You might think that purging your closet is not exactly a fun ways to spend your time. So what happens? You procrastinate and ultimately end up giving in to the clutter -- lots and lots of clutter. It's not fun and it's not helping you in your efforts to always look and feel your best.
Enough! Turn up the volume on some favorite tunes, turn on all the lights, throw open the curtains and just do it! I know it's hard to part with your clothes, but make it easier by trying this approach:
Be decisive
Be practical
Be honest
Be unemotional
Some key questions you can ask yourself to help with your decision-making include:
How long has it been since I wore this?
Is it truly versatile? Can wear it with many things and in many different ways?
Does it look worn or tired?
Is it in need of repair? If so, can I justify the expense?
Will it look good enough for just one more season?
When in doubt, it goes out. Unless you have only five or so pounds to lose, do not keep things that fit you 10 pounds ago. Those jeans that you loved back then? By the time you are able to wear them again, if you are able to wear them again, they will likely be out of style. If they are in good condition, place them in a bag marked "Donate." Someone will be thrilled to wear them and will look good doing so!
And what about those cool things we categorize as "keepsakes," like that Chicago Bulls championship commemorative t-shirt? Try this. Look for a nice box, mark it "Keepsake Clothing," and then store it in a place other than your closet. No need to say goodbye... just abiento (French for see you later).
And finally, when you come across something that makes you think you might need it again someday, or that it might come in handy if the styles change, resist the urge to keep it just in case. A Zen parable beautifully and wisely illustrates the wisdom of such a mindset:
A wanderer on a lonely road came upon a torrential river that washed out the bridge. So, he built a solid heavy raft that carried him safely to the other bank. This is a good raft, he thought. If there is another river ahead, I can use it. And he carried that solid heavy raft for the rest of his life.
Amen, Brothers and Sisters.
Guest columnist Nancy Pipal is an executive presence and personal style consultant. You can learn more about her services here, or by calling 708.579.1016.