suicides; not just in their headlines but also in their reporting beneath the headlines. The end result of this skewed coverage is that the murder is presented as an outcome of a "troubled relationship" rather than as the end result of a violent abuser who is seeking to possessively control his partner, and in most cases, to prevent her from leaving him.

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Message from NFL regarding upcoming draft and additional work on domestic violence and sexual assault.

The league and its 32 clubs are working hard to get ready for the 2015 season. For the NFL, this includes developing the next phase of our education around social issues (domestic violence, sexual assault, DUI, child abuse, etc.).

We are communicating the NFL's revised Personal Conduct Policy to all employees, players and coaches. Our goal is to ensure everyone receives the same baseline education regarding domestic violence and sexual assault.

Now is the time when clubs look to add to their rosters and strengthen their team with new players, often right out of college, known as the NFL Draft (April 30-May 2 in Chicago). In our ongoing commitment to educate the NFL family on critical social issues, we wanted to share our approach to the Draft and explain our process as a whole.

The Draft
While the league facilitates the Draft process, each NFL club has its own player personnel department that identifies potential prospects according to roster needs.

The pool of potential draftees is derived primarily from those playing college football.

Baseline Draft Eligibility Rules require prospects to have been three years removed from high school. Additionally, many of our players have completed four seasons of collegiate football prior to joining the NFL family, and this is something we strongly encourage.

Once eligible, an extensive player evaluation occurs by club personnel from each individual team, which may include a player's talent, health, work ethic, leadership, football IQ and ability to compete. All are determining factors in a prospect's evaluation.

In short, our office oversees prospect eligibility and club compliance, and the individual clubs determine whether they will draft or sign a rookie prospect.

What's Different for 2015
In addition to comprehensive NFL security, football operations, and team background checks on all prospective players who attended the national and regional combines, we have implemented an Early Intervention Process with those prospects who have been reported, charged, or convicted of domestic violence and/or sexual assault issues.

Players with domestic violence/sexual assault in their background have been asked (both pre-, and post- draft) on several occasions to visit the league office and meet with a range of NFL personnel for education about our policy and to put a system in place to assist the prospect in a successful transition to the NFL. Expectations are established, resources committed and made available, and a work plan may be developed for the prospect once he is drafted or signed.

Education around domestic violence/sexual assault will start at the Draft, with a focus on character.

All prospects attending the Draft in Chicago are required to participate in the NFL's domestic violence/sexual assault education program. This establishes a foundation for ongoing education about and awareness of these issues.

For those prospects not attending the Draft in Chicago, all drafted and undrafted players will participate in the domestic violence, sexual assault and child abuse education at the annual Rookie Symposium and Club offseason programs.

While in Chicago, potential draftees also will participate in community visits that are linked to causes the league supports.

Prospects at the Draft will attend a mentoring luncheon where they will be paired with former NFL players. A similar session occurred at the scouting combine this past February in Indianapolis.

Key to these efforts is the message that life in the NFL is vastly different than life as a college athlete. The expectations, demands and responsibilities increase exponentially. In addition to athletic ability, those who play football professionally are expected to embrace and embody the NFL's values - Respect, Integrity, Responsibility to Team, and Resiliency - both on and off the field.

Our overarching goal is to positively impact society on the issues of domestic violence and sexual assault. We started with our internal NFL family, reaching more than 5,000 people already, but we have expectations that are much broader than that. We want to be a leader in these areas, and we absolutely embrace this responsibility.

Sincerely,


Anna Isaacson
SVP of Social Responsibility

PRIVATE VIOLENCE
   
Our Director Takes Home the Emmy!
Yes, it is true -- and so well deserved! Private Violence director Cynthia Hill won an Emmy for Outstanding Directing in a Lifestyle/ Culinary/Travel Program last week for her PBS series A Chef's Life. Read more about the show and her journey to create it here. We are so proud of Cynthia for the passion with which she approaches all of her work. Many of the same folks behind Private Violence also work on A Chef's Life. Congratulations to Cynthia and her entire team!

    

New Tools to Change The Conversation   

We are working in tandem with national partners to create a series of training videos tailored for specific audiences. We will  incorporate scenes from Private Violence and utilize the incredible footage culled over 10 years of interviews. These videos will allow us to reach hundreds of thousands of lawyers, medical professionals, students, advocates, and athletes with a multimedia, dynamic platform to discuss and learn about this complex issue. Please look for announcements on how to access these tools soon! 

 

private violence

 

Survivor Stories

Private Violence would not exist without survivors like Deanna and Kit who had the courage to share their stories. Since the launch of the film, we have been honored to hear from so many people who have been affected by domestic violence. We are inspired by their strength and their own stories of resilience. As Kit always says, "women are the experts in their own lives." Hearing and listening to the very people experiencing violence in their homes is where transformation and healing starts. In this spirit, we are reaching out to the survivor community to help shed light on what it is really like to live with domestic violence. Through our new weekly social media series, "Survivor Stories," we will anonymously highlight the experiences of survivors with shareable social media messages. Please post using the hashtag #ENDPrivateViolence and help bring domestic violence out of the shadows.    

 

If you would like to share your story, please send a few sentences to markaymedia@gmail.com.  

 

Kit Celebrates Advocates in Tennessee

This month, Kit gave a keynote address at the Tennessee Coalition to End Domestic and Sexual Violence's annual conference entitled "Celebrating Advocates and Their Work." Kit had this to say about the experience, "In Tennessee, and across the country, advocates and allies are working tirelessly to address and end violence against women and children. The work is still fraught with obstacles: those who see women as less than men (or worse, as the property of men), relentless victim blaming, and other isolating and marginalizing issues that should have been put to rest decades ago. The determination and wisdom of advocates continues to inspire me wherever I go. They are our unsung heroes."

 

If you are interested in organizing a screening or having Kit speak in your community, please contact us by email at orders@wmm.com or by phone at 212-925-0606 ext. 360

                              

In peace,

 

Cynthia, Kit, and the Private Violence Team



If you or someone you know needs refuge from an abusive situation, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

Please check our website for a listing of upcoming screenings and to download free materials and resources. 

 

http://www.privateviolence.com 


New Book from Michael Paymar!
Click for more information!

BISC-MI Mission Statement
  
We will provide a working forum for interaction and information sharing among agencies and individuals concerned with the provision of batterer intervention services in Michigan.
  
We will help create and maintain coordinated community actions that hold batterers accountable for their behavior and promote safety and empowerment for victims.
  
We will give safety, needs, and concerns of victims/survivors priority over the interests of batterers or any batterer intervention service model.
  
We will promote social change which works toward a society based on equality and nonviolence.
  

 

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